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Super Frustrated and Should Know Better
star1:
--- Quote from: Miss Philosopher on November 28, 2018, 09:16:24 PM ---I agree with Star1 again.
My pattern is this: When a thing first begins happening, in a bad way, I'm like in a state of shock. I get a reading and I live by it. I continue to do this, especially when they see changes for the better, even if it is only temporary. Somehow, I then "get used to" said behavioral patterns, when really, I should have cut that shit off immediately, but for whatever, reason, I don't. I continue in this pattern of readings, believing, hoping, not because I'm weak, but because I'm hopeful and mostly an optimist. But then, a point comes, to where, I get tired of the cycles, patterns, etc. and then I begin taking the readings with a grain of salt and I set a timeline for myself to when I'm going to just be done and then I reach the end of said timeline and don't see any changes and then ......I just don't have readings anymore or they are only like once every few years for shits and giggles............until the next shitty situation occurs LOL. Rinse and repeat.
I do also think it has to do with personality type. For some personalities, yeah they have a zero tolerance thing going on and first time you screw up, you're done lol. (My son is like that). Others, here are more sensitive and understanding and compassionate and those traits tend to be the very traits that keep them holding on for longer but not like 5 10 years. They will usually get tired and set timelines and that's it. Then you have those that most likely suffer from self esteem issues and those are usually the ones you will find holding on for decades. They call it love, and maybe it is, but there's more to it then that. They never get to a point where they feel or KNOW they deserve something better.
That's just my take on it.
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Someone said that when a reader tells you good news, it's been proven that dopamine releases in the brain when we hear something amazing like the ex is coming back, and that's what causes some of the addiction because people chase to get that high again. That's why people when they hear bad news, keep getting readings until they hear something that they like to "comfort" them.
I'm quite weird as a person I just impulsively decide one day that enough is enough and I'm done. Like with the first POI, I didn't think I'd get over him and one day I really had had enough and decided that that was it.
Miss Philosopher:
Man I need some of your impulsiveness. It would do me well. Please share. Lol
star1:
--- Quote from: Miss Philosopher on November 28, 2018, 09:43:29 PM ---Man I need some of your impulsiveness. It would do me well. Please share. Lol
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Lol ;D
psychic girls:
star1 you are right looking at the reviews on keen these psychics get five star not because of there predictions but it make you feel good.
(She didn't end chat on me!! That means a lot! She put my mind at ease even though the whole situation is still rather upsetting. Very good, patient advisor! Thank you so much!! ) This reviews on Keen are very common.
star1:
--- Quote from: psychic girls on November 28, 2018, 10:27:34 PM ---star1 you are right looking at the reviews on keen these psychics get five star not because of there predictions but it make you feel good.
(She didn't end chat on me!! That means a lot! She put my mind at ease even though the whole situation is still rather upsetting. Very good, patient advisor! Thank you so much!! ) This reviews on Keen are very common.
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Yeah the thing most people do is post a review after the reading when they're on the "high". But not wait until preds have passed to post a review.
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