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For those no longer getting readings - how did you know you were done?
happyk:
--- Quote from: rosa0726 on April 24, 2019, 08:00:32 PM ---When my POI, who everyone said was my twin flame, soulmate and who would never be with anyone else because it wasn't in our destiny, married someone else. When I found out he was getting married, i was done. I had been strung along for years and heard all the usual excuses that he was scared, his feelings were too strong for me, he didn't know how to express himself. And it wasn't just one psychic. I am embarrassed to say it was many and I spent a fortune over the course of 3 years.I got myself into debt over it.
Even when I was suspicious that there was someone else, i heard the same stories. It would never work out between them. It was just a passing infatuation. Fast-forward to 6 months later and he married her. That was it. I was done with psychics and never called one since. This all took place in 2012.
That was a dark time for me. i would go to bed on a Friday night and just stay ion bed til Monday morning. To say I was devestated is putting it mildly. I think part of it was because I so desperately wanted to believe them. I didn't think people could be that cruel and lead people on but sadly, those I dealt with, did. It took me a couple of years to get better and I am happy to say I am happily married now.
What I have with my husband isn't exactly what I felt for my ex. But he never leaves me wondering or lets me wait for a phone call. He was always very present and made sure he let me knew how he felt about me. And more importantly, he never makes me cry.
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Rosa, your story is heartbreaking. But I'm glad that you more have a wonderful husband. I hope the wounds from your past have now healed. Would you mind sharing what readers were right for you, if any of them were?
rosa0726:
Hi Happyk
Unfortunately, for me, none were right. I used mainly California Psychics. I used all of their so-called top psychics like Gine Rose, Uli, Seha, Nina. Nina at first I was very impressed by. The first time I spoke with her, she blew me away with the reading because I didn't say anything and she just went into it. And i just kept calling and calling to get reassurance.
But the end-result is he married someone else when some of them actually used words like they guaranteed we would end up together. Not one of them ever saw his wife in the picture and I called very frequently.
The funny part or should I say sad part is when i called a few of them saying he had gotten engaged to his wife, they changed their tune. And that's what put an end to it for me. If I call you a day earlier and you are telling me he is coming around and that we will reconcile any day and then i call you a day later and you tell me that you see this other woman around him but it wont last, then it finally hit me that it was fake.
I am not saying they aren't accurate for others but they weren't accurate for me. Not by a long shot. I called for 3 years about this person and not one predicted the final outcome.
sawthelight:
--- Quote from: rosa0726 on April 25, 2019, 01:32:45 PM ---Hi Happyk
Unfortunately, for me, none were right. I used mainly California Psychics. I used all of their so-called top psychics like Gine Rose, Uli, Seha, Nina. Nina at first I was very impressed by. The first time I spoke with her, she blew me away with the reading because I didn't say anything and she just went into it. And i just kept calling and calling to get reassurance.
But the end-result is he married someone else when some of them actually used words like they guaranteed we would end up together. Not one of them ever saw his wife in the picture and I called very frequently.
The funny part or should I say sad part is when i called a few of them saying he had gotten engaged to his wife, they changed their tune. And that's what put an end to it for me. If I call you a day earlier and you are telling me he is coming around and that we will reconcile any day and then i call you a day later and you tell me that you see this other woman around him but it wont last, then it finally hit me that it was fake.
I am not saying they aren't accurate for others but they weren't accurate for me. Not by a long shot. I called for 3 years about this person and not one predicted the final outcome.
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wow, I'm so sorry this happened to you :( Unfortunately, you aren't the first person to share a story like this....I'm glad you've moved on to a better place but what a rough lesson to learn.
hope36:
--- Quote from: rosa0726 on April 25, 2019, 01:32:45 PM ---Hi Happyk
Unfortunately, for me, none were right. I used mainly California Psychics. I used all of their so-called top psychics like Gine Rose, Uli, Seha, Nina. Nina at first I was very impressed by. The first time I spoke with her, she blew me away with the reading because I didn't say anything and she just went into it. And i just kept calling and calling to get reassurance.
But the end-result is he married someone else when some of them actually used words like they guaranteed we would end up together. Not one of them ever saw his wife in the picture and I called very frequently.
The funny part or should I say sad part is when i called a few of them saying he had gotten engaged to his wife, they changed their tune. And that's what put an end to it for me. If I call you a day earlier and you are telling me he is coming around and that we will reconcile any day and then i call you a day later and you tell me that you see this other woman around him but it wont last, then it finally hit me that it was fake.
I am not saying they aren't accurate for others but they weren't accurate for me. Not by a long shot. I called for 3 years about this person and not one predicted the final outcome.
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Dang :( that's rough! Take care and hope you find peace!!
rosa0726:
sawthelight yes. And I am to blame as well. I put so much into that they were telling me that even when the signs pointed elsewhere, I didn't want to believe it.
And I truly believe my husband was sent from the universe. I had given up hope and didn't think I would ever recover from the pain or ever have feelings for anyone ever again. I met my husband very randomly, without even looking and here we are married for almost 3 years and he still feels the same way about me as he did from day one.
So even though it wasn't the ending I thought I would have, it's still a happy ending. One thing this whole fiasco did teach me is when someone really wants you, they aren't afraid to express their feelings, they don't play games, they don't play hard to get, they don't leave you wondering and it shouldn't hurt so much.
Like i said, i am not saying there aren't people out there without gifts but none of the ones that I paid were correct for me.
The ironic part is, the only psychic who was ever right about me was a person my sister worked with. This psychic didn't do it for a living and never took money from anyone. She just knew things. She predicted my husband 15 years ago and was very specific about him. Details that at the time, made me cry because her description was nothing like what I thought I would wind up with. Very eerie and she was dead on and my sister didn't even ask her about me. She just went into it and my sister called me and told me what the woman said. Go forward 10 years after that prediction and my husband is exactly what she predicted.
So that's what makes me believe there are people out there who are gifted. I knew nothing about psychics at the time and she never did it for profit. But this woman nailed who I was going to marry, even though I didn't want to hear it at the time.
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