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Bg2020:
Hi Sparkle -- I think I understand -- So the reader was reading as if you were his actual wife (the one he's still with) NOT you but HER....
So got to hear the perspective from her side really -- interesting... ???
Who is this reader?
Sparkle002:
--- Quote from: Bg2020 on June 22, 2020, 11:02:42 PM ---Hi Sparkle -- I think I understand -- So the reader was reading as if you were his actual wife (the one he's still with) NOT you but HER....
So got to hear the perspective from her side really -- interesting... ???
Who is this reader?
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YEP!! It was very interesting lol....it was Domino from CP.
She was pretty good at picking up things but wow. See I asked her to see what was going on in "his life" out of curiousity vs "what was coming up between me and him" and thats what I got lol
Wonder if she does this alot.
I find sometimes readers can reader you as the OTHER PERSON if there is another person involved.
Whew just another reason to BE CAREFUL.
Sparkle002:
--- Quote from: th3awakened1 on June 22, 2020, 10:50:59 PM ---
--- Quote from: Sparkle002 on June 22, 2020, 05:38:42 AM ---"ODD READING" - I was being read to as the "Main" party vs the "3rd Party" and it was interesting lol
So basically she read to me as if I was the actual WIFE lol
So I happened to read with a new reader a couple of weeks ago, and when I went back to listen to the reading I laughed because I totally forgot about this reading. Basically - my situation revolved around my POI (I'll say my previous POI, because I dont claim that anymore for him) and as you all know he is Married - so I am technically the "3rd Party" for all intents and purposes.
As we went through the reading - she said (as if I was the WIFE)
"In the past, There is a strain, emotional, pain and discomfort in your relationship. Currently, there needs to be strength to move forward from the past. There is a desire to triumph over issues in the past. In the Future, there is a change in the wind where things have piled up, between youguys, a new start, where you guys can put guards down and be able to start new and move forward...this could be moving forward into a new chapter, could be separate ways...., but it may be a positive way where it is a chance to start again.
I then ask "Whats going on in his personal life"
"There is strain on your relationship. He is in a place of thinking ....he feels like he wants to maneuver a way out of this. He wants to get away from particular energy that is knocking on his door - this is another energy. This is not definitely 3rd party, but there is an influence of another 3rd party or female energy that is causing him some sort of discomfort. It affects him and your relationship. There is a desire for this person to try to ... there is an element of him of wanting to hold on to this person to a degree.... But I feels like there is a level of unhappiness in your relationship. I dont know if he has vocalized that or not to you. There is a vulnerability to this dynamic and shakiness to your connection - there is a danger, that someone else (the energy) that could get itself through the door - its showing up in his energetic field. He feels things are so hard between you, and they are difficult. That could allow another female energy in. There is a disconnection here that he is not happy - it looks like he may allow this person in...it doesn't look like they have gotten in, but I feel like the vulnerability he has is there - because of the way that youguys are right now and this could be the issue...but I dont sense any outright infidelity or anything yet, but there is a caution there. .. looks like you are on uneven ground here, and appears that he is unhappy. Has he told you he is unhappy with the relationship? Its like I dont know if you make demands on him or what, but he isnt happy. This unhappiness leads to a vulnerability that appears to allow another energy in, another woman. It seems like this woman is trying to come in...."
"There has to be a dropping of defenses here in order for there to be an opening with you to move forward - there is an opportunity to start over, but its contingent about whats happened in the past".
Well damn Gina! LOL As we went through the reading, I let her know that he was married and already in a relationship. So I asked for clarification here - If he was moving forward with an opening with the wife and he was unhappy with me, or was he unhappy with the wife, and open up with me? She clarified that the reading showed that he was unhappy with a relationship he is already in and she said when I asked to look into his life this is what she picked up" So it appeared that the unhappiness was within his current relationship.
This is hilarious because there isnt a reason for him to be "unhappy" with me ...and all readers have had the constant theme of him being "unhappy" in his marriage.
