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Sparkle002:
--- Quote from: Smiley1 on June 08, 2020, 09:55:27 AM ---Sparkle in my experience (more than 2 married men who forgot they were married when I met them)
Every reader told me wifey was nuts, unhappy, in another situations, controlling, they’re not engaging, etc etc.
Over numerous men. I swear I don’t go looking for them.
All psychics told me they would leave, divorce, live with me, tell me they need change.
None of them ever left and all of them are still married.
Only one was pre predicted.
Psychics no nothing and married men are dumb.
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Funny you say that, Ive compared notes with other users on the board with similar situations as mine and the readers have said the exact same things!
For example, they will be making "changes in their life", or the wife was "mean and or crazy", or they would say we would "live together"
Now what interesting is that some of my friends use the same or diff readers and when we compare notes the readings are so similar.
Like why do they do this? Why would they say they would live with us or move out from their spouse or always pick up the wife as mean?
Here is the thing, I feel that these readers are very honest in what they pick up - I mean they dont often pick up that he is married, rather they see a woman around him and that woman has some negative influence on him. Some pick up marriage, But im not sure why their guides tell them those things or maybe they are misinterpreting the message? Seems to be a theme when it comes to predictions around married men.
In this situation, I really dont have anything negative to say about him other than his bad attitude. I didnt have issues with him being married because we were coworkers first and had a bit of friendship and there wasnt anything he lied about - (unless he is lying that he is happy). But there really isnt much to this situation as it hadnt gone too deep.
@Smiley1 I totally understand. Like we do nothing but live our lives and then here comes an unavailable man. Im sorry that you went through this - sucks being lied to - which is really sad. So I understand how you could get caught up thinking that this could go somewhere, and then it followed with more lies. It can be heartbreaking. Im so glad I found out upfront. But I was so curious thats all - curious to see what would happen based on the predictions...didnt really hope or want for him to leave his wife as I wasnt expecting that for some reason. I dont know I just thought that if he left her organically cool if not, well we still have a friendship. But again, it was his bad attitude and the way he handled a small situation that threw me off.
Sometimes when readers pick up these themes it actually is a way they interpret the message they are getting - so I wonder what "Living together" or "Changes" means - as often interpretations arent straightforward when it comes to readers. When Cookie saw him coming to my house spending the night more than once a week then twice a week and would be with me over the weekends (in my latest reading) I wondered if thats what they saw as "living together". Again I doubt Cookie was actually seeing him.
It is so weird! Like why these dramatic predictions for a guy who is attached? Ive never ever called on a guy who is attached. But it seems like when you do all readers no matter what will say the guy would leave the girl - its crazy!! Like has anyone ever called and a reader told them - nope their relationship is fine? Kisha is the ONLY one who has said that about thier relationship - well her and Golden Dawn Tarot. Thats it. Everyone sees unhappyness and wanting to separate. Everyone tells me he would open up about his feelings and let me know his situation - and honeslty - that is the MAIN prediction ive been waiting on more than anything because I want to know what he would tell me!! Because he already said his marriage was fine. But readers make it seem like he is going to come out and tell me that is is NOT fine and that he is leaving or something. Again, if this does happens, doesnt mean he would actually do it.
Again, this is just not one reader who said this about leaving/divorce/separaation. There are MANY that have said this ranging from QOC, to Venus to Barbara to Venus to Cookie, etc. A whole host of them. Some have been consistent - Like Venus, but others have went back and forth saying he will leave and then he would stay. Again, I dont ask directly they tell me. And if I do ask directly its because I would say other readers told me, so what do you see?
Smiley - did you ever read with Cookie and did she tell you specific things that would happen with the married guy?
Smiley1:
No never read with cookie. But lots of other reputable readers told me they would leave. Going back to 2012 right up until 2018 when I just stopped dating until I met my new poi.
Only one reader at the end of 2018 said move on. The guy I was seeing is lying to me.
--- Quote from: Sparkle002 on June 08, 2020, 11:48:41 AM ---
--- Quote from: Smiley1 on June 08, 2020, 09:55:27 AM ---Sparkle in my experience (more than 2 married men who forgot they were married when I met them)
Every reader told me wifey was nuts, unhappy, in another situations, controlling, they’re not engaging, etc etc.
Over numerous men. I swear I don’t go looking for them.
All psychics told me they would leave, divorce, live with me, tell me they need change.
None of them ever left and all of them are still married.
Only one was pre predicted.
Psychics no nothing and married men are dumb.
--- End quote ---
Funny you say that, Ive compared notes with other users on the board with similar situations as mine and the readers have said the exact same things!
For example, they will be making "changes in their life", or the wife was "mean and or crazy", or they would say we would "live together"
Now what interesting is that some of my friends use the same or diff readers and when we compare notes the readings are so similar.
Like why do they do this? Why would they say they would live with us or move out from their spouse or always pick up the wife as mean?
Here is the thing, I feel that these readers are very honest in what they pick up - I mean they dont often pick up that he is married, rather they see a woman around him and that woman has some negative influence on him. Some pick up marriage, But im not sure why their guides tell them those things or maybe they are misinterpreting the message? Seems to be a theme when it comes to predictions around married men.
In this situation, I really dont have anything negative to say about him other than his bad attitude. I didnt have issues with him being married because we were coworkers first and had a bit of friendship and there wasnt anything he lied about - (unless he is lying that he is happy). But there really isnt much to this situation as it hadnt gone too deep.
