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Being 'Psychic'
CrazyLace - P:
--- Quote from: candiednut on July 12, 2018, 11:39:09 PM ---Thanks for sharing! Could you share your website or wherever you are reading at?
Also, would you say you are more of an empath than a psychic that excels at predictions?
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You're very welcome!
I don't think I can; I think sharing that is against the Terms of Use, not sure 'cause I did not read them LOL!! I will though.
I love this question...you had me thinking. Firstly, I don't 'predict'; I 'interpret intuitive information'...that word makes me uncomfortable in my personal practice. Just me; others are very comfortable with the term. Honestly, it makes me feel as if I'm in control and I am not, God is. I don't have the power to tell you definitively (unless I am being claircognizant) what's going to happen if you quit your job...I can tell you what is likely to happen, what may occur and explain the reasons why you shouldn't quit your job. So I don't use that word...anyhoo, I use my empathy for specific readings or questions; it isn't the dominate gift used during a reading.
CrazyLace - P:
--- Quote from: alphabetsoup on July 13, 2018, 12:11:29 AM ---CrazyLace, thank you for taking the time to post here. I appreciate it.
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You're very welcome, thank you for reading. :)
doubleoh8:
Hi and thanks for this. Super helpful.
I have a few additional questions, that I think relate to your goal of helping people choose, work with and understand psychics:
1. Timing
I have spoken to a few readers who insist that timing is hard if not impossible, because there is no such thing as time in the spiritual realm. I also know of at least one very gifted reader (Cookie) who frequently confuses past, present and future. Question: is it true that timing is hard if not impossible, or are some readers simply good at it and others are not?
2. Consistency
It seems a common experience people have is that the first reading with a new psychic is really good, and subsequent ones are disappointing (really vague or wrong). I.e. the psychic seems to really tune in the first time and then not be able to in subsequent readings. This of course makes it hard to find a psychic to truly trust. Any insight into why that happens?
3. The psychic's own self awareness, and accuracy
You mentioned that a) some readers are more gifted than others, and b) some psychics 'relax' and start to give personal opinions into the reading. I think a lot of us have experienced this and it can be frustrating. I wonder why the psychic does that (is it easier to not be tuning in?) and also how to manage it. Do they know they are doing it?
Further to this question, many psychics seem to have a substantial ego and get offended if you question their guidance or correct them. It also seems to me that many psychics have over-inflated their own perception of their gifts. This shows up when the reader insists he/she is right, for example, even when the person being read for can confirm otherwise. Would you say this is true? Are these readers -- even if somewhat gifted -- ones you'd avoid?
4. Energy, desires, outcomes and free will
You talked about readers following energy... to most likely conclusions. Can you talk about the relationship between our desires and the outcomes (possible or actual) that the reader is getting? Specifically, is it possible that a not-so-gifted reader will be mistaking our thoughts and desires with a future scenario? For example, if we are focusing on an individual and hoping that person will come around, is it possible that some psychics will simply be reading that desire and misinterpret it for some kind of reality / outcome ... even if it's not (for example the person in question is not on the same page whatsoever)?
Thanks and I hope those aren't too complicated... Answer what you like or can -- you insight is helpful and appreciated!
Sparkle002:
--- Quote from: doubleoh8 on July 13, 2018, 03:39:45 PM ---Hi and thanks for this. Super helpful.
I have a few additional questions, that I think relate to your goal of helping people choose, work with and understand psychics:
1. Timing
I have spoken to a few readers who insist that timing is hard if not impossible, because there is no such thing as time in the spiritual realm. I also know of at least one very gifted reader (Cookie) who frequently confuses past, present and future. Question: is it true that timing is hard if not impossible, or are some readers simply good at it and others are not?
2. Consistency
It seems a common experience people have is that the first reading with a new psychic is really good, and subsequent ones are disappointing (really vague or wrong). I.e. the psychic seems to really tune in the first time and then not be able to in subsequent readings. This of course makes it hard to find a psychic to truly trust. Any insight into why that happens?
3. The psychic's own self awareness, and accuracy
You mentioned that a) some readers are more gifted than others, and b) some psychics 'relax' and start to give personal opinions into the reading. I think a lot of us have experienced this and it can be frustrating. I wonder why the psychic does that (is it easier to not be tuning in?) and also how to manage it. Do they know they are doing it?
