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Help, please? 3 of cups as fear?
Love2lovenj:
--- Quote from: user5942 on September 28, 2018, 09:19:26 AM ---Thank you all! I’m taking it as it will just be a fling involving physical intimacy since there are so many swords. I think of swords = penetration. We have a history of strong physical chemistry. Also that I will have control this time (3 of Swords and Magician) and I will not be overly forgiving since of past heartbreak and have power over my heart this time. (Maybe) he will be the one to be left this time around for another person (why his fear would be 3 of cups) and that he is expecting to be left in the cold (5 of pentacles)...Here is the way the spread goes:
Separation / Reunion (15 cards)
1 2 _ _ 3 4
_ 5 _ _ 6 _
_ 7 _ _ 8 _
_ _ 9x10 _ _ (ten crosses 9)
13 14__11 12
____ 15 ____
1-2: (read together) How you thought of them (during the separation) - Hierophant and 8 of Wands
3-4: (read together) How they thought of you - The Star and 8 of Swords
5: What you expect (from the reunion) - 9 of Swords
6: What they expect - 5 of Pentacles
7: What you fear - 8 of Pentacles
8: What they fear - 3 of Cups
9/10: Crossroads: The reunion itself. the 10 crosses the 9 as in the first 2 cards of CC. - 3 of Swords and Magician
11-12: (read together) What you bring away. High Priestess and 4 of Wands
13-14 (read together) What they bring away. Queen of Swords and Knight of Cups
15: The future of the relationship. 5 of Swords
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I really enjoyed this spread and actually seemed accurate for my situation so thanks for sharing it.
sjm1986:
--- Quote from: Love2lovenj on January 09, 2019, 07:54:47 PM ---
--- Quote from: user5942 on September 28, 2018, 09:19:26 AM ---Thank you all! I’m taking it as it will just be a fling involving physical intimacy since there are so many swords. I think of swords = penetration. We have a history of strong physical chemistry. Also that I will have control this time (3 of Swords and Magician) and I will not be overly forgiving since of past heartbreak and have power over my heart this time. (Maybe) he will be the one to be left this time around for another person (why his fear would be 3 of cups) and that he is expecting to be left in the cold (5 of pentacles)...Here is the way the spread goes:
Separation / Reunion (15 cards)
1 2 _ _ 3 4
_ 5 _ _ 6 _
_ 7 _ _ 8 _
_ _ 9x10 _ _ (ten crosses 9)
13 14__11 12
____ 15 ____
1-2: (read together) How you thought of them (during the separation) - Hierophant and 8 of Wands
3-4: (read together) How they thought of you - The Star and 8 of Swords
5: What you expect (from the reunion) - 9 of Swords
6: What they expect - 5 of Pentacles
7: What you fear - 8 of Pentacles
8: What they fear - 3 of Cups
9/10: Crossroads: The reunion itself. the 10 crosses the 9 as in the first 2 cards of CC. - 3 of Swords and Magician
11-12: (read together) What you bring away. High Priestess and 4 of Wands
13-14 (read together) What they bring away. Queen of Swords and Knight of Cups
15: The future of the relationship. 5 of Swords
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I really enjoyed this spread and actually seemed accurate for my situation so thanks for sharing it.