@Smiley1 I totally understand. Like we do nothing but live our lives and then here comes an unavailable man. Im sorry that you went through this - sucks being lied to - which is really sad. So I understand how you could get caught up thinking that this could go somewhere, and then it followed with more lies. It can be heartbreaking. Im so glad I found out upfront. But I was so curious thats all - curious to see what would happen based on the predictions...didnt really hope or want for him to leave his wife as I wasnt expecting that for some reason. I dont know I just thought that if he left her organically cool if not, well we still have a friendship. But again, it was his bad attitude and the way he handled a small situation that threw me off.
Sometimes when readers pick up these themes it actually is a way they interpret the message they are getting - so I wonder what "Living together" or "Changes" means - as often interpretations arent straightforward when it comes to readers. When Cookie saw him coming to my house spending the night more than once a week then twice a week and would be with me over the weekends (in my latest reading) I wondered if thats what they saw as "living together". Again I doubt Cookie was actually seeing him.
It is so weird! Like why these dramatic predictions for a guy who is attached? Ive never ever called on a guy who is attached. But it seems like when you do all readers no matter what will say the guy would leave the girl - its crazy!! Like has anyone ever called and a reader told them - nope their relationship is fine? Kisha is the ONLY one who has said that about thier relationship - well her and Golden Dawn Tarot. Thats it. Everyone sees unhappyness and wanting to separate. Everyone tells me he would open up about his feelings and let me know his situation - and honeslty - that is the MAIN prediction ive been waiting on more than anything because I want to know what he would tell me!! Because he already said his marriage was fine. But readers make it seem like he is going to come out and tell me that is is NOT fine and that he is leaving or something. Again, if this does happens, doesnt mean he would actually do it.
Again, this is just not one reader who said this about leaving/divorce/separaation. There are MANY that have said this ranging from QOC, to Venus to Barbara to Venus to Cookie, etc. A whole host of them. Some have been consistent - Like Venus, but others have went back and forth saying he will leave and then he would stay. Again, I dont ask directly they tell me. And if I do ask directly its because I would say other readers told me, so what do you see?
Smiley - did you ever read with Cookie and did she tell you specific things that would happen with the married guy?
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Sparkle002:
Im also irritated at the prediction Cookie gave me - she said that from March - May he could go quiet and would be indifferent (basically he communicated still but didnt say or call much)...but after May he would "get better" but now that I read with her in May - she told me I would be irritated and frustrated with him from June - December! Even though she saw progression and him saying he loved me. Also, a year before she said when I met this guy I would be happy over the summer of 2020 (her and many others) Like none of that makes sense. If im frustrated (like I am now) how could I continue to be attracted to a person to engage further? Annoying.
Sparkle002:
--- Quote from: th3awakened1 on June 08, 2020, 01:31:49 PM ---Okay, I know you don't want judgement and I'll keep my opinion on all this out but maybe this is YOUR sign to leave that man alone. You give him way too much attention for him being married with kids. I know it emotionally got deeper but you also let that happen. I have chatted and talked to many men and become good friends over the years without it getting to this level even when I was married. At the end of the day there was an affair even if not physically but emotionally. Take as you lesson to create firm boundaries with your interactions with him or any other married men in the future. We allow things to unfold that way and I am sorry to say married men sometimes really only enjoy the attention you give them. They probably sit there and say "I still got it" to their friends. Do some take the leap into affairs? Absolutely, but many just enjoy the extra attention you are giving them and that's the only reason why they continue to entertain you.
Again, take this experience from that situation to see this is not worth the level of effort you are giving it and move on. I am realizing many psychics even probably the top tier ones are just designed to run with something to keep us stuck and keep their pockets fuller.
Lastly, as a divorced women.... We are all mean and crazy in the man's eyes and point of view but the thing they always fail to mention or recognize is that 90% of the time they drove us there with their behavior or actions.
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Totally agree with the bolded lol
Honestly - I didnt need a sign. I knew what I was doing and knew the potential issues that could arise, including his personality. I just liked the attention just like he probably liked the attention. No one else was giving it to me - and he was consistent (more than any other single man Ive met smh) and I enjoyed the attention more than anything. So I too was selfish in this situation while fully being aware that he was married. I didnt have any expectations or hope for anything - just curious to see where and how far it would go.
So as far as giving way too much attention to him - I believe that is subjective. If we are basing my attention based on my posts about him and readings - its merely because I am bored in the house alone, getting readings because Im bored and curious and it entertains me. Just know these readings are not all about calling just about him - he always comes up in my readings when I call generally about my love life.
We havent really gotten to any level - it hasnt even become an affair - we literally just communicate and mainly its about work. But the predictions are what keeps me interested, keeps me going because its something more interesting than what is really going on right now. These predictions are what is fueling this along. But I dont have regrets about calling or anything because again, I called generally about my love life.
So all in all - while I like to write about it, talk about it and all that - the relationship isnt really that deep to me which is why Im able to move on emotionally so easy.
So, in the end, I am seeking attention as well which is why Im giving this situation any type of energy.
Its entertaining, its something to talk about and I liked getting the attention from him.
Him having an attitude or whatever didnt really have to teach me about creating boundries with married men. I already know better lol.
I just did it anyway - again because of the attention.
While this may be "morally" incorrect - I just let it happen, it was just an organic connection. Thats really it.
Jenjen:
Right on..feel you. I have done the married person "thing" loved the attention..anyhows.
Glad it ended...
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