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I'm single which keen advisor should I use
HornetKick:
There are married skeezeballs looking for flings whether in person or on a site.
I know many people like to distinguish between online or in person, but it's basically the same. I've known people who've gotten burned whether online or not. Lying to your face or via a profile ends up with the same results, dosn't it? The guy never said anything either way, so it's a coin toss either way. You just have to date a lot and enjoy it and be ready to get back out there after the first few fails. It became tiring for me and I was no longer having fun. I know some who still enjoy it and I always give them props for sticking with it.
It basically depends on the person and their intentions and what they want. Some want a fling, some a relationship. It doesn't really matter where you meet them.
I've known way more people to get stung from meeting someone at church, the wholier than thou place. Yeah sure.
I had a guy friend to meet an online person and when he met her, she was eight months pregnant. Never once mentioned this obvious issue on her profile. I laughed so hard. I couldn't understand why she was wanting to date so badly...why not wait until after the baby was born?
sawthelight:
--- Quote from: HornetKick on April 10, 2018, 07:35:11 PM ---There are married skeezeballs looking for flings whether in person or on a site.
I know many people like to distinguish between online or in person, but it's basically the same. I've known people who've gotten burned whether online or not. Lying to your face or via a profile ends up with the same results, dosn't it? The guy never said anything either way, so it's a coin toss either way. You just have to date a lot and enjoy it and be ready to get back out there after the first few fails. It became tiring for me and I was no longer having fun. I know some who still enjoy it and I always give them props for sticking with it.
It basically depends on the person and their intentions and what they want. Some want a fling, some a relationship. It doesn't really matter where you meet them.
I've known way more people to get stung from meeting someone at church, the wholier than thou place. Yeah sure.
I had a guy friend to meet an online person and when he met her, she was eight months pregnant. Never once mentioned this obvious issue on her profile. I laughed so hard. I couldn't understand why she was wanting to date so badly...why not wait until after the baby was born?
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LMAO maybe she was looking for a person to take care of the kid...who knows?
A guy friend of mine told me once he met up with a girl (I don't think it was a dating site) that he met online and she ended up being about 100 lbs heavier than the pic she sent him...he was a gentlemen and spent the day with her but he said after that, when she asked him why they couldn't hang out again, he was honest and said "I really wish you sent me a recent pic, not one of you ten yrs ago" lol.
maroonlight:
--- Quote from: HornetKick on April 10, 2018, 07:35:11 PM ---There are married skeezeballs looking for flings whether in person or on a site.
I know many people like to distinguish between online or in person, but it's basically the same. I've known people who've gotten burned whether online or not. Lying to your face or via a profile ends up with the same results, dosn't it? The guy never said anything either way, so it's a coin toss either way. You just have to date a lot and enjoy it and be ready to get back out there after the first few fails. It became tiring for me and I was no longer having fun. I know some who still enjoy it and I always give them props for sticking with it.
It basically depends on the person and their intentions and what they want. Some want a fling, some a relationship. It doesn't really matter where you meet them.
I've known way more people to get stung from meeting someone at church, the wholier than thou place. Yeah sure.
I had a guy friend to meet an online person and when he met her, she was eight months pregnant. Never once mentioned this obvious issue on her profile. I laughed so hard. I couldn't understand why she was wanting to date so badly...why not wait until after the baby was born?
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Exactly. Online dating has so many stereotypes but when it comes down to it, people are all the same regardless of where you meet them. Just like with your comment about people you know getting burned by people they met at church. Anyone can go to church, and often times it's people with issues seeking spiritual help.
That's insane, and it's also ridiculous because I don't know how she thought anyone would keep seeing her once they found out..not only is she about to be a single mother, but that is a huge lie to get caught in. I definitely wouldn't envy her. It does sound like desperation on her end though.
HornetKick:
Yeah women being heavier has been an issue. I've heard men say this, but women do have it harder. And men lie too. A man's main lie is how tall he is. A women's main lie is how old she is.
You get a few extras in there as well, either heavier (men or women) and using younger pictures: both men and women.
It's such an effing double standard tbh. Men often times are looking for younger, model type women and even if the woman doesn't look her age, she is considered old although she may be the same age as the guy. Men, I swear. OMG, some of the frogs on those sites. I can't even tell you.
maroonlight:
I’ve heard a lot of guys say they’ve met women from the internet who are way heavier than their pics or didn’t even look like the same person in the pics. I’ve actually met two people who lied and being smokers so that one is probably pretty common too.
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