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Swords don't mean anything physical at all. They're completely mind cards. They're the only suit that doesn't have any physical component to it. So being so many swords, I would say means there's going to be a lot of thoughts and anxieties that aren't necessarily grounded. The 5 of swords as the future is probably the worst outcome, aside from death or the 10 of swords. The 5 of swords might even be worse since it's very heart wrenching but not an ending. So it's traumatic and something that should end but it doesn't. It still could if you looked at it further in time but that 5 of swords is just bad. Since you got the high priestess and 4 of wands though as for what you'll bring away, I'm thinking you'll still come out on top and have your dignity. The 5 of swords is basically an asshole who hurts people very badly who love him and he may or may not realize it but either way, he does it for his own gain. There are no feelings and usually the jerk doesn't give a damn about those that love him. It's come up for me basically every time I've been about to be cheated on or about to find out about it. The other part to it though, is that the people he hurt basically give up and they're like "whatever dude. Go enjoy your victory alone" and they're still hurt by it but they value love over whatever other crap got in the way so they're fine because at least they can live with themselves and they have a better future ahead of them since they're not assholes. So maybe that's why it was showing you still coming out on top even after the 5 of swords as the outcome. He ends up with a queen of swords but you are the high priestess here which means something since the HP isn't associated with a suit, but if she was, she wouldn't be a swords at all. And getting the knight of cups, I think what he takes away from it is pursuing a queen of swords. It wouldn't have shown up as another "person" card if it was both supposed to be you. I doubt he'll be happy for very long but I think the cards that are for what you take away are the best part of this reading. The outcome is bad but what you take away I think is the most important since it's the thing you're still with after the relationship is over. Or if it was a good outcome, it would be what you're left with out of the relationship. Either way, it's the only part of it that stays with you and those are awesome cards to get. I love the HP lol. She's my spirit animal :)
ladya:
--- Quote from: sjm1986 on January 09, 2019, 09:27:15 PM ---
--- Quote from: Love2lovenj on January 09, 2019, 07:54:47 PM ---
--- Quote from: user5942 on September 28, 2018, 09:19:26 AM ---Thank you all! I’m taking it as it will just be a fling involving physical intimacy since there are so many swords. I think of swords = penetration. We have a history of strong physical chemistry. Also that I will have control this time (3 of Swords and Magician) and I will not be overly forgiving since of past heartbreak and have power over my heart this time. (Maybe) he will be the one to be left this time around for another person (why his fear would be 3 of cups) and that he is expecting to be left in the cold (5 of pentacles)...Here is the way the spread goes:
Separation / Reunion (15 cards)
1 2 _ _ 3 4
_ 5 _ _ 6 _
_ 7 _ _ 8 _
_ _ 9x10 _ _ (ten crosses 9)
13 14__11 12
____ 15 ____
1-2: (read together) How you thought of them (during the separation) - Hierophant and 8 of Wands
3-4: (read together) How they thought of you - The Star and 8 of Swords
5: What you expect (from the reunion) - 9 of Swords
6: What they expect - 5 of Pentacles
7: What you fear - 8 of Pentacles
8: What they fear - 3 of Cups
9/10: Crossroads: The reunion itself. the 10 crosses the 9 as in the first 2 cards of CC. - 3 of Swords and Magician
11-12: (read together) What you bring away. High Priestess and 4 of Wands
13-14 (read together) What they bring away. Queen of Swords and Knight of Cups
15: The future of the relationship. 5 of Swords
--- End quote ---
I really enjoyed this spread and actually seemed accurate for my situation so thanks for sharing it.
--- End quote ---
Swords don't mean anything physical at all. They're completely mind cards. They're the only suit that doesn't have any physical component to it. So being so many swords, I would say means there's going to be a lot of thoughts and anxieties that aren't necessarily grounded. The 5 of swords as the future is probably the worst outcome, aside from death or the 10 of swords. The 5 of swords might even be worse since it's very heart wrenching but not an ending. So it's traumatic and something that should end but it doesn't. It still could if you looked at it further in time but that 5 of swords is just bad. Since you got the high priestess and 4 of wands though as for what you'll bring away, I'm thinking you'll still come out on top and have your dignity. The 5 of swords is basically an asshole who hurts people very badly who love him and he may or may not realize it but either way, he does it for his own gain. There are no feelings and usually the jerk doesn't give a damn about those that love him. It's come up for me basically every time I've been about to be cheated on or about to find out about it. The other part to it though, is that the people he hurt basically give up and they're like "whatever dude. Go enjoy your victory alone" and they're still hurt by it but they value love over whatever other crap got in the way so they're fine because at least they can live with themselves and they have a better future ahead of them since they're not assholes. So maybe that's why it was showing you still coming out on top even after the 5 of swords as the outcome. He ends up with a queen of swords but you are the high priestess here which means something since the HP isn't associated with a suit, but if she was, she wouldn't be a swords at all. And getting the knight of cups, I think what he takes away from it is pursuing a queen of swords. It wouldn't have shown up as another "person" card if it was both supposed to be you. I doubt he'll be happy for very long but I think the cards that are for what you take away are the best part of this reading. The outcome is bad but what you take away I think is the most important since it's the thing you're still with after the relationship is over. Or if it was a good outcome, it would be what you're left with out of the relationship. Either way, it's the only part of it that stays with you and those are awesome cards to get. I love the HP lol. She's my spirit animal :)
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lol i never associate swords with anything physical either. lol queen of swords is my spirit animal LOL and the empress. i know people associate QOS with air signs but who she is to me is the embodiment of scorponic energy.