Further to this question, many psychics seem to have a substantial ego and get offended if you question their guidance or correct them. It also seems to me that many psychics have over-inflated their own perception of their gifts. This shows up when the reader insists he/she is right, for example, even when the person being read for can confirm otherwise. Would you say this is true? Are these readers -- even if somewhat gifted -- ones you'd avoid?
4. Energy, desires, outcomes and free will
You talked about readers following energy... to most likely conclusions. Can you talk about the relationship between our desires and the outcomes (possible or actual) that the reader is getting? Specifically, is it possible that a not-so-gifted reader will be mistaking our thoughts and desires with a future scenario? For example, if we are focusing on an individual and hoping that person will come around, is it possible that some psychics will simply be reading that desire and misinterpret it for some kind of reality / outcome ... even if it's not (for example the person in question is not on the same page whatsoever)?
Thanks and I hope those aren't too complicated... Answer what you like or can -- you insight is helpful and appreciated!
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Great questions!! Can't wait to hear the response ;D
CrazyLace - P:
--- Quote from: doubleoh8 on July 13, 2018, 03:39:45 PM ---Hi and thanks for this. Super helpful.
YOU ARE VERY WELCOME!!
I have a few additional questions, that I think relate to your goal of helping people choose, work with and understand psychics:
1. Timing
I have spoken to a few readers who insist that timing is hard if not impossible, because there is no such thing as time in the spiritual realm. I also know of at least one very gifted reader (Cookie) who frequently confuses past, present and future. Question: is it true that timing is hard if not impossible, or are some readers simply good at it and others are not? 'TIMING' CAN BE HARD, DEPENDING ON THE PSYCHIC'S LEVEL OF ABILITY, THE CLIENT'S ENERGY (IF THEY ARE BEING READ VIA ENERGY), AND FREE WILL. OFTEN TIMES, WE INTERFERE WITH WHAT IS 'SET TO OCCUR', WHICH MAKES 'WHAT IS SET TO OCCUR' BECOME DELAYED, OR NOT HAPPEN AT ALL. ONE MUST ASK THEIR PERSONAL PSYCHIC IF THEY ARE GOOD AT TIMING, BECAUSE SOME ARE NOT.
2. Consistency
It seems a common experience people have is that the first reading with a new psychic is really good, and subsequent ones are disappointing (really vague or wrong). I.e. the psychic seems to really tune in the first time and then not be able to in subsequent readings. This of course makes it hard to find a psychic to truly trust. Any insight into why that happens? WAS THAT READING THAT GOOD? SOME DON'T KNOW HOW TO ENGAGE IN A PSYCHIC READING. THEY FEEL THAT IF A PSYCHIC IS POSITIVE, UPLIFTING AND SOCIALLY ENGAGING, THAT WAS A GREAT READING. ADDITIONALLY, IT DEPENDS ON THE PSYCHIC'S ENERGY. SOME READ FOR HOTLINES TO PAY BILLS, IN WHICH CASE, THEIR PERSONAL INTENTION HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THE CLIENT'S READING BUT WITH THE COLLECTION NOTICES ON THE COFFEE TABLE. THEREFORE, SOME READ ACCORDING TO THEIR OWN DISPOSITION...THEY CAN BE IN A GOOD MOOD AND GIVE GREAT READINGS. THEY CAN BE IN A BAD MOOD AND GIVE A HORRIBLE READING. REMEMBER, PSYCHICS ARE PEOPLE TOO..I SHAN'T IMPLY THAT ALL PSYCHICS ARE HONEST, RESPECTFUL, DIVINELY GIFTED, OR TRUSTING.
