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My Psychic Experiences
sparky:
--- Quote from: star1 on November 13, 2018, 03:39:45 PM ---I've heard this lots of times from people who are waiting on an ex to come back, that somebody else is supposed to come in for them. I guess it's sod's law that when an ex does come back, you have to pick lol.
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This could very well be a common theme. It might be more of a way to try and move on sort of thing so you are not waiting. That by telling you there is someone else out there helps you move on. Which in turn causes your ex to feel the energy of you leaving them from constantly thinking about them. Then they reach out. Or it is simply a way for you to heal and move on to the next thing instead of dwelling on them for months or years.
11jlady:
To add: Since we are all energies, we can all feel when someone is connected to us via their thoughts/emotions etc. So, to be fair, these psychics do have a point in some of the things they say.
For example, when your POI/ex is distracted with someone else, you feel a sense of abandonment or being "cut off". You can feel that their energies are no longer directed at or "with" you and this is the reason why most of us call these psychics in the first place, other than going through some ups and downs and inconsistencies. So it would be the same thing switched around. When we stop thinking about our exes or POIs and focus our energies on someone or something else, they will also feel that at some point.
star1:
--- Quote from: sparky on November 13, 2018, 04:11:01 PM ---
--- Quote from: star1 on November 13, 2018, 03:39:45 PM ---I've heard this lots of times from people who are waiting on an ex to come back, that somebody else is supposed to come in for them. I guess it's sod's law that when an ex does come back, you have to pick lol.
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This could very well be a common theme. It might be more of a way to try and move on sort of thing so you are not waiting. That by telling you there is someone else out there helps you move on. Which in turn causes your ex to feel the energy of you leaving them from constantly thinking about them. Then they reach out. Or it is simply a way for you to heal and move on to the next thing instead of dwelling on them for months or years.
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I think it's more the latter and I think it's a typical coincidence personally when the ex comes back after you've moved on. I've said many times on here an ex has never come back to me after I've given up, but a friend has had all of her exes contact her on and off over the years. Everyone seems to have different strokes of luck.
sparky:
--- Quote from: 11jlady on November 13, 2018, 04:16:59 PM ---Thank you for sharing your experiences Sparky. I think sometimes it's hard to decipher between our intuition vs our emotions. At least, it's been that way for me. I suppose when we're able to step outside of our emotions we're able to get that intuition. I have a hard time stepping outside of my emotions. However, I will say, that when my ex left this last time, it felt very different than all the other times. I felt as though either I was never going to see him in person again or that it would be a very long time before I did and that's why it crushed me so much more this last time. Now I'm not sure if I got that feeling because I knew that I wasn't going to continue dealing with this or if it was because I knew, on a spiritual level, deep down inside that our time together was coming to an end either permanently or for an extended period of time due to him having a ton of life lessons to learn still.
As far as psychics predicting the worst case scenario with regards to exes coming back, I think some of them truly are gifted and really do see that there isn't going to be a further connection. It's actually more likely that an ex WILL return at some point, especially if the break up is still fresh. I'd say if it's been more than a year and a half, the chances are way more slim. However, I've had an ex pop back up into my life 10 years later and we had a relationship that lasted 3 years and then it was the permanent end. But usually, an ex will come back pending what the reason for the break up was in the first place. I also think there is a lot of confusion on coming back to reconcile vs coming back for some sort of closure vs coming back because they want to remain friends.
As Kisha put it, just because they may end up contacting you doesn't mean they are contacting for the purpose of reconciling the actual relationship. I also believe that because we are all energies, we can still feel a strong connection to a person on a spiritual level and that can even last a lifetime, but that doesn't mean we are going to live this particular life with them. I don't know. It's all convoluted. I'm just throwing out theories based upon things I've studied regarding the afterlife, spiritual realms, death, NDEs, past life regressions, etc. They all seem to have the same theme.
I think there are a handful of extremely gifted and legit psychics and the majority of the other ones just give readings based upon statistics and a bit of psychology. Especially those that ask you questions, they will base that upon historical behavior patterns of the POI. Also, throw in some astrology with it and you can predict even more about what that person may or may not do.
Every time I would call a psychic that wasn't legit in the past regarding past exes, and pretty much all of them weren't legit for me until I met Kisha and Psychic Shelly, they would always give me the time frame of 2 to 3 months out or would use seasons spring/summer/fall/winter. That seems to be a pattern for them. Anyway, those are just my thoughts.
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You make some excellent points and I think some people do confuse a psychic telling them that an ex that makes contact leads to reconciliation. It maybe that the ex just only makes contact. Pretty much all of the psychics told me that I would reconcile with my ex but with first contact from my ex in roughly Jan. It was one thing I wanted to catch and see if they would mention getting back together verses just contact. So you have to be careful on how you interpret what they say. I really think a lot hear their POI will make contact and immediately think they will reconcile. Then when that doesn't happen they get upset at the psychic saying their prediction was wrong. It wasn't wrong. They said they would contact you. They said nothing about reconciling. Even Kisha mentioned reconciling with my ex with the detailed account of what will happen from first contact to the end of late spring next year. The whole part of that was to lead up to reconciliation.
sparky:
--- Quote from: star1 on November 13, 2018, 04:27:00 PM ---
--- Quote from: sparky on November 13, 2018, 04:11:01 PM ---
--- Quote from: star1 on November 13, 2018, 03:39:45 PM ---I've heard this lots of times from people who are waiting on an ex to come back, that somebody else is supposed to come in for them. I guess it's sod's law that when an ex does come back, you have to pick lol.
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This could very well be a common theme. It might be more of a way to try and move on sort of thing so you are not waiting. That by telling you there is someone else out there helps you move on. Which in turn causes your ex to feel the energy of you leaving them from constantly thinking about them. Then they reach out. Or it is simply a way for you to heal and move on to the next thing instead of dwelling on them for months or years.
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I think it's more the latter and I think it's a typical coincidence personally when the ex comes back after you've moved on. I've said many times on here an ex has never come back to me after I've given up, but a friend has had all of her exes contact her on and off over the years. Everyone seems to have different strokes of luck.
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Well being a guy I swear that exes coming back for girls is way more common than it is for a guy. ;)
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