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star1:

--- Quote from: sparky on November 13, 2018, 01:18:44 PM ---
--- Quote from: psychic girls on November 13, 2018, 06:14:28 AM ---Look at all the psychics reviews here rarely does anyone get anything right.

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True but I would ask why do you think that is?  If I was a psychic and really wanted to prove how accurate I am, wouldn't the best option be to always give negative info?  At least for relationships because the odds of someone coming back is small.  So if you had to make a prediction why not go the route of your best chance of getting it right instead of giving a sense of false hope?  That would make you more accurate in overall outcomes.  Yes people don't want to hear the negative outcomes most of the time but wouldn't you want honesty instead of false hopes?  You may hate them at that moment but think of the pain and suffering they would save you in the long run.

In my case I was actually expecting to have a negative prediction going into it but instead I got the opposite.  The fact that only 13% of the psychics (includes the additional three on keen not listed here) I talked to said she wasn't coming back means one of two things.  That they have a gift or most give out false hopes regarding relationships.  I personally think that there are truly people out there with a gift.  They might very well be able to predict the future and some might only be able to see so far out.  But also the future is fluid and that can cause problems and change outcomes.  Again with mine I was expecting a negative outcome or at least closer to 50/50 on whether or not to reconcile with my POI.  If my POI does come back in roughly the timeframe they gave me I would call that a miracle and they have a gift.  Also remember that not every psychic works for everyone.  I might be very easy to connect with where you may not to a particular psychic.

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This is why I think that a few readers in particular are negative about relationships. I think it's the easy route to say "he can't commit/has issues with another woman/you can be friends/insert any other regular excuse here", because 9 times out of 10 - the ex does not come back. For me when a reader is negative and gives me that spiel, that's not good enough, as I know that they tell others similar. I want validating evidence from a reader if they can give good OR bad news to prove that they're half genuine.

LAW1974:
I do go back and forth on this topic...  For one I understand that if a reader gives you a negative outcome, you probably have no reason to call them back.  If they give you a positive outcome than you keep calling and they push the timeline out... etc you keep spending $... makes more sense.  However, the one thing I agree with sparky about is this:  My timeline is the same from multiple readers as well.... and it is not the same as other ppl's so that does also make me wonder why?  That's the only thing that I find a little believable.  And then there are the ppl like Aries,, Yona and Effie who give such details and markers?  IDK...

sparky:

--- Quote from: star1 on November 13, 2018, 01:35:49 PM ---
--- Quote from: sparky on November 13, 2018, 01:18:44 PM ---
--- Quote from: psychic girls on November 13, 2018, 06:14:28 AM ---Look at all the psychics reviews here rarely does anyone get anything right.

--- End quote ---

True but I would ask why do you think that is?  If I was a psychic and really wanted to prove how accurate I am, wouldn't the best option be to always give negative info?  At least for relationships because the odds of someone coming back is small.  So if you had to make a prediction why not go the route of your best chance of getting it right instead of giving a sense of false hope?  That would make you more accurate in overall outcomes.  Yes people don't want to hear the negative outcomes most of the time but wouldn't you want honesty instead of false hopes?  You may hate them at that moment but think of the pain and suffering they would save you in the long run.

In my case I was actually expecting to have a negative prediction going into it but instead I got the opposite.  The fact that only 13% of the psychics (includes the additional three on keen not listed here) I talked to said she wasn't coming back means one of two things.  That they have a gift or most give out false hopes regarding relationships.  I personally think that there are truly people out there with a gift.  They might very well be able to predict the future and some might only be able to see so far out.  But also the future is fluid and that can cause problems and change outcomes.  Again with mine I was expecting a negative outcome or at least closer to 50/50 on whether or not to reconcile with my POI.  If my POI does come back in roughly the timeframe they gave me I would call that a miracle and they have a gift.  Also remember that not every psychic works for everyone.  I might be very easy to connect with where you may not to a particular psychic.

--- End quote ---

This is why I think that a few readers in particular are negative about relationships. I think it's the easy route to say "he can't commit/has issues with another woman/you can be friends/insert any other regular excuse here", because 9 times out of 10 - the ex does not come back. For me when a reader is negative and gives me that spiel, that's not good enough, as I know that they tell others similar. I want validating evidence from a reader if they can give good OR bad news to prove that they're half genuine.

