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How does it work? *warning, very cynical view here*
star1:
--- Quote from: Dreamer23 on December 01, 2018, 02:26:43 PM ---I've had psychics tell me he is not thinking about me, he is happy in a relationship. Granted that was the 1% of psychics that I read with.
So you do get negative answers from psychics every now and then...just have to go to a lot of them and believe me, you'll get the negative readings that hit you like a ton of bricks lol.
Yes it's true that they can pick up on what you believe and feel. Also they can make stuff up. Nothing has been 100% true in terms of what any psychics have said to me. Which makes me believe that a lot of it is guess work, some of it is some talent and intuitive abilities, but often it's guessing and also people can change their mind, nobody can tell the future.
I doubted a lot about POI's feelings towards me. Always back and forth. I've had a few spiritual psychics tell me: what do you feel in your heart? Forget about what is happening or not happening, what is the energy that you feel?
People can love you for a lifetime and they may or may not act on that.
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Hmm, but isn't it funny how all of these guys love us but "won't act upon it"? If a man really loves you, he will do the right actions to come forth. I think that's just excuses from readers. Yes occasionally the guy does care about someone but he has his issues going on whether commitment or being afraid to come forward first, etc. But realistically if someone loves you, they'd do something about it.
Dreamer23:
--- Quote from: star1 on December 01, 2018, 02:29:58 PM ---
--- Quote from: Dreamer23 on December 01, 2018, 02:26:43 PM ---I've had psychics tell me he is not thinking about me, he is happy in a relationship. Granted that was the 1% of psychics that I read with.
So you do get negative answers from psychics every now and then...just have to go to a lot of them and believe me, you'll get the negative readings that hit you like a ton of bricks lol.
Yes it's true that they can pick up on what you believe and feel. Also they can make stuff up. Nothing has been 100% true in terms of what any psychics have said to me. Which makes me believe that a lot of it is guess work, some of it is some talent and intuitive abilities, but often it's guessing and also people can change their mind, nobody can tell the future.
I doubted a lot about POI's feelings towards me. Always back and forth. I've had a few spiritual psychics tell me: what do you feel in your heart? Forget about what is happening or not happening, what is the energy that you feel?
People can love you for a lifetime and they may or may not act on that.
--- End quote ---
Hmm, but isn't it funny how all of these guys love us but "won't act upon it"? If a man really loves you, he will do the right actions to come forth. I think that's just excuses from readers. Yes occasionally the guy does care about someone but he has his issues going on whether commitment or being afraid to come forward first, etc. But realistically if someone loves you, they'd do something about it.
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I agree. They should definitely do something about it. But then I guess it's the choice of the person who gets the reading...they can choose to move on, or to wait. I think at some point if there is no coming forward from POI, everybody moves on. There is nothing else to do.
star1:
--- Quote from: Dreamer23 on December 01, 2018, 02:43:17 PM ---
--- Quote from: star1 on December 01, 2018, 02:29:58 PM ---
--- Quote from: Dreamer23 on December 01, 2018, 02:26:43 PM ---I've had psychics tell me he is not thinking about me, he is happy in a relationship. Granted that was the 1% of psychics that I read with.
So you do get negative answers from psychics every now and then...just have to go to a lot of them and believe me, you'll get the negative readings that hit you like a ton of bricks lol.
Yes it's true that they can pick up on what you believe and feel. Also they can make stuff up. Nothing has been 100% true in terms of what any psychics have said to me. Which makes me believe that a lot of it is guess work, some of it is some talent and intuitive abilities, but often it's guessing and also people can change their mind, nobody can tell the future.
I doubted a lot about POI's feelings towards me. Always back and forth. I've had a few spiritual psychics tell me: what do you feel in your heart? Forget about what is happening or not happening, what is the energy that you feel?
People can love you for a lifetime and they may or may not act on that.
--- End quote ---
Hmm, but isn't it funny how all of these guys love us but "won't act upon it"? If a man really loves you, he will do the right actions to come forth. I think that's just excuses from readers. Yes occasionally the guy does care about someone but he has his issues going on whether commitment or being afraid to come forward first, etc. But realistically if someone loves you, they'd do something about it.
--- End quote ---
I agree. They should definitely do something about it. But then I guess it's the choice of the person who gets the reading...they can choose to move on, or to wait. I think at some point if there is no coming forward from POI, everybody moves on. There is nothing else to do.
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Exactly.
smoothie88:
A couple of you ladies have mentioned about trusting our gut feelings or our intuitions. But how do you distinguish intuition vs insecurity or intuition vs hopes/dreams.
Reason I said this: what if what you thought was your intuition telling you he’s done and has no love for you just turns out to be insecurity or sometimes your self-protection mechanism as your brain is trying to kill any false hope and protect yourself from further hurt?
Or opposite situation when your “intuition” tells you he still loves you he has his struggle he will come around etc but turns out it’s just your false hopes/dreams taking over?
In my case, since the moment he broke up with me in August until perhaps a week ago, my “intuition” my “gut feelings” told me it’s not done yet, he’s struggling, he’s hurt, he’s in pain, he’s not happy with her. I even convinced myself by pointing out all the evidence (or so I thought, it could be just me reading too much into things) the way how he’s so grumpy around me as if he’s trying to mask his pain, he’s spending extra time at work even weekends (instead of going home to her). (Yes if you haven’t read my other posts, I work with this man, see him daily, “lucky” me!).
But you know what, he’s somewhere in South America now going on a birthday trip with her and I bet my “intuition” was just false hopes and dreams, he’s probably having the best time of his life right now while pathetically I still call psychics to hear them telling me that “he’s torn”, “he’s the victim of his responsibility”, “he doesn’t want to be apart from you ”, “he his feelings/huge chemistry for you”. And this is all the credible ones, QoC18, Kisha, Shelly.
Because the truth is, if he wants you ENOUGH, you will know it, he will come and get you. Period. Men are simple/straightforward.
star1:
My gut feeling is very honest, very honest. I (at first) find it hard to distinguish between gut feeling and worrying because where I'm so negative - it's easily mistaken for that instead of intuition. A gut feeling is something you cannot shake off.. You can get drunk with friends, watch any TV programme you enjoy, be around people you love - but it's still niggling inside of you for a long time. And yes for me it literally feels like the feeling is coming from my gut so strongly. I've had gut feelings many times, usually gut feelings for me are bad.. I had a bad gut feeling about my ex and I chose to ignore it, and I thought to myself "well how come all of these readers say he cares and is coming back?". But there's something that happened to me that made me question gut feelings and even free will vs destiny. If you'd like to know, I'm happy to PM you it. But honestly, I always always trust my gut.. I ignored it all of these months and decided to surpress my intuition, and I'm paying the price. I never pay attention to my gut and I need to begin to.
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