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How can two proven psychics (with valid details) get opposite current feelings?
josh34:
--- Quote from: star1 on November 25, 2018, 06:30:26 PM ---
--- Quote from: josh34 on November 25, 2018, 06:27:38 PM ---
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--- Quote from: Still tired on November 25, 2018, 06:23:36 PM ---Does your POI have mood swings?
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That, too. Depression, bi-polar, you name it mental health wise can have effect on readings. Readers can't always see if a person has "issues". I know my POI has depression or something going on. I had a reading once and the reader was getting really spaced out and confused trying to concentrate on what he was thinking. She was honestly really struggling to get into his head, it can make readers disorientated.
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I don't know if I necessarily agree with this, Star, Still Tired. My ex haissues like that and the readers I went to would always read "below the surface" and give predictions that would pass. I never found changing "in-the-moment" feelings (bipolar, depression, etc.) to have any impact on my readings. I feel it gives readers a bit more leeway to say, "Oh I wasn't wrong." But that's just been my experience.
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But as I said, different readers have different reading strengths.. Some readers may get confused when they're trying to get into his mind. People in general struggle to understand someone with mental health issues, imagine trying to get into someone's head who has conflicting thoughts and feelings. I find it a fair statement to use. Yes, it's frustrating when readings change, but the poster isn't talking about predictions.. She's saying different readers seeing different things.
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Oh, no, I understand haha. If you're talking to a psychic who's good with connecting to you (and of course if they're real) you can ask something like, "How are they feeling about me in the current moment" vs "How do they feel about me? Like, overall?" and you may get very different answers. That's another thing I've learned. it's important to ask a specific way sometimes, especially, for example, with Tarot readers. And sometimes other psychics too.
star1:
--- Quote from: josh34 on November 25, 2018, 06:32:30 PM ---
--- Quote from: star1 on November 25, 2018, 06:30:26 PM ---
--- Quote from: josh34 on November 25, 2018, 06:27:38 PM ---
--- Quote from: star1 on November 25, 2018, 06:25:10 PM ---
--- Quote from: Still tired on November 25, 2018, 06:23:36 PM ---Does your POI have mood swings?
--- End quote ---
That, too. Depression, bi-polar, you name it mental health wise can have effect on readings. Readers can't always see if a person has "issues". I know my POI has depression or something going on. I had a reading once and the reader was getting really spaced out and confused trying to concentrate on what he was thinking. She was honestly really struggling to get into his head, it can make readers disorientated.
--- End quote ---
I don't know if I necessarily agree with this, Star, Still Tired. My ex haissues like that and the readers I went to would always read "below the surface" and give predictions that would pass. I never found changing "in-the-moment" feelings (bipolar, depression, etc.) to have any impact on my readings. I feel it gives readers a bit more leeway to say, "Oh I wasn't wrong." But that's just been my experience.
--- End quote ---
But as I said, different readers have different reading strengths.. Some readers may get confused when they're trying to get into his mind. People in general struggle to understand someone with mental health issues, imagine trying to get into someone's head who has conflicting thoughts and feelings. I find it a fair statement to use. Yes, it's frustrating when readings change, but the poster isn't talking about predictions.. She's saying different readers seeing different things.
--- End quote ---
Oh, no, I understand haha. If you're talking to a psychic who's good with connecting to you (and of course if they're real) you can ask something like, "How are they feeling about me in the current moment" vs "How do they feel about me? Like, overall?" and you may get very different answers. That's another thing I've learned. it's important to ask a specific way sometimes, especially, for example, with Tarot readers. And sometimes other psychics too.
--- End quote ---
I'd rather a reader was honest with me and said "whoa, this guy is a bit all over the place. It's going to be hard for me to give an accurate reading", than "oh. Well he cared the last time, but this time he doesn't care for you". And yeah QOC is like that, I guess. Best for current, apparently. That's what I ask, now. I just ask what he's feeling for me currently, worryingly most haven't picked up that this guy is unstable and has issues going on. Less than the fingers of one hand.
josh34:
--- Quote from: star1 on November 25, 2018, 06:35:18 PM ---
--- Quote from: josh34 on November 25, 2018, 06:32:30 PM ---
--- Quote from: star1 on November 25, 2018, 06:30:26 PM ---
--- Quote from: josh34 on November 25, 2018, 06:27:38 PM ---
--- Quote from: star1 on November 25, 2018, 06:25:10 PM ---
--- Quote from: Still tired on November 25, 2018, 06:23:36 PM ---Does your POI have mood swings?
