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From the other side of things. Hope this is helpful.
bstalling:
Yea, the "not being able to distinguish who I'm seeing" needs to be worked on. Describe the person,either physically or character wise. Just dont assume its the same person.
star1:
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--- Quote from: star1 on December 04, 2018, 01:17:10 PM ---I agree on most of your points except #5. If I am being given bad news, I want to be given validated evidence, or it's too generic for me of a reading. Anyone can say "look, you're just not going to work out". The point of being psychic is to explain why, and I'd even pay extra because at the end of the day, I would come back to that reader knowing that they ended up being right because of the validated info they gave. There are a few readers who seem to be "doom and gloom" on the board and for me, it's very easy to give bad news readings and have customers come back and go "well at least that reader was honest". Were they, though? They've told almost 100% of people the same generic "it's not going to work out" readings. That's not genuine. A good reader is someone who gives unbiased and balanced answers. There are a few who are well known to play the easy game and just be negative about relationships - because it's the safest option.
I agree very much so with your point that there are some people on here with an "on off" relationship, so generally they will reconcile but it's not because it's genuine and it's hardly much of a surprise.. It doesn't make the reconcile wonderful and healthy.
And I can guarantee that psychics have had some really creepy customers in the past, stalkerish obsessive dangerous behaviour that probably makes the reader worried for the POI (the person the customer is calling about's) safety.
I also disagree with #7. I'm sorry, but a really good reader shouldn't confuse and mix energies. We all are unique as people like we are in our energies. It's okay for a reader to distinguish deceased family members okay (in my experience), but they confuse energies? Put it this way, if I called for a reading on my ex and I was told I'd get contact but it was another ex who ended up contacting me or some new guy that comes in, that wouldn't be good enough for me. I certainly wouldn't be going "Omg that reader is amazing, they're so right but it was another person". You may think I being unrealistic, but I've actually been to mediums who haven't confused energies at all and got the person spot on. No, they were right but years out or with another person.. It happened exactly as they said.
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I agree with number 7 as well. If a reader mixes up energies, I don’t consider that reader to be accurate and won’t go back. If I’m asking about a situation, I want to know about that situation, not another one.
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I'm with you on that 100%.
jhuskindle:
--- Quote from: bstalling on December 04, 2018, 03:52:05 AM ---
In regards to point 5, try to work on your articulation or at least try to relate the immaturity back to the client EX: Because they feel this way, they will do this. It improves the quality of the reading and avoids the "vague" label we cli
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Thank you for this feedback!
jhuskindle:
--- Quote from: star1 on December 04, 2018, 01:17:10 PM ---I agree on most of your points except #5. If I am being given bad news, I want to be given validated evidence, or it's too generic for me of a reading. Anyone can say "look, you're just not going to work out". The point of being psychic is to explain why, and I'd even pay extra because at the end of the day, I would come back to that reader knowing that they ended up being right because of the validated info they gave. There are a few readers who seem to be "doom and gloom" on the board and for me, it's very easy to give bad news readings and have customers come back and go "well at least that reader was honest". Were they, though? They've told almost 100% of people the same generic "it's not going to work out" readings. That's not genuine. A good reader is someone who gives unbiased and balanced answers. There are a few who are well known to play the easy game and just be negative about relationships - because it's the safest option.
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This is very helpful feedback, thank you. I probably jump to the point with out explaining a bit too often. I will work on that. I dont tend to mix energies so I cant say, but for those who do I do think there is still something to be said. Plus let me tell you if a guy likes blondes I can see a blonde woman and assume is the same one, so if you have a type then for sure they might come up mixed. But I see what you mean.
jhuskindle:
--- Quote from: candiednut on December 04, 2018, 01:47:29 PM ---#3 - I disagree. Not everyone asks about a distant partner or ex...I ask mostly career questions or non-romantic relationships. Psychics have always assumed that I am asking about someone romantic even when its platonic (or they assume its a guy when its a girl with a unisex name)...probably for the same reason you listed that they make this assumption.
#8 - How can you trust the information you are getting is accurate and for the highest good, if you dont know where they are coming from?
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3. Makes sense, I do a lot of career and they are great, I'd say easier because the answers are less complicated without the emotional stuff.
8. Through many many years of testing.
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