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My Psychic Experiences
Jili1945:
--- Quote from: sparky on December 19, 2019, 01:32:38 PM ---I could of put this in vent but I didn't feel like making a new thread. lol. So sometimes I ask the universe for a sign (not really sure what I think of if it actually works or not) about my ex or just something silly like getting me to win the powerball so I can retire early lol. I usually don't think anything of it when I do it and just live my life after. But I remember a few weeks ago I did ask if my ex and I were meant to be and to give me a sign. I would say a couple days later at the most, I start to see her name everywhere. Out shopping in a store or online and there is something customizable with a name or even some kind of Ad. It has her name on it. Go to the dating app and a butch of profiles have her name.
I honestly don't know if it is a coincidence or not. She does have a common name so it is possible. But at the same time it is annoying. If the universe is trying to tell me that we are meant to be then why make me struggle with this time apart? I know at the time when I did ask I was hoping that if it did give a sign it would of been like "No, you're being stupid. You are not meant to be." To help the moving on process. Basically my vent is if you are asking the universe or trying to manifest something. I wish that the answer wouldn't be so vague. Anyways that is all I have to say about that. Enjoy my little vent ;) lol.
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Cool! Thanks for sharing. Hope you guys get back together very soon if this is the best for both of you :)
sparky:
--- Quote from: Jili1945 on December 19, 2019, 02:16:07 PM ---
--- Quote from: sparky on December 19, 2019, 01:32:38 PM ---I could of put this in vent but I didn't feel like making a new thread. lol. So sometimes I ask the universe for a sign (not really sure what I think of if it actually works or not) about my ex or just something silly like getting me to win the powerball so I can retire early lol. I usually don't think anything of it when I do it and just live my life after. But I remember a few weeks ago I did ask if my ex and I were meant to be and to give me a sign. I would say a couple days later at the most, I start to see her name everywhere. Out shopping in a store or online and there is something customizable with a name or even some kind of Ad. It has her name on it. Go to the dating app and a butch of profiles have her name.
I honestly don't know if it is a coincidence or not. She does have a common name so it is possible. But at the same time it is annoying. If the universe is trying to tell me that we are meant to be then why make me struggle with this time apart? I know at the time when I did ask I was hoping that if it did give a sign it would of been like "No, you're being stupid. You are not meant to be." To help the moving on process. Basically my vent is if you are asking the universe or trying to manifest something. I wish that the answer wouldn't be so vague. Anyways that is all I have to say about that. Enjoy my little vent ;) lol.
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Cool! Thanks for sharing. Hope you guys get back together very soon if this is the best for both of you :)
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At this point I doubt it. She got married in March. A year after we broke up and only knew the guy for 9 months. In order for us to be back together that would have to fail. Which I do have a feeling it will. Not sure when though. I don't know if I would want her back. All I want from her right now is an apology and that seems unlikely.
The vent is over that I was asking the universe if the whole thing was a mistake or not and give me a sign. You know if we were meant to be. I guess it could really be either way for the past or future. I just found the name thing a sort of coincidence with it. If she had some obscure name and I was seeing it all over. I am sure people would say yes that is a sign. But since she has a common name. Do you say the same? Because maybe it is the universe giving me a sign. Maybe just not a very clear one. If that is the case you would think the universe would make sure to give you a sign that is clear.
Yaz88:
--- Quote from: sparky on December 19, 2019, 01:32:38 PM ---I could of put this in vent but I didn't feel like making a new thread. lol. So sometimes I ask the universe for a sign (not really sure what I think of if it actually works or not) about my ex or just something silly like getting me to win the powerball so I can retire early lol. I usually don't think anything of it when I do it and just live my life after. But I remember a few weeks ago I did ask if my ex and I were meant to be and to give me a sign. I would say a couple days later at the most, I start to see her name everywhere. Out shopping in a store or online and there is something customizable with a name or even some kind of Ad. It has her name on it. Go to the dating app and a butch of profiles have her name.
I honestly don't know if it is a coincidence or not. She does have a common name so it is possible. But at the same time it is annoying. If the universe is trying to tell me that we are meant to be then why make me struggle with this time apart? I know at the time when I did ask I was hoping that if it did give a sign it would of been like "No, you're being stupid. You are not meant to be." To help the moving on process. Basically my vent is if you are asking the universe or trying to manifest something. I wish that the answer wouldn't be so vague. Anyways that is all I have to say about that. Enjoy my little vent ;) lol.