--- End quote ---
That, too. Depression, bi-polar, you name it mental health wise can have effect on readings. Readers can't always see if a person has "issues". I know my POI has depression or something going on. I had a reading once and the reader was getting really spaced out and confused trying to concentrate on what he was thinking. She was honestly really struggling to get into his head, it can make readers disorientated.
--- End quote ---
I don't know if I necessarily agree with this, Star, Still Tired. My ex haissues like that and the readers I went to would always read "below the surface" and give predictions that would pass. I never found changing "in-the-moment" feelings (bipolar, depression, etc.) to have any impact on my readings. I feel it gives readers a bit more leeway to say, "Oh I wasn't wrong." But that's just been my experience.
--- End quote ---
But as I said, different readers have different reading strengths.. Some readers may get confused when they're trying to get into his mind. People in general struggle to understand someone with mental health issues, imagine trying to get into someone's head who has conflicting thoughts and feelings. I find it a fair statement to use. Yes, it's frustrating when readings change, but the poster isn't talking about predictions.. She's saying different readers seeing different things.
--- End quote ---
Oh, no, I understand haha. If you're talking to a psychic who's good with connecting to you (and of course if they're real) you can ask something like, "How are they feeling about me in the current moment" vs "How do they feel about me? Like, overall?" and you may get very different answers. That's another thing I've learned. it's important to ask a specific way sometimes, especially, for example, with Tarot readers. And sometimes other psychics too.
--- End quote ---
I'd rather a reader was honest with me and said "whoa, this guy is a bit all over the place. It's going to be hard for me to give an accurate reading", than "oh. Well he cared the last time, but this time he doesn't care for you". And yeah QOC is like that, I guess. Best for current, apparently. That's what I ask, now. I just ask what he's feeling for me currently, worryingly most haven't picked up that this guy is unstable and has issues going on. Less than the fingers of one hand.
--- End quote ---
Oh of course! I completely agree. I've had my accurate readers tell me how someone is feeling about me, and they can only pick up "in the moment", and I'd have others who pick up the "overall feeling". For the former, they might say, "Right now they're really not in a good mood. Not thinking about romance at all. No feelings toward anyone at this moment", whereas another psychic who can get the "overall scheme" would say, "I can see they feel very deeply for you, but they're really not in a good place right now". I've always found it to be how "deep" a reader can read certain things. But yeah, hahaha! The in-the-moment answers kind of drive me crazy, haha!
star1:
--- Quote from: josh34 on November 25, 2018, 06:38:33 PM ---
--- Quote from: star1 on November 25, 2018, 06:35:18 PM ---
--- Quote from: josh34 on November 25, 2018, 06:32:30 PM ---
--- Quote from: star1 on November 25, 2018, 06:30:26 PM ---
--- Quote from: josh34 on November 25, 2018, 06:27:38 PM ---
--- Quote from: star1 on November 25, 2018, 06:25:10 PM ---
--- Quote from: Still tired on November 25, 2018, 06:23:36 PM ---Does your POI have mood swings?
--- End quote ---
That, too. Depression, bi-polar, you name it mental health wise can have effect on readings. Readers can't always see if a person has "issues". I know my POI has depression or something going on. I had a reading once and the reader was getting really spaced out and confused trying to concentrate on what he was thinking. She was honestly really struggling to get into his head, it can make readers disorientated.
--- End quote ---
I don't know if I necessarily agree with this, Star, Still Tired. My ex haissues like that and the readers I went to would always read "below the surface" and give predictions that would pass. I never found changing "in-the-moment" feelings (bipolar, depression, etc.) to have any impact on my readings. I feel it gives readers a bit more leeway to say, "Oh I wasn't wrong." But that's just been my experience.
--- End quote ---
But as I said, different readers have different reading strengths.. Some readers may get confused when they're trying to get into his mind. People in general struggle to understand someone with mental health issues, imagine trying to get into someone's head who has conflicting thoughts and feelings. I find it a fair statement to use. Yes, it's frustrating when readings change, but the poster isn't talking about predictions.. She's saying different readers seeing different things.
--- End quote ---
Oh, no, I understand haha. If you're talking to a psychic who's good with connecting to you (and of course if they're real) you can ask something like, "How are they feeling about me in the current moment" vs "How do they feel about me? Like, overall?" and you may get very different answers. That's another thing I've learned. it's important to ask a specific way sometimes, especially, for example, with Tarot readers. And sometimes other psychics too.
--- End quote ---
I'd rather a reader was honest with me and said "whoa, this guy is a bit all over the place. It's going to be hard for me to give an accurate reading", than "oh. Well he cared the last time, but this time he doesn't care for you". And yeah QOC is like that, I guess. Best for current, apparently. That's what I ask, now. I just ask what he's feeling for me currently, worryingly most haven't picked up that this guy is unstable and has issues going on. Less than the fingers of one hand.
