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Different psychics saying different things
sawthelight:
--- Quote from: Love2lovenj on February 17, 2019, 09:28:41 PM ---I'm sorry this happened to you. Didn't some advisors give you a negative outcome?
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Yes. Many did.
Sorry unicorn. But there’s someone better out there for you.
josh34:
--- Quote from: unicornlove on February 17, 2019, 09:08:23 PM ---I have lost all faith in psychics and readings. Bit wine. All told me my ex would talk to me, be happy to see me, etc. I was brave and went, saw my ex's mom, and my former dance teacher. No one was happy to see me. Everyone stared at me and whispering. I saw my ex dance on stage but not off stage. He did not talk to me. I ended up crying and leaving after like an hour.
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I'm sorry this happened. I think the issue is you read with a lot on Bitwine. 99% are frauds. You should've read with others we've mentioned. They would've cost less overall, and would've given you far more accurate (real) predictions. I think another issue is, (And it's okay! We all have things that we're not perfect with!) that your mindset is very doom-and-gloom. I can't imagine that NOBODY was happy to see you. I feel that you probably see someone look at you and then look away and assume it to mean the worst, and are probably quick to assume, "they hate me. Fuck". But you can't think like that. Just as if an advisor chooses not to respond to a message (many don't.), or won't pick up the first time you "call", you shouldn't default to "they hate me. They're ignoring me". They're probably busy. I think one thing you really need to work on is getting out of that mindset that the world is out to get you, or that everyone hates you, based upon the tiniest action which could occur due to a myriad of reasons. The fact that he didn't talk to you shouldn't give any negative connotation. Maybe he was busy? Maybe the feelings are there, maybe they aren't, but you cannot live with this "woe is me, everyone hates me" mindset. It's going to destroy you:( And it's very black and white thinking. It's a very warped perspective and I think at this time you should work on getting out of that frame of mind. Because honestly? Despite any situation, you ARE worth it, and you ARE an amazing individual with a LOT to offer. Hold onto that:) And if you don't feel like calling or talking to psychics, maybe that's a good choice! It can be addicting, and can be harmful. Especially with 99% of them out there being frauds. Take this time to work on yourself, and boost your self esteem and get away from that negative and unhealthy mindset of "everyone hates me". Because I can guarentee you they dont:) Best of luck, Uni! <3
unicornlove:
had a positive reading with Regina Starr :-*
negative ~ scarlet and field_expert >:(
I'm so frustrated. Everybody tells you something different. Some people sugar coat, fairy tale, only tell you what you want to hear. Everyone gives you different outcome and contradicts themselves. I am so confused. You dont know who is right, wrong, lying, sugar coat, fairy tale, accurate, not accurate, whose making up stuff,
I'm sorry I need to vent. I am so lost and confused and frustrated. Today has been a bad day. In more ways than one.
unicornlove:
--- Quote from: marciamia on February 15, 2019, 04:25:35 PM ---
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--- Quote from: unicornlove on February 15, 2019, 02:02:41 AM ---ok :-[ my anxiety is super high. For this event this weekend.
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Relax! Dress up, and have a glass of wine or something (if you drink) before the event so you're not too stressed out!
Be confident, laugh with other friends, and enjoy yourself!!! Good luck!! :)
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I will be dressing up :-* if I was scammed, and this POI does not talk to me, I will be drinking afterwards haha not before. I don't want to say something I will regret {under alcohol}. My biggest fear is disappointment , you know, the predictions not coming to pass. But at this point the only way I will know is to be brave and go and see what happens :-\
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Just out of curiosity, is he going to be there with his girlfriend?
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he does not have a girlfriend as far a s I know. Some psychics tell me he has a girlfriend, some say he is talking to a girl, some say it's love, some say it's not love, and others tells me no he doesnt have a girlfriend. See why I am so confused ?? :(
applecheeks:
--- Quote from: unicornlove on March 01, 2019, 01:24:03 AM ---had a positive reading with Regina Starr :-*
negative ~ scarlet and field_expert >:(
I'm so frustrated. Everybody tells you something different. Some people sugar coat, fairy tale, only tell you what you want to hear. Everyone gives you different outcome and contradicts themselves. I am so confused. You dont know who is right, wrong, lying, sugar coat, fairy tale, accurate, not accurate, whose making up stuff,
I'm sorry I need to vent. I am so lost and confused and frustrated. Today has been a bad day. In more ways than one.
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Sweetie....you are just tangling your own self up at this point. I have seen your threads. It looks like this broke-up some while ago, and I saw you said he has you blocked. You then went to an event where if he had wanted to talk to you, he had the opportunity.... but didn't. It sounds like you are denying the real-life obvious signs, and just are looking for readers who will tell you the fantasy you want to hear, even when it doesn't match the reality. Unfortunately there are readers who will do that. They tell everyone what they want to hear because it keeps them paying, gets them good ratings, keeps them coming back. You are just throwing your money away to hear fairy tales to make you feel better. It sounds like you don't want to listen to those who tell you the truth, or what you don't want to hear. You talk about it like you are flipping a magic 8 ball over and over to get the answers you want. It just doesn't work that way.
I am not saying this to be mean. You just are obviously in a very unhealthy pattern with this. You will just keep throwing money away at readings trying to find people to say what you want them to in order to help you to deny the truth that is in front of you. There are people glad to take your money and help you with that. It will just leave you empty-handed, broke, and all the more hurt.
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