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THE END
Sparkle002:
I felt it is my DUTY to update my current situation with regard to my story.
Currently I have 2 guys around me: my POI (the one referenced in the topic of this thread) and the “New Guy”
So just an update - while most of my positive predictions came true through March as predicted (things getting better) - the reality is, NOTHING has happened since the end of March.
While I’ve been in contact with my POI, I have not seen him in a month. There are some reasons why this has happened (1: he stated he wasn’t ready for a relationship, which is fine, but some things he said threw me off and, 2: I said something that threw him off for a while) - however I didnt think that those things would keep us in this “separation” as long as we have now.
Now, I will say - when readers say things will get “BETTER”, yeah it means exactly that (if it comes true). Better doesnt mean forever. It’s like a weather front that comes through and doesnt last. It just like being “happy”, no one is happy consistently, content maybe, but not necessarily happy. Basically this term is as vague as SOON and MAYBE.
Anyway, in the meantime I met the new guy. No real updates there yet, as he is still new.
Basically given the weather of emotions I’m dealing with now (not necessarily a Thunderstorm because I’m not torn up about it now, however I’d call it a Thunderstorm about 3 weeks ago when it was all fresh when we had our tiff), but now I’d say my emotions are more or less like Partly Sunny skies. So I’m good.
I say this to say here are what my readers have predicted - yet at this point, I am over the POI. Maybe the new guy will be the new POI who knows. But I’m good on him.
Now that I’m “good” meaning “I’m done”, I dont see how in the world any of the following predictions will come true. I know, I know I thought it was THE END before, but this time, I’m so over it lol.
- Yona - Specifically said I would be offered a commitment from him at the end of the year and I would sleep on it and think “is this the right choice” - she says I will say yes and stick with it. This was a very detailed prediction (over 20 mins long) describing the POI exactly and how it would happen
- Kisha - Specifically saw POI getting better and improving his life to where we would have a solid relationship in the fall - Companionship, Relationship and Partnership she said all of the above
- Cookie - Now she flipped on me - she said all these positive things would happen between us after I knew him a year. Here we are and nothing. She also mentioned him inviting me to things, meeting family (clearly she saw the wrong person) and me feeling complete and in a good place at the end of the year. Now, she doesn’t see me in a relationship with him or anyone else this year.
Indio, Tajah, Venus, etc all of my other readers saw this moving forward, however they DID warn me about his inconsistency. ALL OF THEM. Lol. I’m just done with the inconsistency for this long, I mean, its just retarded.
So, I’m good! I’m not sad or disappointed (he has disappointed me enough). I do not see how Kisha and Yona could be right because the POI has gone far beyond no return. We could possibly still be friends, but thats it.
And no I don’t want to “hope”....actually I’ve never “hoped” in this situation, I took it as it came. So no need in mentioning not to lose hope, because it was never there
Again, if anything changes, I’ll update. Some predicted events that happen between me and him may happen, but I doubt I’ll be in a committed relationship - he isn’t ready for one and I dont even want one with him after all this anyway (I questioned it the entire time but, yeah I’m good)
bstalling:
I will say Yona was probably seeing someone else and mistaking him for the current POI. Its probably something that will happen years later.
Sparkle002:
--- Quote from: bstalling on May 02, 2019, 11:53:27 PM ---I will say Yona was probably seeing someone else and mistaking him for the current POI. Its probably something that will happen years later.
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I agree that it could be someone else, BUT nah. I think she is just wrong in this instance (first time for her to be completely wrong with me but its ok).
When I tell you the POI she describes is so specific to the guy in question (i.e. legal situation with BM, stress due to his business, etc) she’s seeing him, but its just wrong lol.
Also my cards move pretty fast....the legal situation with him is happening this year (I know I wont be dealing with him a year later dealing that child support situation sheesh)
well let me add this tidbit - this is a repeated prediction from January with more detail. There is a clip that states “he will tell you a lie or excuse, its not malicious, but DO NOT challenge him on it”. IN my most recent reading in April, the cards said the SAME THING - it said the lie was not malicious and it could actually be a surprise because - thats what ppl do when they are keeping a surprise (is what Yona said). But again the cards warned me to NOT challenge it until I see him face to face.