3. The psychic's own self awareness, and accuracy
You mentioned that a) some readers are more gifted than others, and b) some psychics 'relax' and start to give personal opinions into the reading. I think a lot of us have experienced this and it can be frustrating. I wonder why the psychic does that (is it easier to not be tuning in?) and also how to manage it. Do they know they are doing it? SOME KNOW AND DO IT BECAUSE OF THEIR LEVEL OF ABILITY (WHICH MEANS THEY CAN'T GO ANY FURTHER SO ARE 'CHATTING' WITH YOU AND NOT READING YOU) OR POSSIBLY THEIR EGO ('CAUSE THEY WANT TO FEEL IMPORTANT, FEEL NEEDED, ETC.). PSYCHICS ARE PEOPLE TOO, WE ARE SUBJECT TO THE ISSUES THAT ALL ARE CONFRONTED WITH. JUST BECAUSE WE HAVE THESE GIFTS DOESN'T MEAN THAT WE ARE NOT INSECURE, EMOTIONALLY DAMAGED AND PSYCHOLOGICALLY MIS-WIRED INDIVIDUALS...REAL TALK. I HAD TO ENDURE EMOTIONAL HEALING, SPIRITUAL STRENGTHENING, AND INTUITIVE DEVELOPMENT AT THE SAME TIME...BY MYSELF 'CAUSE I DIDN'T HAVE A GURU, MENTOR, OR BELOVED FAMILY MEMBER WHO SHARED MY EXPERIENCES AND COULD 'ESCORT' ME THROUGH THE JOURNEYS I EMBARKED UPON.
Further to this question, many psychics seem to have a substantial ego and get offended if you question their guidance or correct them. It also seems to me that many psychics have over-inflated their own perception of their gifts. This shows up when the reader insists he/she is right, for example, even when the person being read for can confirm otherwise. Would you say this is true? Are these readers -- even if somewhat gifted -- ones you'd avoid? IT DEPENDS ON THE CLIENT, I WOULD. I AM TRYING TO LET PEOPLE KNOW ('CAUSE SOME WHO READ THIS WILL BECOME CLIENTS) THAT I AM HUMAN AND SO ARE PSYCHICS. NOW, BE HONEST: HOW OFTEN DO YOU NOTICE A SINGER, ATHLETE, BUSINESS OWNER, LAWYER, ETC. BECOME 'INFLATED' DUE TO FEEDBACK, POSITIVE COMMENTS AND COMPLIMENTS? IT'S A NATURAL REACTION TO BEGIN TO FEEL ONESELF WHEN ONE IS BEING ADORED FOR A SPECIFIC ABILITY OR GIFT.
ALSO, THE PSYCHIC MUST BELIEVE IN THEIR GIFT(S). THEY SHOULD BE CONFIDENT, YET NOT INFLEXIBLE AND AS UNDERSTANDING AS POSSIBLE. HOWEVER, SOMETIMES THE CLIENT IS WRONG...THEY CAN'T SEE HOW SOMETHING CAN OCCUR AND SO THEY CHALLENGE THE ANSWER. IT'S A CASE-BY-CASE ISSUE WHEN A PSYCHIC GIVES INACCURATE INFORMATION WHILE ON A CALL; I DO ENCOURAGE THE CLIENT TO SPEAK UP THOUGH, PERHAPS A DEEPER INTUITIVE CONNECTION CAN YIELD MORE/ADDITIONAL INFORMATION.
4. Energy, desires, outcomes and free will
You talked about readers following energy... to most likely conclusions. Can you talk about the relationship between our desires and the outcomes (possible or actual) that the reader is getting? Specifically, is it possible that a not-so-gifted reader will be mistaking our thoughts and desires with a future scenario? For example, if we are focusing on an individual and hoping that person will come around, is it possible that some psychics will simply be reading that desire and misinterpret it for some kind of reality / outcome ... even if it's not (for example the person in question is not on the same page whatsoever)? I DON'T KNOW THAT THEY MISREAD THE SITUATION DUE TO THE CLIENT'S FEELINGS, THOUGH SOME WILL TELL YOU THINGS THAT THEY FEEL YOU WANT TO KNOW BECAUSE THEY'VE ALREADY PICKED UP YOUR 'EMOTIONAL YEARNING'. SOMEONE WHO IS NOT BEING RESPECTFUL AND HONEST MAY DO THIS; OR SOMEONE WHO IS NOT GIFTED YET SKILLED AT MANIPULATION MAY DO THIS.
Thanks and I hope those aren't too complicated... Answer what you like or can -- you insight is helpful and appreciated! YOU'RE VERY WELCOME!!!
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