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Don’t know who or what to believe. Summary post.

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flora0250:
All true for sure. In my case it was public but (ahem) I had to do a bit of digging to see it. ::hangs head in shame:: so... it might not be so applicable in that way in my particular case but yes I’ve seen that!! I do however think ... like I said *hes* not really posting anything about them or anything... so ... idk. Can’t make much of that either. Most guys probably don’t post much. And since he’s still going through his divorce (I think???) he may not want anything to be public. She doesn’t have much public at all and really nothing about them ... so idk. Like you all said though you can’t make much of anything. Me personally since I haven’t been with someone in so long I would actually want to share good news if there was any and I was really pretty sure of it. Because it would be something people would be happy for me about I think after all this time. When he and I were together I didn’t dare send him a friend request even because I thought it would be too intrusive. (More eye rolls at self).

Fidget1028:
Yeah, in the posts I was referencing (and to be clear, this wasn't my POI, just friends of mine) it was the woman who put the posts up. My first inclination was that it was intended for his ex girlfriend's eyes. Regardless,  it was tacky as hell, and not appropriate when there's a child involved.

flora0250:
Update. Okay. I think I’m sufficiently fed up enough now. Nothing happened btw. Just feeling kind of ... ugh. Over it. Lol maybe it’s temporary. Ugh so awful though because when a reader would tell me - “you’ll hear from him once you let go” - well every time I start to feel more like I’m letting go (and not like an angry let go but a let it be kind of let go)... I’m like. Okay. Well so now I’ll hear from him??? Lol. Freaking “let it go.” Lol. I think that’s the worst thing a reader or anyone has ever said to me. That I’ll hear from him once I “let go.” Because then I get all sucked back in to not letting go. Smh.

flora0250:
Thank you also to all those that have reached out and replied publicly and privately much appreciated although I haven’t had time to respond a lot yet. Happy holidays to all.

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