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Break for September
Hillcam:
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--- Quote from: Hillcam on September 05, 2018, 04:58:52 AM ---As if I didn’t have enough reason to take a break for September, my POI just posted some stuff on social media with a new girl.
They’re ALWAYS wrong. The worst part about dating isn’t being let down by a POI it’s paying for stupid readings that never come true.
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Oh no! so sorry to hear this!
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It’s ok, I had my suspicions about him. I just wish they would’ve been confirmed before reading about him!
I’m starting to wonder if positive predictions confuse us into thinking there’s a stronger connection to someone than there really is. This guy is a good time, but I’m way more upset than what I feel is reasonable. I think my readings made me more attached than I should be.
sawthelight:
--- Quote from: Hillcam on September 05, 2018, 02:59:05 PM ---
--- Quote from: sawthelight on September 05, 2018, 02:26:56 PM ---
--- Quote from: Hillcam on September 05, 2018, 04:58:52 AM ---As if I didn’t have enough reason to take a break for September, my POI just posted some stuff on social media with a new girl.
They’re ALWAYS wrong. The worst part about dating isn’t being let down by a POI it’s paying for stupid readings that never come true.
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Oh no! so sorry to hear this!
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It’s ok, I had my suspicions about him. I just wish they would’ve been confirmed before reading about him!
I’m starting to wonder if positive predictions confuse us into thinking there’s a stronger connection to someone than there really is. This guy is a good time, but I’m way more upset than I should be. I think my readings made me more attached than I should be.
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I definitely think so. First POI I called about, for sure!! Had me hanging on because I believed the connection was so strong and real and it was just a big mistake.
I regret getting readings on the second POI I called about this summer..even though, I asked readers who were right for me last time around, it doesn't appear they are right this time..but of course, I could be changing things by not replying to him, but my gut is telling me that is the right move, not to follow what these readers tell me. I actually had one on Purple Ocean tell me to "give him his space when he needs it, but when he comes close, be close to him, even if you don't feel like it"....SERIOUSLY?? so you telling me to be a walking doormat..NOPE. no more. He's going to need to grovel if he wants me back.
Always go with your gut..if it's telling you something is off, believe it.
Reviewer07:
@fluttershy, yep I’m still quitting. It’s not easy to go cold turkey and to be honest I’m struggling too.
I just know that when/if I call they will not be able to tell me anything new. Stay strong but don’t be hard on yourself if you lapse just start again. Seek therapy, research addiction also others on here have recommended keeping busy and it really helps to get over a poi and the addiction. Yiu know you’re not alone as there are many in this forum trying to do the same. Pm me if you like or just keep posting up here. Also thanks for sharing it’s good to know that we are both in the same boat - let’s not sink it 😊.
journalmuse:
--- Quote from: FlutterShy on September 06, 2018, 04:20:50 PM ---Ugh- I broke. I gave in called a psychic yesterday... yet I still want to try and not call anymore.
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It’s ok! Our strength is in how we get back up from a fall. Just reset your clock and try again.
Hillcam:
--- Quote from: FlutterShy on September 06, 2018, 04:20:50 PM ---Ugh- I broke. I gave in called a psychic yesterday... yet I still want to try and not call anymore.
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At least you’re strong enough to acknowledge it and not keep going. Don’t give up!
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