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What to do?
sunandmoon:
--- Quote from: LiveLaughLove on August 15, 2011, 04:07:30 AM ---! The only thing I didn't do was beg my ex to take me back lol. I wanted to walk away with a little dignity I guess :-\ Maybe I should had just done it and he shot me down it'd be easier to move on as I wouldn't be able to face him again...
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You never know..... I've told mine (in the past) "if you don't tell me it's over, I will continue to believe". And he won't say a word. The most he ever said way back in the beginning was that I needed to do what was best for me, but that's something we said to each other during the r/s anyway. I don't even care about dignity at this point, I just want to know. I fear if I try to pin him down these days (his life is horribly chaotic at the moment) he will feel trapped and still not talk and I'll have lost what little ground I had - and boy to I mean little.
LiveLaughLove:
Yea your right sunandmoon...but it's been such a long time now...a part of me wonders if im just kidding myself right now. He's in a relationship and living with the girl and even though it started out as a rebound girl and him needing a roommate asap and that's how they got in a relationship, I wonder if things have developed so well that he's in love with her and Im no longer a thought..even though the psychics say he still thinks of me,cares about me etc...I dont know.
I'd love to ask him that and see what he says BUT the last two times I reached out to him after we stopped communicating in Jan, (I said happy bday and asked how he was) he ignored me. that hurt so much because that's not his character...but guess now it is. I don't know why he did that...is it cuz he doesn't wanna talk or hear from me..or is it to painful to talk to me and he knows that him being in a realtionship means that nothin will happen btwn us so he feels no pt in saying anything. So if I do ask him that, he might ignore me but how do I know that's his answer or if he's just like "omg leave me alone" and ignores me because of that....it's been 8 months and idk if he'll ever come back :(
cocoapple:
Hey Guys! Glad to see more activities on this board. I guess most of us are tired of timelines passing and going or just stop reading with any new readers till we see actually progress so we don't post as much anymore. I think it's healthier to stop obsessing with these exs and just go on with our lives as if they are not coming back, regardless of what they say. Sometimes we have to stand back and look at the facts and trust our own intuitions. For me, it's been four months...and we've had friendly contacts but nothing more and nothing less. Last saw him in June and that's about it. My first batch of CPs and Ellen and her crew has came and gone. Now my second batch's timelines and predictions are coming up by the end of this month leading into September. Timelines come and go but their predictions ie. he still cares for you, will tell you he loves you etc. NEVER happened. Dawn from CP saw the break up coming but she also stated that it's only temporary. How temporary though, she cannot answer. London and Abrielle got the timing of me finding a job correct but was 100% wrong in the relationship part.
This month, I have predictions from Uli, Raissa, Eden, Brendalynn, Marceea, Sherrie coming to pass and these have the top accuracy from CPs and also from those who have read with them on this forum. If i don't hear ANY wind of change in my situation, well then....i don't know anymore. lol I have read with Julia back in June and she too gave me an outline till October of how our relationship will unfold again. The only thing she got right so far was that i will 'see' him in a couple days which was true (had my graduation) but then she predicted 'sweet' energy during last week of July and sees me being there at his birthday with his family in first week of August and that NEVER happened. So i don't have much hopes for her other predictions.
This my friends, is my second psychic rampage so i was able to bounce back fairly quickly (although the damage to the wallet is still just as bad). I was with Keen the first round and NOTHING ever came true lol. Turns out that one was cheating on his girlfriend with me while she was away on business. And these Keens people kept feeding me crap. I know it's hard to cut this off and want to know the unknown so i suggest, you read with the top top readers and leave it at that. I mean, if the top reader's predictions DON'T come to pass as well as ALL the ones you trusted didn't come to past, don't waste anymore of your energy, resources and feelings onto this guy. If it's meant to be yours, eventually it will find the way back no matter what. If it's not yours, take it as a lesson, smile at the times you had, and keep on walking friends.
LiveLaughLove:
Also if he is suppose to contact me eventually and I contact him before he's suppose to contact me..will it move the predictions back?
sunandmoon:
LLL, just a thought, are you reading with psychics that do astrology? I was in the past as I didn't pay much attention to what they used and saw a definite pattern to things. Now I tend towards no tools psychics, but I do love Verbena as she does higher self readings but she is not listed as no tools.
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