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Break for September
lovelacetito:
I really want to join u. I really do but not sure i am strong enough atm. Plus i have 3 readings already booked. I am sad to say i spent almost 5k in August. Its extremely embarrassing that i am so gullible. Gullible is not the word, more like i know many are bullshittin me but i dont know why i keep going.
lovelacetito:
--- Quote from: JonesCDee on September 02, 2018, 06:26:38 AM ---OK so no laughing, ok? I started a daily meditation thing my go to reader does (yup, the same one who refuses to read for peopl more than once in 3 months) to get your sh*t together and stop depending on readings. I figured a month of daily meditations cost less than half a reading, give it a try, so I am. Really helped today, will see how it goes :o
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Who is this reader ?
sawthelight:
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--- Quote from: Hillcam on September 01, 2018, 02:45:18 PM ---We’ve got this!
I woke up tempted... I received a message from POI this morning (2am) ::) after very sporadic communication for the past few weeks. I wanted to call someone... but I thought about it & it reinforces the break for me. They’ve ALL but ONE predicted stronger communication in September but time and time again he makes me feel like a bootycall. At this point I have no reason to call and just plan on saving my money to pay my bills next week.
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Omg do we have the same poi lolol. Yep we don’t need someone who makes us feel like an afterthought
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Plot twist: we ALL have the same POI and that’s why psychics give us all the same readings LOL
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Lollll yea it’s kinda ironic.
One good thing I learned from last poi and my incredibly expensive lesson with psychics, is self respect. This current guy basically was quiet the whole month of August. So now, I feel no need to pursue anything with him or even respond back to him. Let him wonder.
I’ve gotten verrryyy picky and my standards are much higher than they used to be.
Dreamer23:
Last night I was lurking on keen, had the urge to talk to someone. I didn't end up doing it. I think I got distracted with something else and when I got back on the site and saw of my trusted advisors to be logged on, I didn't feel the urge to speak to them.
I realize how this is so much of an impulse...it's an urge I feel and then I don't think things through and I want to talk to someone. And it's almost like I am in this mindless place where I just do things impulsively.
So I am happy I stuck to my decision to not get any readings. I'll have to take it one day at a time.
journalmuse:
That’s awesome. That’s exactly how I was too. I figured out I have a trigger for when I get that feeling like I want to get a reading. Usually it’s a fear reaction to something and i go to a reader to calm that fear. When I realized that I was able to recognize the trigger and counteract it with something else.
Good for you! This is helping already. And yeah it’s a day at a time. That’s ok. Sometimes it’s an hour at a time. That’s ok too.
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