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Yup, this is exactly why I don’t ask the universe to give me a sign. The name thing happened to such an extreme extent with a former POI that had a relatively unique name, it had me begging the universe and God for clarity. Then one day I realized that I had all the clarity I needed. The answer of whether me and that POI should be together or whether we were ever going to be together had been clear as day all along. It was a big fat No, and the answer was evident in how he treated me and that he wasn’t planning on changing and that he didn’t want to change. Looking back, I think that when I asked the universe to give me a sign, I manifested his name appearing everywhere. The energy I put out when his name appeared caused his name to keep on appearing. I don’t know if I’m correct, but I don’t ask the universe to provide signs anymore. It was like a self fulfilling prophecy from hell.
sparky:
--- Quote from: Yaz88 on December 19, 2019, 07:43:35 PM ---
--- Quote from: sparky on December 19, 2019, 01:32:38 PM ---I could of put this in vent but I didn't feel like making a new thread. lol. So sometimes I ask the universe for a sign (not really sure what I think of if it actually works or not) about my ex or just something silly like getting me to win the powerball so I can retire early lol. I usually don't think anything of it when I do it and just live my life after. But I remember a few weeks ago I did ask if my ex and I were meant to be and to give me a sign. I would say a couple days later at the most, I start to see her name everywhere. Out shopping in a store or online and there is something customizable with a name or even some kind of Ad. It has her name on it. Go to the dating app and a butch of profiles have her name.
I honestly don't know if it is a coincidence or not. She does have a common name so it is possible. But at the same time it is annoying. If the universe is trying to tell me that we are meant to be then why make me struggle with this time apart? I know at the time when I did ask I was hoping that if it did give a sign it would of been like "No, you're being stupid. You are not meant to be." To help the moving on process. Basically my vent is if you are asking the universe or trying to manifest something. I wish that the answer wouldn't be so vague. Anyways that is all I have to say about that. Enjoy my little vent ;) lol.
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Yup, this is exactly why I don’t ask the universe to give me a sign. The name thing happened to such an extreme extent with a former POI that had a relatively unique name, it had me begging the universe and God for clarity. Then one day I realized that I had all the clarity I needed. The answer of whether me and that POI should be together or whether we were ever going to be together had been clear as day all along. It was a big fat No, and the answer was evident in how he treated me and that he wasn’t planning on changing and that he didn’t want to change. Looking back, I think that when I asked the universe to give me a sign, I manifested his name appearing everywhere. The energy I put out when his name appeared caused his name to keep on appearing. I don’t know if I’m correct, but I don’t ask the universe to provide signs anymore. It was like a self fulfilling prophecy from hell.
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That right there is why I think manifesting can be a bit of BS. Because how do we not know that is actually what happens. That it is our own energy doing it instead of the universe providing it. I also thought the same thing about seeing her name more recently. Thinking well duh of course I see it more because asked about it. Though it could be a subconscious thing going on too. We met on New Years Eve and as that day gets closer. I can see my subconsciousness bringing her up more.
Miss Philosopher:
I don't really believe in manifestation much anymore. I'm sure poor people that are starving to death think about how great it would be to have food every day of their lives, but nothing and then they die of starvation. I'm also sure that all of the people struggling out there with finances wish to God they'd come across more money or get a raise or whatever. People who struggle with health issues probably wish to be healthy and try everything they can to make that happen but it never happens and they get worse and die. On the flip side of that, if we don't put in proper efforts with things, we reap the same. I don't know how it all works exactly but I'm really not convinced about the whole manifesting anything you want type shit. Unless it's real but we're all too much of a doubting Thomas for anything to actually occur? Who knows.
For me, years and years ago, when I was first learning about this manifestation bullshit, I wrote down exactly the kind of man I wanted, all the way down to the physical appearance, the personality, etc. The current ex was exactly what I asked for physically, and at first, he came across as what I asked for personality wise etc. However, he was the devil incarnate.
Now I just believe in predestination. I believe we plan our lives before we even incarnate and we make agreements with other souls prior to coming here. So every single person that we cross paths with and get involved with on whatever level was already planned from the start. Those that hurt us did so to help us grow and overcome some other hang ups, perhaps even from past lives. Those that love us are there to help with healing. And when no one is around, that's when we're meant to do it all on our own. Just my .25 cents.
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