But I understand bstalling, if I saw someone post this I’d say the same thing, but there is no way this same type of scenario with the specificity would happen with someone else who is going through a legal situation with their BM, owns a business, etc etc - if it was a bit of a vague prediction I’d be open to it being someone else, but NAH lol
josh34:
--- Quote from: Sparkle002 on May 02, 2019, 11:45:39 PM ---I felt it is my DUTY to update my current situation with regard to my story.
Currently I have 2 guys around me: my POI (the one referenced in the topic of this thread) and the “New Guy”
So just an update - while most of my positive predictions came true through March as predicted (things getting better) - the reality is, NOTHING has happened since the end of March.
While I’ve been in contact with my POI, I have not seen him in a month. There are some reasons why this has happened (1: he stated he wasn’t ready for a relationship, which is fine, but some things he said threw me off and, 2: I said something that threw him off for a while) - however I didnt think that those things would keep us in this “separation” as long as we have now.
Now, I will say - when readers say things will get “BETTER”, yeah it means exactly that (if it comes true). Better doesnt mean forever. It’s like a weather front that comes through and doesnt last. It just like being “happy”, no one is happy consistently, content maybe, but not necessarily happy. Basically this term is as vague as SOON and MAYBE.
Anyway, in the meantime I met the new guy. No real updates there yet, as he is still new.
Basically given the weather of emotions I’m dealing with now (not necessarily a Thunderstorm because I’m not torn up about it now, however I’d call it a Thunderstorm about 3 weeks ago when it was all fresh when we had our tiff), but now I’d say my emotions are more or less like Partly Sunny skies. So I’m good.
I say this to say here are what my readers have predicted - yet at this point, I am over the POI. Maybe the new guy will be the new POI who knows. But I’m good on him.
Now that I’m “good” meaning “I’m done”, I dont see how in the world any of the following predictions will come true. I know, I know I thought it was THE END before, but this time, I’m so over it lol.
- Yona - Specifically said I would be offered a commitment from him at the end of the year and I would sleep on it and think “is this the right choice” - she says I will say yes and stick with it. This was a very detailed prediction (over 20 mins long) describing the POI exactly and how it would happen
- Kisha - Specifically saw POI getting better and improving his life to where we would have a solid relationship in the fall - Companionship, Relationship and Partnership she said all of the above
- Cookie - Now she flipped on me - she said all these positive things would happen between us after I knew him a year. Here we are and nothing. She also mentioned him inviting me to things, meeting family (clearly she saw the wrong person) and me feeling complete and in a good place at the end of the year. Now, she doesn’t see me in a relationship with him or anyone else this year.
Indio, Tajah, Venus, etc all of my other readers saw this moving forward, however they DID warn me about his inconsistency. ALL OF THEM. Lol. I’m just done with the inconsistency for this long, I mean, its just retarded.
So, I’m good! I’m not sad or disappointed (he has disappointed me enough). I do not see how Kisha and Yona could be right because the POI has gone far beyond no return. We could possibly still be friends, but thats it.
And no I don’t want to “hope”....actually I’ve never “hoped” in this situation, I took it as it came. So no need in mentioning not to lose hope, because it was never there
Again, if anything changes, I’ll update. Some predicted events that happen between me and him may happen, but I doubt I’ll be in a committed relationship - he isn’t ready for one and I dont even want one with him after all this anyway (I questioned it the entire time but, yeah I’m good)
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Sounds to me like he may come around, offering that commitment, and you'll be asking yourself, "Is this the right choice" BECAUSE of the lesser interest in him. Like, maybe you'll find that when he comes around, you're missing him, and then you'll be emotionally conflicted and maybe Yona will end up being right? It wouldn't be the first time this happened;)
Either way, I do hope she's right for you this time, too! If not for the guy, for the fact that you'll have that reader who's "always" accurate for you! You deserve that! Hope you're doing well <3 <3 <3
Sparkle002:
Thanks Josh!
