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I caved in with a reading.

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Seeker23:
So, I was attempting to get a reading by Ms.Jones. However, I could never get ahold of her.

It has been quite sometime since I have had a reading. So far, all predictions with prior readings have been a bust.

None of their predictions have happen. And by next month, one prediction probably will not come to pass.

So, I caved in and decided to try a different reader. This is the question I presented her with:

"Well, it seems my ex is gone for good and I have much uncertainty on where things are going in my love life. Questions on finding someone, marriage, having a child. No clue where that aspect of my life is going?"

I was hoping she would elaborate on my future or a new potential man coming into my life. Instead, she decided to focus on my past and the ex by telling me the following:

*everytime u flashes in his mind and he cant stop thinking about u honey


*i can sense that he have feelings for u and want to make a storng relationship with u my de

*but honestly honey he will need u and he is looking for a true love in his life

*i can sense that u both can share a spiritual bond with eachother and have compatibilty honey

*i can sense that the distance between u and him is just because of little missunderstanding

*and u will be satisfy as i can sense that u will get ur love in the month of oct end or nov

*i have seen ur spirit and ur really upset with ur life and im sure once uw ill get the love life

*yes my dear but he will also feel regret and he will surely apologise u for his bad deeds

She barely scratched the surface on a potential new partner. And when she did. She gave vague responses like I will meet him at a restaurant or work place. And that he will be opposite of the ex.

It was not a very clear reading. And I wasn't really asking about my ex. But the future. She appeared to be focused on the ex and when I told her, I do not see him coming back. She just went into telling me characteristics of a guy. Then gave a prediction of Oct or Nov.

At the end she told me to "just wait for the right partner only for 2 months honey".

Not a very clear reading. Confusing, like she was trying to tell me things I wanted to hear and not what is really going on. And I was adamant with her, that in reality, it appeared my ex is gone for good and engrossed with whatever else now. So tell me, if someone new will come into my life.

See, what prior psychics told me, I have been finding out to be false. I really do not want to leave bad reviews.  But it is down right harmful to give bad advice like not to move on or wait for someone. Which I had done to me several times.

Like people told me. If a man really loves you or cares they will not ignore you, they will not be silent. They will reach out to you.

I understand people can have an influence on other people and yes, if someone dates or enters into a relationship that can have control over the other person. But...and there is always a but...a man will break themselves of that quickly. So...what is next?

I heard blah..blah..had control over. Blah..blah..the person will threaten him...blah blah... so and so is manipulative.

It has been difficult to find a good, ethical reader. But I did "just give her a try."

I will see what happens by the end of October or November.


**facepalm***

Dreamer23:
It doesn't seem like her reading was useful. It seems like they were stories that she told you, that could apply to lots of people. And she focused on the ex cause a lot of times that's what people call about. And then she told you vague things about a new man you would meet...of course it's very likely for you to meet him at a restaurant or work place. And many times people go for someone who is opposite of the ex. So all of this sounds like speculations and probable answers that could apply to your situation as they can apply to most situations.

Maybe find a better psychic?

sawthelight:
I agree, it sounded like a cold read.  esp the "dear" and "honey" part.

Seeker23:
Oh, likely cold reading. The reading became obnoxious as a clear answer was not given.

aquagirl:
shut the front door,  yeah you can say those to just about anyone :/ sorry.

I wouldn't say honey and dear are red flags though lol It can just be how she speaks.

I was going through some old tapes of this one reader that i used pre internet days and thought she was the bomb, and i started to listen to her tapes last night and have to say that so far it does sound a lot like cold readings.

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