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Do you believe psychics/mediums/empaths can REALLY pick up current feelings?
star1:
Okay so I might have asked this question a couple of times to people, but I want to ask what everyone's personal view is of this from their experience of readings, whether it's past or present..
Do you believe that a psychic/medium/empath can accurately pick up on feelings at the time of the call?
I ask because look at the success rate of people on this board.. About 1% have had the ex come back, managed to reconcile, and it be a happy ending.
Do you think it's possible that 99% of people's POI's/exes love and miss them, but they won't reach out because they're scared of commitment/insert other excuse here?
My personal experience: I have been given readers names to try on Keen or privately that are "honest" and "accurate" at current situations, and they all have said that my ex has feelings for me still, but either has the commitment issues or has stuff going on in his life like working hard and money issues, not having much time for anything else in his life blah blah is the root cause. But I haven't had contact in a very long time with my ex, and I find it hard to believe that these readers still say to this day that he cares and loves me, but you'd think that if somebody cared - they'd have reached out by now, or made some sort of movement? I don't understand why if my ex cared - would leave it this long to contact me, and that's why I posted that I'd like a few readings with some empaths and to then move on. I'm not going to be one of those ladies who waits for years and years on the ex, I don't believe my readings anymore or have faith in them, so I'm essentially wasting money for "gambles" on the future and what he could be feeling.. I have to believe more his actions than what these readers say, and it doesn't seem to look like he cares for lack of interaction with me in all of this time.. But I can't understand why they don't just say he really doesn't care. I mean, I specifically went to the readers who are supposed to be blunt and to the point about situations..
I don't know.. I just wanted to see what people believe in, if they (in their experience) believe that these readers have the abilities to sense somebody's current feelings for yourself in this present moment or not? Like I said at the beginning of the post, it's odd how 99% of us don't get the happily ever after story, yet the ex is supposed to "love us"..
psychic girls:
I don't even know anymore because we have so many fake psychics and even the real one give people false hope. No one Poi had come back when I look at the review in here they always used stock line like he scary, busy on his career ect.
tellmewhy:
The fact that you have not seen someone does not mean they don't think about you, just look at everyone calling about their ex but not reaching out, maybe the ex is not calling on psychics but hoping that the other person will break the ice and reach out just like you expect them to reach out and this goes on forever and eventually fades.
I had a POI, not one, not two but three, One left for a year, the other for 8 months, when POI A reached out after a year, he confessed how he felt and couldn't stop thinking about me that I've stolen his heart. As a matter of fact, Aries has predicted to me that he was choked up with emotions so his confession was no surprise plus I use to be the one to reach out and I stopped hence why the long time.
POI B contacted after 8months but he was someone that I was not invested in so I let him do his thing, as a matter of fact, POI B had previously told me he never goes back to his ex....
POI C- after 2-3 years tried to contact but he was ignored on linkedin, email, and phone, this one.
Does it mean relationship will evlove when and if they contact , maybe not , the same problems will still be there. these are my thoughts.
--- Quote from: star1 on November 18, 2018, 09:35:39 PM ---Okay so I might have asked this question a couple of times to people, but I want to ask what everyone's personal view is of this from their experience of readings, whether it's past or present..
Do you believe that a psychic/medium/empath can accurately pick up on feelings at the time of the call?
I ask because look at the success rate of people on this board.. About 1% have had the ex come back, managed to reconcile, and it be a happy ending.
Do you think it's possible that 99% of people's POI's/exes love and miss them, but they won't reach out because they're scared of commitment/insert other excuse here?
My personal experience: I have been given readers names to try on Keen or privately that are "honest" and "accurate" at current situations, and they all have said that my ex has feelings for me still, but either has the commitment issues or has stuff going on in his life like working hard and money issues, not having much time for anything else in his life blah blah is the root cause. But I haven't had contact in a very long time with my ex, and I find it hard to believe that these readers still say to this day that he cares and loves me, but you'd think that if somebody cared - they'd have reached out by now, or made some sort of movement? I don't understand why if my ex cared - would leave it this long to contact me, and that's why I posted that I'd like a few readings with some empaths and to then move on. I'm not going to be one of those ladies who waits for years and years on the ex, I don't believe my readings anymore or have faith in them, so I'm essentially wasting money for "gambles" on the future and what he could be feeling.. I have to believe more his actions than what these readers say, and it doesn't seem to look like he cares for lack of interaction with me in all of this time.. But I can't understand why they don't just say he really doesn't care. I mean, I specifically went to the readers who are supposed to be blunt and to the point about situations..
I don't know.. I just wanted to see what people believe in, if they (in their experience) believe that these readers have the abilities to sense somebody's current feelings for yourself in this present moment or not? Like I said at the beginning of the post, it's odd how 99% of us don't get the happily ever after story, yet the ex is supposed to "love us"..
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bstalling:
I do believe they are capable of pinpoint the feelings/emotions in the present moment when you call. I've validated this maybe 3 times over thhe course of 10 years of readings. Ive also experienced them being wrong about a lot of things...or only partially correct.
I personally believe that the majority of them can see that someone may care about you or think fondly of you, but they dont see the nuances of it to the degree that you need to know to see the bigger picture. Most just dont have the skill.Just because someone cares about you does not mean they want you or want to be with you in a romantic way. Its part of why they may not reach out; other things are more important to them.
I believe only a small percentage of clients here are dealing with men that genuinely love and won't pursue a relationship because of emotional/commitment issues. I want to say about 20 percent. Now, of those 20 percent...they may have a happy ending....in time. There was a friend I had that was in this situation. They did not reconcile until years later...about 5. Life moved on in the mean time. They have a baby now and seem to be happy. She couldnt give anyone credit for predicting this tho. They all gave her confusing answers, even the gifted ones she trusted.
Now, the other 80 percent are calling about dead end situations. The reader may tell you he cares, but dont know if it will go anywhere. Another example of them being unreliable service providers.
Its not odd that most of us dont get the happy ending. It would make sense honestly because readers are not to be relied on. And even the gifted ones can indeed sugarcoat or may be motivated subconsciously to give you a favorable outcome.
The confusion stops when you take these readers as the entertainment that they are.
star1:
Thanks everybody for your feedback, it's sometimes refreshing to vent and hear others experiences for a change :)
Psychic Girls - Yeah I have to be honest, that's where I can get a little suspicious sometimes, when they tell us all the same excuses. You can't help but wonder if the reader generally sees that the person can't commit or has this and that going on, or if they're telling it to others.
Tell Me Why - That's also a good point. They could also be waiting for us to reach out and having the same thoughts as us, wondering what we're upto and why we haven't reached out this time around. It's interesting to hear your experiences with your 3 POI's, thanks for sharing.
Still Tired - Yeah actually Zadalia told me similar, and that usually she tells people that the ex cares and loves them, but rarely much happens externally. I guess most of us have "the one that got away", and the ex we think about from time to time. Especially if there's not much closure. Still Tired, yes definitely some of these guys the way how they treat us is in their interests only and not because they care. Like ego boosting, seeing if the woman is there still like the carrot on the end of the stick, sadly.
BStalling - Yeah it's hard with readers because some can get the situation spot on and tell you that the ex genuinely cares, but doesn't mean to say he'd reach out or he's going to change his ways. Some women on here can sometimes be in denial and not realise that the relationship wasn't healthy and that the man doesn't care about them, is narcissistic and cares only when it's something he can get out ot them like sex, money or ego boosting. Sometimes on here it's true in the cases where a man buckles because he's scared or he has his other shit going on in his life like the right person at the wrong time.
Thanks all for your experiences/opinions/views :D.
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