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lightme:
4ever, I think there is nothing wrong to love someone quietly
in our heart. I used to love my first love in my heart for 13 years, until
my SM replaced him totally. then I found him in fb we started to talk and
I realized I don't love him anymore and he is not even my type now.
he is considered good looking but knowing his personality now I don't understand
why I even liked him.

someone wrote here that if we are still crazy over someone it is
probably we don't know that person well enough yet. not implying
anything regarding your situation. I think you contributed alot
to this forum about how real are the psychics.

Elaan:

--- Quote from: 4everhopeful on October 08, 2011, 07:45:08 PM ---I dont care anymore what other people think, or how long its been. Im not ashamed to say that I still love the man. But Im not sitting around waiting for a phone call that very well may never come, but at the same time it just might. No one knows. And it hurts no one for me to still have feelings for this man. At least I know that I felt true unconditional love for someone at least once in my life.

--- End quote ---

4ever,

I have to say I think that what you just said are some of the most truthful and healing comments I have read on this board.  We all have to come to our healing our own way and if this is the way for us, then no one can say its wrong.  Thank you for your honesty because I know that I have and do feel the exact same way. 

When the world says, "Give up,"
Hope whispers, "Try it one more time."
~Author Unknown


You are true to your name.  Kudos for you!! 

positivethoughts2:
Yes 4ever - be true to thyself. Whatever form that comes in.

4everhopeful:
Thank you both. I guess I am true to my name, lol. I dont give up easily. And the last psychic I spoke with told me that I know in my heart what the outcome will be. I seem to wonder sometime if its wishful thinking on my part but maybe it really is my heart and intuition telling me not to completely give up.
I am open to meeting someone new and if someone comes along that makes me feel great and content and happy, then I will gladly accept a relationship with that new person. But there has to be feelings of wanting to be with that new person and no feelings of hesitance or resistance. If it is meant to be with someone new, I will have the feelings Im supposed to have early on. So I am open to something new, but inside I still wish my predictions would come true as they have for some of the others here. All I want is another chance, if it doesnt work out, then I will absolutely put it in my past. But like the song says, "A heart needs a second chance".
And thank you for understanding and not bashing me or insinuating that Im stupid for hanging on.

loveblooms:
4ever for how long have you not been in touch with your ex. I was in some sort of relationship, although it was not defined, but that was a strong connection I had ever felt, for me its 16 months no contact. I am definitely not waiting but hoping, sometime I feel foolish but that is how life goes on, no matter what I do, with whomsoever I am, memories bounce back. True love never fades away.
I think it's okay, why to resist those feeling, after all it was a relationship which we had nurtured with our love, feelings and compassion. I feel the pain but trying to make it my strength.
4everhopeful, believe it no matter what we are destined to be happy,  keep the doors open, greet every love with love so that we will never regret that we played it cool, who knows one day Love would knock at the door smiling and will sweep you away  :)

In my heart I still believe love will bloom.

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