--- End quote ---
Oh of course! I completely agree. I've had my accurate readers tell me how someone is feeling about me, and they can only pick up "in the moment", and I'd have others who pick up the "overall feeling". For the former, they might say, "Right now they're really not in a good mood. Not thinking about romance at all. No feelings toward anyone at this moment", whereas another psychic who can get the "overall scheme" would say, "I can see they feel very deeply for you, but they're really not in a good place right now". I've always found it to be how "deep" a reader can read certain things. But yeah, hahaha! The in-the-moment answers kind of drive me crazy, haha!
--- End quote ---
See because I'm young, age always comes into play and it's about how immature my guy is. I believe that his behaviour and.. His "issues" go way deeper than immaturity. It's that and whatever else is going on. I've known 18 year olds to be more mature than he is. That's why I hate giving DOB's, lol.
josh34:
--- Quote from: star1 on November 25, 2018, 06:41:27 PM ---
--- Quote from: josh34 on November 25, 2018, 06:38:33 PM ---
--- Quote from: star1 on November 25, 2018, 06:35:18 PM ---
--- Quote from: josh34 on November 25, 2018, 06:32:30 PM ---
--- Quote from: star1 on November 25, 2018, 06:30:26 PM ---
--- Quote from: josh34 on November 25, 2018, 06:27:38 PM ---
--- Quote from: star1 on November 25, 2018, 06:25:10 PM ---
--- Quote from: Still tired on November 25, 2018, 06:23:36 PM ---Does your POI have mood swings?
--- End quote ---
That, too. Depression, bi-polar, you name it mental health wise can have effect on readings. Readers can't always see if a person has "issues". I know my POI has depression or something going on. I had a reading once and the reader was getting really spaced out and confused trying to concentrate on what he was thinking. She was honestly really struggling to get into his head, it can make readers disorientated.
--- End quote ---
I don't know if I necessarily agree with this, Star, Still Tired. My ex haissues like that and the readers I went to would always read "below the surface" and give predictions that would pass. I never found changing "in-the-moment" feelings (bipolar, depression, etc.) to have any impact on my readings. I feel it gives readers a bit more leeway to say, "Oh I wasn't wrong." But that's just been my experience.
--- End quote ---
But as I said, different readers have different reading strengths.. Some readers may get confused when they're trying to get into his mind. People in general struggle to understand someone with mental health issues, imagine trying to get into someone's head who has conflicting thoughts and feelings. I find it a fair statement to use. Yes, it's frustrating when readings change, but the poster isn't talking about predictions.. She's saying different readers seeing different things.
--- End quote ---
Oh, no, I understand haha. If you're talking to a psychic who's good with connecting to you (and of course if they're real) you can ask something like, "How are they feeling about me in the current moment" vs "How do they feel about me? Like, overall?" and you may get very different answers. That's another thing I've learned. it's important to ask a specific way sometimes, especially, for example, with Tarot readers. And sometimes other psychics too.
--- End quote ---
I'd rather a reader was honest with me and said "whoa, this guy is a bit all over the place. It's going to be hard for me to give an accurate reading", than "oh. Well he cared the last time, but this time he doesn't care for you". And yeah QOC is like that, I guess. Best for current, apparently. That's what I ask, now. I just ask what he's feeling for me currently, worryingly most haven't picked up that this guy is unstable and has issues going on. Less than the fingers of one hand.
--- End quote ---
Oh of course! I completely agree. I've had my accurate readers tell me how someone is feeling about me, and they can only pick up "in the moment", and I'd have others who pick up the "overall feeling". For the former, they might say, "Right now they're really not in a good mood. Not thinking about romance at all. No feelings toward anyone at this moment", whereas another psychic who can get the "overall scheme" would say, "I can see they feel very deeply for you, but they're really not in a good place right now". I've always found it to be how "deep" a reader can read certain things. But yeah, hahaha! The in-the-moment answers kind of drive me crazy, haha!
--- End quote ---
See because I'm young, age always comes into play and it's about how immature my guy is. I believe that his behaviour and.. His "issues" go way deeper than immaturity. It's that and whatever else is going on. I've known 18 year olds to be more mature than he is. That's why I hate giving DOB's, lol.
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Shit, I just want to say I'm sorry. I know how it can be when the POI you're interested in is a little immature, especially, like, when you say the issues can go deeper than that. It's a hard thing to deal with sometimes, when trying to understand what's going on in their head. I wish you the best of luck with that! And yeah haha! I used to see date of birth as a red flag, but over time I've learned that it probably is just a question they're either A) required to ask (I know some do not read for some under 18) and/or B) it helps them connect a bit "easier". :P
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