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Frustrated w/fakes & hopeful for the few good ones
Kate:
--- Quote from: flora0250 on August 18, 2018, 09:12:58 AM ---Just an update here. Every single one of the readers I’ve thought were good told me my POI was not dating / intimate with / interested in anyone else.
Okay maybe the one reader told me that “it’s like he’s doodling, you know? It’s norhing serious. He’s seeing other people but it’s nothing important.”
And there was one other reader who told me that in the present as of now he just wants to be non committed and free to do what he wants.
Okay and there was the one other reader who is the only one that had some actual validity come to pass. She told me he would meet someone else through the same dating site and would have to decide between her and me and that he would pick me. She said that way back in May when I wasn’t even sure I had feelings for the guy. And she said he would let me know this by Labor Day.
That was the first reading I had with her and the other readings I’ve had with her there have been lots of things now that have not come to pass.
So maybe that initial reading with her was right?!? Wait and see mode still.
But here’s the thing. Most of the readers I thought were honestly really really accurate and picked up on details that I didn’t feed them.... all said he wasn’t with anyone else.
But here I just saw something that makes me know the woman I saw him with a few weeks ago spent the night with him. And she no longer has her dating profile active.
So wth. And I just knew it. In my heart I felt like I knew it. But I also feel like I almost somehow may have influenced it as well. I kept thinking about this woman and wondering if they were dating. And everyone with the exception of what I said above said no. No no no no you’re just being insecure. He’s still into you.
And these were highly ethical seeming readers. Even the one who told me she wouldn’t read for me at first because she didn’t feel a connection.
I’m just gutted. I think I may have somehow influenced things to go the way they did. I know that sounds crazy but I really think that I may have. And I’m so angry at these people who claim to have a gift and genuinely seem to.... and told me he wasn’t with anyone. :'(
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Had the same experience exactly - and I'd read with MANY.
Only one reader was clear that he was dating - Cookie.
Actually, thinking back, Sweethearts Tarot also picked up another women - I wish she was still around sometimes. She was pretty accurate with me.
Reviewer07:
I went through this - is she dating someone etc. all the readers i contacted said no but really I don’t know if their right or wrong, through this forum we can see that this is an unreliable way of knowing the truth.
Lady_C:
--- Quote from: flora0250 on August 18, 2018, 09:12:58 AM ---Just an update here. Every single one of the readers I’ve thought were good told me my POI was not dating / intimate with / interested in anyone else.
Okay maybe the one reader told me that “it’s like he’s doodling, you know? It’s norhing serious. He’s seeing other people but it’s nothing important.”
And there was one other reader who told me that in the present as of now he just wants to be non committed and free to do what he wants.
Okay and there was the one other reader who is the only one that had some actual validity come to pass. She told me he would meet someone else through the same dating site and would have to decide between her and me and that he would pick me. She said that way back in May when I wasn’t even sure I had feelings for the guy. And she said he would let me know this by Labor Day.
That was the first reading I had with her and the other readings I’ve had with her there have been lots of things now that have not come to pass.
So maybe that initial reading with her was right?!? Wait and see mode still.
But here’s the thing. Most of the readers I thought were honestly really really accurate and picked up on details that I didn’t feed them.... all said he wasn’t with anyone else.
But here I just saw something that makes me know the woman I saw him with a few weeks ago spent the night with him. And she no longer has her dating profile active.
So wth. And I just knew it. In my heart I felt like I knew it. But I also feel like I almost somehow may have influenced it as well. I kept thinking about this woman and wondering if they were dating. And everyone with the exception of what I said above said no. No no no no you’re just being insecure. He’s still into you.
And these were highly ethical seeming readers. Even the one who told me she wouldn’t read for me at first because she didn’t feel a connection.
I’m just gutted. I think I may have somehow influenced things to go the way they did. I know that sounds crazy but I really think that I may have. And I’m so angry at these people who claim to have a gift and genuinely seem to.... and told me he wasn’t with anyone. :'(
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Sorry to hear this! I don't think you influenced anything, more like you simply didn't follow your own gut instance/intuition.
It sounds like you went to various psychics and two were able to pick up on this other woman but you see we often ignore those psychics that accurately pick up on another connection because if for example 2 psychics pick up on a third party and say 16 don't, we go with the majority because the numbers majority outweigh the minority so surely ALLLL those psychics can't be wrong?
Maybe the other psychics just couldn't pick up on the other connection at the time because it wasn't strong enough at the given time who knows.
Once thing I know for sure is I'm starting to believe if the majority of psychics cannot pick up on whether there is someone around the POI and a small number can then I bet your bottom dollar there's some truth in what those small number of psychics pick up.
Sometimes the writing is on the wall but you just choose not to see it.
flora0250:
--- Quote from: Lady_C on August 19, 2018, 08:55:44 AM ---
--- Quote from: flora0250 on August 18, 2018, 09:12:58 AM ---
Sorry to hear this! I don't think you influenced anything, more like you simply didn't follow your own gut instance/intuition.
It sounds like you went to various psychics and two were able to pick up on this other woman but you see we often ignore those psychics that accurately pick up on another connection because if for example 2 psychics pick up on a third party and say 16 don't, we go with the majority because the numbers majority outweigh the minority so surely ALLLL those psychics can't be wrong?
Maybe the other psychics just couldn't pick up on the other connection at the time because it wasn't strong enough at the given time who knows.
Once thing I know for sure is I'm starting to believe if the majority of psychics cannot pick up on whether there is someone around the POI and a small number can then I bet your bottom dollar there's some truth in what those small number of psychics pick up.
Sometimes the writing is on the wall but you just choose not to see it.
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Thank you so much... I think the thing is I kept asking all these other readers if he was with someone because the one who seemed to tune in most and who was most accurate with details and at least one major outcome told me about this other woman. So I kept asking the other like are you sure?????? And it made sense in my own read of the situation too. So I was more confused when those told me there wasn’t someone else than choosing not to see it. I just thought woah how can you be so accurate about all the rest and not see this? Maybe it could be that *he* is not actually that committed in it or serious to him so that’s why they didn’t pick it up? Who knows. Or maybe like you said it wasn’t really a thing yet.
Also. I do think there is something to the whole idea that what you put energy into and think about tends to help create the world around you and manifest. I think that’s the premise of the LOA? Makes sense to me. So here I am though totally giving energy to the thought of him with this other woman. When we are broken up so it’s not like he’s done anything wrong. And if I’m truly being a good friend to the guy then wth I shouldn’t have any issue. OR be so nosy. So these are lessons for me and I am working them. And deciding not to as much as I can - and it will be practice because I know I have anxiety issues - try not to keep going down rabbit holes on social media looking for clues as to the status of what’s up. That is really unhealthy and I think is what I’m saying giving energy to something that may then just go ahead an manifest! Lol - self defeating for sure.
I did have another reading with this one reader yesterday then - this one who really nailed it. And she told me that I would go through a period of growth and letting go and he would come back around to me. Now I know not to trust outcome or timings! I am learning that! But I am definitely learning to let go. And when we last texted - just the other day - he did say he’d like to get together once things slowed down at work. So ... I don’t know. I’m keeping all my dating options open (which are none now but this woman also said that soon there would be many - weird bc I never go anywhere lol). But - I do hope me and this guy can reconnect as friends and I can be open to letting things unfold either way.
Thank you again :)
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