sjm1986:
--- Quote from: ladya on January 09, 2019, 10:00:58 PM ---
--- Quote from: sjm1986 on January 09, 2019, 09:27:15 PM ---
--- Quote from: Love2lovenj on January 09, 2019, 07:54:47 PM ---
--- Quote from: user5942 on September 28, 2018, 09:19:26 AM ---Thank you all! I’m taking it as it will just be a fling involving physical intimacy since there are so many swords. I think of swords = penetration. We have a history of strong physical chemistry. Also that I will have control this time (3 of Swords and Magician) and I will not be overly forgiving since of past heartbreak and have power over my heart this time. (Maybe) he will be the one to be left this time around for another person (why his fear would be 3 of cups) and that he is expecting to be left in the cold (5 of pentacles)...Here is the way the spread goes:
Separation / Reunion (15 cards)
1 2 _ _ 3 4
_ 5 _ _ 6 _
_ 7 _ _ 8 _
_ _ 9x10 _ _ (ten crosses 9)
13 14__11 12
____ 15 ____
1-2: (read together) How you thought of them (during the separation) - Hierophant and 8 of Wands
3-4: (read together) How they thought of you - The Star and 8 of Swords
5: What you expect (from the reunion) - 9 of Swords
6: What they expect - 5 of Pentacles
7: What you fear - 8 of Pentacles
8: What they fear - 3 of Cups
9/10: Crossroads: The reunion itself. the 10 crosses the 9 as in the first 2 cards of CC. - 3 of Swords and Magician
11-12: (read together) What you bring away. High Priestess and 4 of Wands
13-14 (read together) What they bring away. Queen of Swords and Knight of Cups
15: The future of the relationship. 5 of Swords
--- End quote ---
I really enjoyed this spread and actually seemed accurate for my situation so thanks for sharing it.
--- End quote ---
Swords don't mean anything physical at all. They're completely mind cards. They're the only suit that doesn't have any physical component to it. So being so many swords, I would say means there's going to be a lot of thoughts and anxieties that aren't necessarily grounded. The 5 of swords as the future is probably the worst outcome, aside from death or the 10 of swords. The 5 of swords might even be worse since it's very heart wrenching but not an ending. So it's traumatic and something that should end but it doesn't. It still could if you looked at it further in time but that 5 of swords is just bad. Since you got the high priestess and 4 of wands though as for what you'll bring away, I'm thinking you'll still come out on top and have your dignity. The 5 of swords is basically an asshole who hurts people very badly who love him and he may or may not realize it but either way, he does it for his own gain. There are no feelings and usually the jerk doesn't give a damn about those that love him. It's come up for me basically every time I've been about to be cheated on or about to find out about it. The other part to it though, is that the people he hurt basically give up and they're like "whatever dude. Go enjoy your victory alone" and they're still hurt by it but they value love over whatever other crap got in the way so they're fine because at least they can live with themselves and they have a better future ahead of them since they're not assholes. So maybe that's why it was showing you still coming out on top even after the 5 of swords as the outcome. He ends up with a queen of swords but you are the high priestess here which means something since the HP isn't associated with a suit, but if she was, she wouldn't be a swords at all. And getting the knight of cups, I think what he takes away from it is pursuing a queen of swords. It wouldn't have shown up as another "person" card if it was both supposed to be you. I doubt he'll be happy for very long but I think the cards that are for what you take away are the best part of this reading. The outcome is bad but what you take away I think is the most important since it's the thing you're still with after the relationship is over. Or if it was a good outcome, it would be what you're left with out of the relationship. Either way, it's the only part of it that stays with you and those are awesome cards to get. I love the HP lol. She's my spirit animal :)
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lol i never associate swords with anything physical either. lol queen of swords is my spirit animal LOL and the empress. i know people associate QOS with air signs but who she is to me is the embodiment of scorponic energy.
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I'm a Scorpio and I've literally never been a queen of swords but the queen cards are more to explain how someone is "acting" as opposed to who they really are. The majors like the HP is actually a Scorpio in the traditional sense. Empress would be an earth sign but sometimes it just means "a mother". If queen of swords feels Scorpio to you then I think the universe will always give you her as a Scorpio. I think we get the cards that we've established a certain relationship to. It hits us all a certain way. But that's why I don't ask readers what cards they got to describe people or anything really. I think the universe gives THEM the cards that they resonate with and not me. So unless I know the reader well and the card they always get for a particular person, then it's hard to make any sense of the reading at all.
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