I started doing that. Least it to say, some of the false hope helped me through tough times.
I need to find a better way to deal with. I lost friendships because of the ex. All said he still cares, he hasn't shown any signs of carin for me, missing me. If anything, he has tried to turn people against me. But I think that is, also, brought on by who he is with.
She does generate his negativity towards. I find that to be the most unchristian thing and she claims to be one and unbelievably self centered and selfish.