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For those no longer getting readings - how did you know you were done?

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bstalling:

--- Quote from: rosa0726 on April 25, 2019, 02:03:54 PM ---sawthelight yes. And I am to blame as well. I put so much into that they were telling me that even when the signs pointed elsewhere, I didn't want to believe it.

And I truly believe my husband was sent from the universe. I had given up hope and didn't think I would ever recover from the pain or ever have feelings for anyone ever again. I met my husband very randomly, without even looking and here we are married for almost 3 years and he still feels the same way about me as he did from day one.

So even though it wasn't the ending I thought I would have, it's still a happy ending. One thing this whole fiasco did teach me is when someone really wants you, they aren't afraid to express their feelings, they don't play games, they don't play hard to get, they don't leave you wondering and it shouldn't hurt so much.

Like i said, i am not saying there aren't people out there without gifts but none of the ones that I paid were correct for me.

The ironic part is, the only psychic who was ever right about me was a person my sister worked with. This psychic didn't do it for a living and never took money from anyone. She just knew things. She predicted my husband 15 years ago and was very specific about him. Details that at the time, made me cry because her description was nothing like what I thought I would wind up with. Very eerie and she was dead on and my sister didn't even ask her about me. She just went into it and my sister called me and told me what the woman said. Go forward 10 years after that prediction and my husband is exactly what she predicted.

So that's what makes me believe there are people out there who are gifted. I knew nothing about psychics at the time and she never did it for profit. But this woman nailed who I was going to marry, even though I didn't want to hear it at the time.

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why didnt you want to hear it at the time?

sawthelight:
she probably only wanted to hear she would end up with the guy she was calling about..BOY can I relate.  I had a few tell me I would meet someone great that would make me so happy but I was too hung up on the guy who was making me miserable. 

Miss Philosopher:
I began tiring of readings when there was no progress and timelines continued to get pushed out. It became really exhausting holding on for such long periods of time only for no real progress to be experienced. Situations get really old after awhile. You'll have some psychics to tell you to hang in there or whatever, but for what? If something is meant to happen then it will happen regardless if you wait around or not. I also knew I was done for the most part when readings would take a 180 degree change. It went from "he's the one" in the beginning, to "he WAS the one but chose not to learn his life lessons". It went from "He'll be moving back 'home' to you as his relocation is not permanent" over to "It's probably time for you to let this go as I see someone new coming in for you and your POI won't be relocating anytime soon" and that was after a year. Lol. So yeah. I held on much longer than I should have based upon readings for the first 6 months only for them to take a complete 180 degree change. Felt so disappointed, angry, and like I completely wasted my time and money.

rosa0726:
Still Tired, that is correct. I got the prediction 10 years before I ever met him. And at the time, there was another guy that i really liked and i thought he was the guy i was going to marry. His name was Frank. I never called psychics about him. This was way before my POI in my original post.

This woman my sister worked with told my sister I wasn't going to marry Frank and that it would end in a few months. She was right about that. He broke up with me a few months later. Then she said they guy I would marry would be younger (at the time, I had never been with someone even a month younger than me), darker skin color, I would meet him at a time when I didn't want to meet anybody and that my family would have a hard time accepting him but then they would grow to love him. When my sister called and told me, I started crying because I loved Frank so much. Now I think back to what the heck did I see in Frank lol.

Fast forward to 2012 and I met my husband who is younger than me by a decade, is of Indian background, my family was very skeptical at first but now they love him. Those were very specific things. Prior to my husband, I had only been with men from my culture who were older. If you had told me back then I wasn't going to marry someone from my culture and who was younger, I would have thought you were crazy. But look at me now lol.

sawthelight:
ah I see!  I was confused, thanks for clarifying :)  either way it's great that you are happy, at the end of the day that's all that matters.

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