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I agree with you on wanting validating evidence.  For me out of all the psychics I talked to, Aries and Sandra are the mind blowing two for me and both of those were booked through their own site.  Aries I felt really tuned into my POI really well.  She was able to describe my POI really well.  All the detail she gave does fall in line with how my POI and I would start a process of reconciliation.  Sandra was great because of the other stuff we talked about.  She said things that are coming outside of the relationship with my POI, that makes me feel like there is some valid evidence to support what she sees.  Waiting on them to play out but I see them happening.

star1:

--- Quote from: sparky on November 13, 2018, 02:02:05 PM ---
--- Quote from: star1 on November 13, 2018, 01:35:49 PM ---
--- Quote from: sparky on November 13, 2018, 01:18:44 PM ---
--- Quote from: psychic girls on November 13, 2018, 06:14:28 AM ---Look at all the psychics reviews here rarely does anyone get anything right.

--- End quote ---

True but I would ask why do you think that is?  If I was a psychic and really wanted to prove how accurate I am, wouldn't the best option be to always give negative info?  At least for relationships because the odds of someone coming back is small.  So if you had to make a prediction why not go the route of your best chance of getting it right instead of giving a sense of false hope?  That would make you more accurate in overall outcomes.  Yes people don't want to hear the negative outcomes most of the time but wouldn't you want honesty instead of false hopes?  You may hate them at that moment but think of the pain and suffering they would save you in the long run.

In my case I was actually expecting to have a negative prediction going into it but instead I got the opposite.  The fact that only 13% of the psychics (includes the additional three on keen not listed here) I talked to said she wasn't coming back means one of two things.  That they have a gift or most give out false hopes regarding relationships.  I personally think that there are truly people out there with a gift.  They might very well be able to predict the future and some might only be able to see so far out.  But also the future is fluid and that can cause problems and change outcomes.  Again with mine I was expecting a negative outcome or at least closer to 50/50 on whether or not to reconcile with my POI.  If my POI does come back in roughly the timeframe they gave me I would call that a miracle and they have a gift.  Also remember that not every psychic works for everyone.  I might be very easy to connect with where you may not to a particular psychic.

--- End quote ---

This is why I think that a few readers in particular are negative about relationships. I think it's the easy route to say "he can't commit/has issues with another woman/you can be friends/insert any other regular excuse here", because 9 times out of 10 - the ex does not come back. For me when a reader is negative and gives me that spiel, that's not good enough, as I know that they tell others similar. I want validating evidence from a reader if they can give good OR bad news to prove that they're half genuine.

--- End quote ---

I agree with you on wanting validating evidence.  For me out of all the psychics I talked to, Aries and Sandra are the mind blowing two for me and both of those were booked through their own site.  Aries I felt really tuned into my POI really well.  She was able to describe my POI really well.  All the detail she gave does fall in line with how my POI and I would start a process of reconciliation.  Sandra was great because of the other stuff we talked about.  She said things that are coming outside of the relationship with my POI, that makes me feel like there is some valid evidence to support what she sees.  Waiting on them to play out but I see them happening.

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I didn't get that much detail with aries, but what I got was impressive. I think she has something, for sure.

sparky:

--- Quote from: LAW1974 on November 13, 2018, 01:54:11 PM ---I do go back and forth on this topic...  For one I understand that if a reader gives you a negative outcome, you probably have no reason to call them back.  If they give you a positive outcome than you keep calling and they push the timeline out... etc you keep spending $... makes more sense.  However, the one thing I agree with sparky about is this:  My timeline is the same from multiple readers as well.... and it is not the same as other ppl's so that does also make me wonder why?  That's the only thing that I find a little believable.  And then there are the ppl like Aries,, Yona and Effie who give such details and markers?  IDK...

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I see your point on wanting to keep you coming back to spend money but I could counter that.  Let's say they give you the negative outcome and it was right.  Wouldn't you also call back again for other things because they were right about the negative outcome?  To me that would make more business sense than just stringing you along for awhile extending the timeline.  You can only extend the timeline so far before someone finally stops calling.  Where if you are right you have a better chance of a returning customer over and over.  Yes it takes more work but in the long run what is better?  Returning customer for years or just for a matter of months?

I actually thought about doing a reading with Yona just to add to the pool.  I figured it would be interesting to see if she would come up with the same outcome but I figure I had enough for now.  I will let things play out.

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