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Why I started reading - input from other appreciated
LAW1974:
--- Quote from: ladya on December 17, 2018, 09:26:16 PM ---jhuskindle if the love is there, there's always hope in this lifetime. don't lose hope and don't go back on your instincts if you feel he's the one. i wouldn't call myself a hopeless romantic, far from it lol im a skeptic if anything but i believe in the power of love. if a person is in love with someone they can only run away for so long. the heart always wins (unless theyre an actual narc or something). i've witnessed this over and over in my own life and in the lives of others. you can't run from your heart forever but what we choose to do when they do come back is an entirely different story and we may be over them. but i believe if two people really love each other, there's always a way. love and money are the two strongest power players in life in my opinion and love will always win over fear in the end. maybe not right away, but in the end.
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Thanks for writing this.... I think I agree! I keep going over and over things in my head and I think it's why maybe the gifted readers might get things correct but WHY timelines are off! Humans just arent all that predictable (i guess call it free will if you must). And they can fight whats in their heart but timing in 2 peoples life is so important. It's easy to say things like he will fight for you or go to the ends of the earth for you if he loves you but I am not that naive, It's not that simple! There's no such thing as a knight on a white horse:).
Anyway, so we may be shocked that they come back in 5 years and maybe we have moved on! TIMING.... Again, they are ready for us and we were ready for them before! And maybe, just maybe, we will circle back AGAIN???? I love this article
https://www.elitedaily.com/dating/love-purgatory/1044856
ladya:
--- Quote from: LAW1974 on December 17, 2018, 09:57:48 PM ---
--- Quote from: ladya on December 17, 2018, 09:26:16 PM ---jhuskindle if the love is there, there's always hope in this lifetime. don't lose hope and don't go back on your instincts if you feel he's the one. i wouldn't call myself a hopeless romantic, far from it lol im a skeptic if anything but i believe in the power of love. if a person is in love with someone they can only run away for so long. the heart always wins (unless theyre an actual narc or something). i've witnessed this over and over in my own life and in the lives of others. you can't run from your heart forever but what we choose to do when they do come back is an entirely different story and we may be over them. but i believe if two people really love each other, there's always a way. love and money are the two strongest power players in life in my opinion and love will always win over fear in the end. maybe not right away, but in the end.
--- End quote ---
Thanks for writing this.... I think I agree! I keep going over and over things in my head and I think it's why maybe the gifted readers might get things correct but WHY timelines are off! Humans just arent all that predictable (i guess call it free will if you must). And they can fight whats in their heart but timing in 2 peoples life is so important. It's easy to say things like he will fight for you or go to the ends of the earth for you if he loves you but I am not that naive, It's not that simple! There's no such thing as a knight on a white horse:).
Anyway, so we may be shocked that they come back in 5 years and maybe we have moved on! TIMING.... Again, they are ready for us and we were ready for them before! And maybe, just maybe, we will circle back AGAIN???? I love this article
https://www.elitedaily.com/dating/love-purgatory/1044856
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that's a great article, i read it before. a lot of elite daily stuff is meh but i really like that one. i always loved the big and carrie, bonnie and clyde, ross and rachel type of love lol i always wanted that. to me that was real life. when things dont work out due to timing is prob the worst kind of pain imo because it's not like youre not compatible or too much happened to make it work. there's always that "what if". i don't believe the universe wants us to suffer and brings things to us just to take them away. i feel like when you feel the love deep down to your bones and you know its not over, its because its not. people are complex and everyone has their own path and sometimes it takes a person a week others a month and sometimes it takes years for a person to realize. i dont love many people at all but if i love someone its forever. i don't believe love goes away. i may not be in love with them anymore but i'll always love someone forever. if an ex i loved called me 20 years from now and said they need me, i wouldn't ask questions id be there in a heartbeat and i know my exes would do the same no matter what happened between us. just who I am. i also don't believe in the white horse thing, life isnt a fairytale. we know when someone loves us. at least we should feel it energetically. what they do externally is different and may not always match how a person feels but we always know deep down if a person loves us.
Dreamer23:
Thank you ladya for these beautiful messages. I completely agree!
And I loved the article too.
Thanks for sharing <3
jhuskindle:
--- Quote from: ladya on December 17, 2018, 10:48:51 PM ---
--- Quote from: LAW1974 on December 17, 2018, 09:57:48 PM ---
--- Quote from: ladya on December 17, 2018, 09:26:16 PM ---jhuskindle if the love is there, there's always hope in this lifetime. don't lose hope and don't go back on your instincts if you feel he's the one. i wouldn't call myself a hopeless romantic, far from it lol im a skeptic if anything but i believe in the power of love. if a person is in love with someone they can only run away for so long. the heart always wins (unless theyre an actual narc or something). i've witnessed this over and over in my own life and in the lives of others. you can't run from your heart forever but what we choose to do when they do come back is an entirely different story and we may be over them. but i believe if two people really love each other, there's always a way. love and money are the two strongest power players in life in my opinion and love will always win over fear in the end. maybe not right away, but in the end.
--- End quote ---
Thanks for writing this.... I think I agree! I keep going over and over things in my head and I think it's why maybe the gifted readers might get things correct but WHY timelines are off! Humans just arent all that predictable (i guess call it free will if you must). And they can fight whats in their heart but timing in 2 peoples life is so important. It's easy to say things like he will fight for you or go to the ends of the earth for you if he loves you but I am not that naive, It's not that simple! There's no such thing as a knight on a white horse:).
Anyway, so we may be shocked that they come back in 5 years and maybe we have moved on! TIMING.... Again, they are ready for us and we were ready for them before! And maybe, just maybe, we will circle back AGAIN???? I love this article
https://www.elitedaily.com/dating/love-purgatory/1044856
--- End quote ---
that's a great article, i read it before. a lot of elite daily stuff is meh but i really like that one. i always loved the big and carrie, bonnie and clyde, ross and rachel type of love lol i always wanted that. to me that was real life. when things dont work out due to timing is prob the worst kind of pain imo because it's not like youre not compatible or too much happened to make it work. there's always that "what if". i don't believe the universe wants us to suffer and brings things to us just to take them away. i feel like when you feel the love deep down to your bones and you know its not over, its because its not. people are complex and everyone has their own path and sometimes it takes a person a week others a month and sometimes it takes years for a person to realize. i dont love many people at all but if i love someone its forever. i don't believe love goes away. i may not be in love with them anymore but i'll always love someone forever. if an ex i loved called me 20 years from now and said they need me, i wouldn't ask questions id be there in a heartbeat and i know my exes would do the same no matter what happened between us. just who I am. i also don't believe in the white horse thing, life isnt a fairytale. we know when someone loves us. at least we should feel it energetically. what they do externally is different and may not always match how a person feels but we always know deep down if a person loves us.
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So true! Thank you for reinforcing/ validating!
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