--- Quote from: josh34 on May 03, 2019, 12:35:19 AM ---
--- Quote from: Sparkle002 on May 02, 2019, 11:45:39 PM ---I felt it is my DUTY to update my current situation with regard to my story.
Currently I have 2 guys around me: my POI (the one referenced in the topic of this thread) and the “New Guy”
So just an update - while most of my positive predictions came true through March as predicted (things getting better) - the reality is, NOTHING has happened since the end of March.
While I’ve been in contact with my POI, I have not seen him in a month. There are some reasons why this has happened (1: he stated he wasn’t ready for a relationship, which is fine, but some things he said threw me off and, 2: I said something that threw him off for a while) - however I didnt think that those things would keep us in this “separation” as long as we have now.
Now, I will say - when readers say things will get “BETTER”, yeah it means exactly that (if it comes true). Better doesnt mean forever. It’s like a weather front that comes through and doesnt last. It just like being “happy”, no one is happy consistently, content maybe, but not necessarily happy. Basically this term is as vague as SOON and MAYBE.
Anyway, in the meantime I met the new guy. No real updates there yet, as he is still new.
Basically given the weather of emotions I’m dealing with now (not necessarily a Thunderstorm because I’m not torn up about it now, however I’d call it a Thunderstorm about 3 weeks ago when it was all fresh when we had our tiff), but now I’d say my emotions are more or less like Partly Sunny skies. So I’m good.
I say this to say here are what my readers have predicted - yet at this point, I am over the POI. Maybe the new guy will be the new POI who knows. But I’m good on him.
Now that I’m “good” meaning “I’m done”, I dont see how in the world any of the following predictions will come true. I know, I know I thought it was THE END before, but this time, I’m so over it lol.
- Yona - Specifically said I would be offered a commitment from him at the end of the year and I would sleep on it and think “is this the right choice” - she says I will say yes and stick with it. This was a very detailed prediction (over 20 mins long) describing the POI exactly and how it would happen
- Kisha - Specifically saw POI getting better and improving his life to where we would have a solid relationship in the fall - Companionship, Relationship and Partnership she said all of the above
- Cookie - Now she flipped on me - she said all these positive things would happen between us after I knew him a year. Here we are and nothing. She also mentioned him inviting me to things, meeting family (clearly she saw the wrong person) and me feeling complete and in a good place at the end of the year. Now, she doesn’t see me in a relationship with him or anyone else this year.
Indio, Tajah, Venus, etc all of my other readers saw this moving forward, however they DID warn me about his inconsistency. ALL OF THEM. Lol. I’m just done with the inconsistency for this long, I mean, its just retarded.
So, I’m good! I’m not sad or disappointed (he has disappointed me enough). I do not see how Kisha and Yona could be right because the POI has gone far beyond no return. We could possibly still be friends, but thats it.
And no I don’t want to “hope”....actually I’ve never “hoped” in this situation, I took it as it came. So no need in mentioning not to lose hope, because it was never there
Again, if anything changes, I’ll update. Some predicted events that happen between me and him may happen, but I doubt I’ll be in a committed relationship - he isn’t ready for one and I dont even want one with him after all this anyway (I questioned it the entire time but, yeah I’m good)
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Sounds to me like he may come around, offering that commitment, and you'll be asking yourself, "Is this the right choice" BECAUSE of the lesser interest in him. Like, maybe you'll find that when he comes around, you're missing him, and then you'll be emotionally conflicted and maybe Yona will end up being right? It wouldn't be the first time this happened;)
Either way, I do hope she's right for you this time, too! If not for the guy, for the fact that you'll have that reader who's "always" accurate for you! You deserve that! Hope you're doing well <3 <3 <3
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