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Reader wont read for me!

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JonesCDee:

--- Quote from: njlady on July 26, 2018, 04:51:17 PM ---You contacted the website to complain because this woman is not enabling your obsession?  She's not your personal servant and not obligated to read for you on demand. 

It's also none of your business how, when and with who she makes her money. That is her choice.  What you are doing is not healthy and she is refusing to participate.  She's working for the highest good and being very kind to you.  It's also not to her benefit to read for a person who is completely obsessed with someone. It's draining. If you keep it up, odds are you will be blocked. Don't push her.

You may want to do some self-examination regarding your attitude that people are not allowed to refuse requests from you.

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Wanted to say thank you for this njlady. It was not easy to hear but I did email her and apologize for being a brat! Shes only been supportive and kind, said to wait till oct for a reading with her and we email some each week.

Heather:
I have one lady who calls me every time I log on. She mainly wants to talk about her day which is fine with me, but it can be difficult to repeat myself so often since there’s not really any new information I can provide.

A different lady called me because she was in a desperate situation with her POI. The first couple of times I read for her, the reading showed improvement, not the best but workable. Every reading after that was bad for her and the POI. The cards were right with the improvement part but it was temporary and it became very clear to me that she and her POI didn’t have a chance. She called me so much that I had to get stern with her about it. She backed off and calls every few weeks now, but I cannot help this poor woman. Her outlook is bleak, and I’m convinced it’s because she will not let go of this toxic relationship. She needs a professional not a reader.

Speaking of professionals, I have recommended counseling with licensed therapists before because all I do is read what the cards tell me. I can’t heal a broken heart. I so wish I could.

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