Whats funny is that she didnt see true infidelity (which is true between us) and that he has not let this person (me) in lol.
BUT wow - Im being shown as this other energy that he is trying to push away - FUNNY.
AND - based on the Future (what was mentioned above) there is a new chapter - where there is a fresh start where he is either leaving the situation or moving forward or rekindling within the marriage...this is contingent upon dropping defenses on what has happened in the past between them.
Thought Id update this tidbit....who knows what the hell will happen as there are so many outcomes Im given--hell Im not even given an ending as I usually do with any guy I call about (outcomes are always given, not asked)...and some of these predictions span from 6-12 MONTHS SMH (Cookie, Kisha, Venus, and River see out to 21 months + with this situation sooo yeah)
So it may be safe to say, I'll probably come back and update on this story - but this one I truly have NO IDEA even with all the readings whats going on because its a mixed bag.
Either way he isnt a priority, Im simply updating this story as a Journalist does with the latest News and how predictions match with reality.
Until Next Time...
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hi Sparkle, so did she read you as the wife from the get go without you telling her otherwise? You didn't tell her you weren't the wife? I am trying to keep up this reading but it's making my head spin so I am sure it did that for you. Just wanted to confirm. Also last post you said you were done with him? Still the case or have things picked back up again?
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Yes I just asked her "What is going on in his life" so she had no idea I was NOT the wife... I didnt tell her until after she got done with that first part of the reading. This reading was from a few weeks ago and I just happened to listen to it...so this is what made me add the update.
I am done with him but I also work with him so he will still be around. This reading was a couple of weeks ago and I just happened to listen to it.
At this point Im acting as a journalist and providing updates of predictions rather than focusing on anything happening with me and him - because there is nothing.
We did get past the work annoyance/argument we had - and came to an agreement - basically, I found out he wasnt at fault, but still the way he went about it was messed up. He corrected the situation by including me in a meeting so that we could set everything straight. BUt either way, that act definitely made me lose attraction for him. I will be honest to and say there is still a sense of this connection with him - energetically only though. No romance or anything...just a pull ...just there like it was in the beginning. I just had to learn to let it sit there. It annoying really this energetic pull - clearly to me a soul mate sign. I just feel his purpose is more or less to help me with my career more than anything rather than a love connection.
So thats how I feel about that! lol
Sparkle002:
--- Quote from: th3awakened1 on June 22, 2020, 11:46:43 PM ---
--- Quote from: Sparkle002 on June 22, 2020, 11:35:59 PM ---
--- Quote from: Bg2020 on June 22, 2020, 11:02:42 PM ---Hi Sparkle -- I think I understand -- So the reader was reading as if you were his actual wife (the one he's still with) NOT you but HER....
So got to hear the perspective from her side really -- interesting... ???
Who is this reader?
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YEP!! It was very interesting lol....it was Domino from CP.
She was pretty good at picking up things but wow. See I asked her to see what was going on in "his life" out of curiousity vs "what was coming up between me and him" and thats what I got lol
Wonder if she does this alot.
I find sometimes readers can reader you as the OTHER PERSON if there is another person involved.
Whew just another reason to BE CAREFUL.
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I read with her. She was just no good. I ended the chat after 3 minutes.
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Hmm Interesting I havent had luck with chat readings (only did it 2 -3 times in the past) never read under 10 mins...IMO I just dont think readers are that great with chat...what in the world did she say in chat under 3 mins in chat lol? (its a rhetorical question no need to answer lol)
I feel like they take 2 minutes to connect on chat and drag it out smh..its safe to say all my chat readings with anyone were wrong for me. But i guess it shouldnt matter what medium, i guess - but depends on the reader.
For me She picked up the situation well but flipped it in the beginning... but the insight as the wife was pretty cool though lol
beachgal214:
hey girl hey! any updates to your sparkle story? Hope you are well!!
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