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My Psychic Experiences
star1:
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--- Quote from: star1 on November 13, 2018, 03:39:45 PM ---I've heard this lots of times from people who are waiting on an ex to come back, that somebody else is supposed to come in for them. I guess it's sod's law that when an ex does come back, you have to pick lol.
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This could very well be a common theme. It might be more of a way to try and move on sort of thing so you are not waiting. That by telling you there is someone else out there helps you move on. Which in turn causes your ex to feel the energy of you leaving them from constantly thinking about them. Then they reach out. Or it is simply a way for you to heal and move on to the next thing instead of dwelling on them for months or years.
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I think it's more the latter and I think it's a typical coincidence personally when the ex comes back after you've moved on. I've said many times on here an ex has never come back to me after I've given up, but a friend has had all of her exes contact her on and off over the years. Everyone seems to have different strokes of luck.
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Well being a guy I swear that exes coming back for girls is way more common than it is for a guy. ;)
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Yeah, it definitely seems to be.
LAW1974:
--- Quote from: sparky on November 13, 2018, 04:39:50 PM ---
--- Quote from: star1 on November 13, 2018, 04:27:00 PM ---
--- Quote from: sparky on November 13, 2018, 04:11:01 PM ---
--- Quote from: star1 on November 13, 2018, 03:39:45 PM ---I've heard this lots of times from people who are waiting on an ex to come back, that somebody else is supposed to come in for them. I guess it's sod's law that when an ex does come back, you have to pick lol.
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This could very well be a common theme. It might be more of a way to try and move on sort of thing so you are not waiting. That by telling you there is someone else out there helps you move on. Which in turn causes your ex to feel the energy of you leaving them from constantly thinking about them. Then they reach out. Or it is simply a way for you to heal and move on to the next thing instead of dwelling on them for months or years.
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I think it's more the latter and I think it's a typical coincidence personally when the ex comes back after you've moved on. I've said many times on here an ex has never come back to me after I've given up, but a friend has had all of her exes contact her on and off over the years. Everyone seems to have different strokes of luck.
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Well being a guy I swear that exes coming back for girls is way more common than it is for a guy. ;)
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Sparky - part of that might be because as girls we are told not to chase you.... All of these readers keep telling me to make him come to me!
star1:
--- Quote from: LAW1974 on November 13, 2018, 04:44:59 PM ---
--- Quote from: sparky on November 13, 2018, 04:39:50 PM ---
--- Quote from: star1 on November 13, 2018, 04:27:00 PM ---
--- Quote from: sparky on November 13, 2018, 04:11:01 PM ---
--- Quote from: star1 on November 13, 2018, 03:39:45 PM ---I've heard this lots of times from people who are waiting on an ex to come back, that somebody else is supposed to come in for them. I guess it's sod's law that when an ex does come back, you have to pick lol.
--- End quote ---
This could very well be a common theme. It might be more of a way to try and move on sort of thing so you are not waiting. That by telling you there is someone else out there helps you move on. Which in turn causes your ex to feel the energy of you leaving them from constantly thinking about them. Then they reach out. Or it is simply a way for you to heal and move on to the next thing instead of dwelling on them for months or years.
--- End quote ---
I think it's more the latter and I think it's a typical coincidence personally when the ex comes back after you've moved on. I've said many times on here an ex has never come back to me after I've given up, but a friend has had all of her exes contact her on and off over the years. Everyone seems to have different strokes of luck.
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Well being a guy I swear that exes coming back for girls is way more common than it is for a guy. ;)
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Sparky - part of that might be because as girls we are told not to chase you.... All of these readers keep telling me to make him come to me!
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Also, we do get scared of rejection, too.
sparky:
--- Quote from: LAW1974 on November 13, 2018, 04:44:59 PM ---
--- Quote from: sparky on November 13, 2018, 04:39:50 PM ---
--- Quote from: star1 on November 13, 2018, 04:27:00 PM ---
--- Quote from: sparky on November 13, 2018, 04:11:01 PM ---
--- Quote from: star1 on November 13, 2018, 03:39:45 PM ---I've heard this lots of times from people who are waiting on an ex to come back, that somebody else is supposed to come in for them. I guess it's sod's law that when an ex does come back, you have to pick lol.
--- End quote ---
This could very well be a common theme. It might be more of a way to try and move on sort of thing so you are not waiting. That by telling you there is someone else out there helps you move on. Which in turn causes your ex to feel the energy of you leaving them from constantly thinking about them. Then they reach out. Or it is simply a way for you to heal and move on to the next thing instead of dwelling on them for months or years.
--- End quote ---
I think it's more the latter and I think it's a typical coincidence personally when the ex comes back after you've moved on. I've said many times on here an ex has never come back to me after I've given up, but a friend has had all of her exes contact her on and off over the years. Everyone seems to have different strokes of luck.
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Well being a guy I swear that exes coming back for girls is way more common than it is for a guy. ;)
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Sparky - part of that might be because as girls we are told not to chase you.... All of these readers keep telling me to make him come to me!
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I really think that is kind of taboo anymore. Maybe way back I could see that but in today's society I think it is perfectly alright for a woman to chase a guy. There can be the same sort of boundaries as when the guy chases the girl. But I also think it depends on the reason for the breakup as well on who should chase who.
11jlady:
I think the reason why males return quicker than females is because usually a male will make a knee jerk decision and break up or leave the situation thinking the grass is greener on the other side because his current girl had some mood swings or something. They are way too quick to make those decisions. Then they go find out that the grass on the other side isn't really greener, it's just green where you actually water it.
Females typically think things through and have more staying power to deal with stuff and so when we actually make the decision to leave a relationship, more often than not, we have thought things through for a very long time and most likely haven't been happy for a very long time so then we make that choice and typically, once a female leaves, she isn't leaving for a "break" but rather to find a completely new permanent mate.
Now that isn't ALWAYS the case. But that's statistically speaking and is the case most of the time.
Just like usually when a man cheats, it's just for either emotional or physical gratification but they have no intentions of leaving the relationship permanently. It's more for selfish purposes. However, most of the time when a female cheats, she's actually looking to move on and looking for a new partner rather than just temporary thrills, but she isn't able to be alone so she has to cheat to find someone else before ending what she is currently in.
Just my observations.
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