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My Psychic Experiences
beachgal214:
Not to generalize sexes but I think guys can be even more difficult to maintain steady connections. I know the men in my life rely heavily on the women to organize the events.... so I am just saying, sparky, I can see how and why you feel the way you do.
I am glad you are still happy - and that sounds exciting about joining the group next year!! Is it a golf club?
sparky:
--- Quote from: beachgal214 on November 06, 2019, 08:28:14 PM ---Not to generalize sexes but I think guys can be even more difficult to maintain steady connections. I know the men in my life rely heavily on the women to organize the events.... so I am just saying, sparky, I can see how and why you feel the way you do.
I am glad you are still happy - and that sounds exciting about joining the group next year!! Is it a golf club?
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I think yes the general consensus is that guys do rely on women to organize events. I was an outlier for that as I would ask my friends to do things or try to hold something at my place like a wine party, BBQ, or even a friends-giving. What I ended up getting sick of was seeing that they would do something all together and not invite me. I would see the posts on FB or snapchat. They knew I had one of the most flexible schedules out of all of them and all they had to do was ask me to join.
It isn't a golf club. I have a horrible golf swing that I would leave holes in the ground when I golf. ;D This is a club that helps maintain old aircraft as a form of a living museum and travels the country with them.
beachgal214:
Neat!!
sparky:
I wanted to give a little update of sorts. Not really about any predictions or anything but regarding something that I know a lot of you struggle with. I haven't a reading since March of this year after starting getting readings the October before. As it stands now, I do think sometimes to maybe get a reading but I view it such that it would just be something fun to do. Just to see what they pull up kind of thing and brush it off. Basically made it more into an entertainment sort of thing. Which as a result doesn't really make me want to spend the money so I don't even get one. Thus the time from my last reading gets longer and longer. I know the struggle to stop getting readings is tough and maybe that is a key to breaking away from them. Is to realize readings as just something sort of fun and silly, even if what they predict manifests itself. By doing so I think it helps take out the want or in some cases a need to call a psychic to get an answer. By just brushing them off, I think puts you in a position to just live your life and let it things happen. Is it hard to do so? I would say that it is very hard because you are holding onto what they say will indeed happen and you are preparing you life for that event to occur. So it causes this cycle of if it happened. You call because you want to know more. If it doesn't happen then you call to discover out why it didn't happen. It becomes a vicious cycle.
If you do end up viewing readings as something fun or silly to do which turns into just entertainment. Then you just end up weighing the costs of the reading similar to if you want to go see a movie in the theater or just wait until it comes out on Netflix or all together make you forget that you wanted to see that movie. Saving you some money. Maybe coming up with this viewpoint on readings is why we should take what they say "For entertainment purposes only" a bit more to heart.
So basically for my update I want to just say that I haven't had a reading in quite a few months and my viewpoint regarding getting a reading doesn't really feel like a need or a want to get one. But of one to just see what fun or silly thing they could pull up regardless if it manifests which makes me not even get one. I know I don't post a lot here like others but I do try to login and read the posts on the forum just to see how everyone is doing. How the posters life matched up with their readings or it maybe they didn't. In a way it is almost like a reading a bunch of books and checking to see if the predictions happen to match up in their book of life. The same way as if I try to predict how a TV show might progress through a season. Viewed as one big entertainment to enjoy. So if you are struggling in deciding to get a reading. Maybe the key in making the decision is to just change how you view them to help prevent you spending the money.
sparky:
I could of put this in vent but I didn't feel like making a new thread. lol. So sometimes I ask the universe for a sign (not really sure what I think of if it actually works or not) about my ex or just something silly like getting me to win the powerball so I can retire early lol. I usually don't think anything of it when I do it and just live my life after. But I remember a few weeks ago I did ask if my ex and I were meant to be and to give me a sign. I would say a couple days later at the most, I start to see her name everywhere. Out shopping in a store or online and there is something customizable with a name or even some kind of Ad. It has her name on it. Go to the dating app and a butch of profiles have her name.
I honestly don't know if it is a coincidence or not. She does have a common name so it is possible. But at the same time it is annoying. If the universe is trying to tell me that we are meant to be then why make me struggle with this time apart? I know at the time when I did ask I was hoping that if it did give a sign it would of been like "No, you're being stupid. You are not meant to be." To help the moving on process. Basically my vent is if you are asking the universe or trying to manifest something. I wish that the answer wouldn't be so vague. Anyways that is all I have to say about that. Enjoy my little vent ;) lol.
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