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sawthelight:
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--- Quote from: sawthelight on February 26, 2018, 02:21:00 PM ---I do see how some of the posts towards OP can seem judgmental, but he is posting for opinions and feedback, no?
You can't possibly think that everyone on a forum is going to just coddle him and tell him his behavior is normal and all will be ok. that's not the way it works and there's nothing productive about it...especially when it seems his behavior is so erratic.
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Giving him constructive criticism is ok but some are just down right hateful. Again, if you don't like his posts, don't read them! No One has been appointed counselor of the day. We can all be considered nut cases because we are calling psychics about a person that most likely has moved on, has no interest or the relationship is over for good.
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Are you the new moderator? I am not clear on why you are taking this so personally. And I don't think everyone is calling about a POI that has no interest in them....and I don't think calling psychics makes us "nut cases"...THAT is judgmental.
I honestly just felt like he maybe could benefit from help outside getting readings...if that came off as cruel, I do apologize to him.
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I'm not taking anything personally, I'm standing up for him because you all are really out of line. I never said everyone is calling about a POI that is not interested in them, but let's be serious here,if a POI was interested in being with you, they would be. PERIOD. You all are saying lostsoul is not stable and has issues. NONE OF US ARE STABLE AND WE ALL HAVE ISSUES otherwise we wouldn't be calling psychics. I was the leader in having issues and instability. I paid ALOT of money to be able to say that. Thank GOD I don't call anymore and I'm sorry I came back here to check in. It surely wasn't worth this!!
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You seem a bit controlling. You cannot dictate how others post, or how they are going to respond to OP's constant vents or rants, or whatever you want to call them. And Lostsoul called everyone a bunch of bitches a few months back, that I remember...because they weren't feeding into his crap. Here is is: "So when you do as they said they blamed on your energy. You just nitpick my post you don't even read all the story. I won't post here anymore too much bitches just want to tell my own psychic experiencing, If it fate like all the psychic said shouldn't it happen no matter what?"
You can pretend you are so above all that still call (some of your other posts have this condescending attitude, like oh, I'm so much smarter than you and so much more enlightened now that I stopped calling), but bottom line is, your situation is your situation, and not everyone mirrors yours. Yes, calling psychics is probably not the most healthy thing to do for most, esp. when done obsessively, but to say all of us are unstable and have issues that call is insulting as well as hypocritical.
Baypark1:
Ok whatever you say dear. I am in NO way hypocritical because I had a severe addiction to calling so I DO know how damaging calling can be to your emotional stability. I am no better than anyone else because again, I had a severe addiction. I've just come out on the other side. I must have hit a nerve with you. Go ahead and cop an attitude with lost soul. Grace and empathy goes a long way. Kindness as well. Have a great day. I'm done with this. Waste of my time
sawthelight:
--- Quote from: Baypark1 on February 27, 2018, 04:27:14 PM ---Ok whatever you say dear. I am in NO way hypocritical because I had a severe addiction to calling so I DO know how damaging calling can be to your emotional stability. I am no better than anyone else because again, I had a severe addiction. I've just come out on the other side. I must have hit a nerve with you. Go ahead and cop an attitude with lost soul. Grace and empathy goes a long way. Kindness as well. Have a great day. I'm done with this. Waste of my time
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the hypocritical part was you calling others "unstable" and that we ALL have issues because we call, when we were saying similar things about Lostsoul being unstable because of his behavior and erratic posts and suggesting to him maybe, just maybe, readings aren't the best avenue for him. which is the whole point of the ten paragraph sagas you have posted in the past.
Baypark1:
--- Quote from: sawthelight on February 27, 2018, 04:36:01 PM ---
--- Quote from: Baypark1 on February 27, 2018, 04:27:14 PM ---Ok whatever you say dear. I am in NO way hypocritical because I had a severe addiction to calling so I DO know how damaging calling can be to your emotional stability. I am no better than anyone else because again, I had a severe addiction. I've just come out on the other side. I must have hit a nerve with you. Go ahead and cop an attitude with lost soul. Grace and empathy goes a long way. Kindness as well. Have a great day. I'm done with this. Waste of my time
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the hypocritical part was you calling others "unstable" and that we ALL have issues because we call, when we were saying similar things about Lostsoul being unstable because of his behavior and erratic posts and suggesting to him maybe, just maybe, readings aren't the best avenue for him. which is the whole point of the ten paragraph sagas you have posted in the past.
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LOL I don't know how many times I have to say that I was extremely unstable and the calling only made it worse. Trust me, I am NO better than anyone else. As i've matured, I've found that a kinder approach with people is best. If you all feel that your approach HELPED lostsoul, I'm pretty sure you are wrong. IF he is unstable or damaged, the approach you all took could very well send him to a place that could be damaging. Our words can destroy a person. If you're so concerned about him, take it to PM instead of doing it publicly. Every person that is calling on a regular basis has issues. Normal people don't call regularly, maybe ONCE a year. Calling psychics regularly is NOT normal. Now that I'm away from calling and have broken the addiction, I see that now. I hope everyone else will eventually see that as well. I'm not judging anyone either, so don't go there. I know this because of 4 long and very expensive years of calling and being completely obsessed, not able to do focus on anything else. @Lostsoul, I hope you stop calling and stop coming on here. You are better than this and don't deserve the treatment you get here. :)
helloworld:
--- Quote from: Baypark1 on February 27, 2018, 04:44:49 PM ---
As i've matured, I've found that a kinder approach with people is best. If you all feel that your approach HELPED lostsoul, I'm pretty sure you are wrong. IF he is unstable or damaged, the approach you all took could very well send him to a place that could be damaging. Our words can destroy a person. If you're so concerned about him, take it to PM instead of doing it publicly. Every person that is calling on a regular basis has issues. Normal people don't call regularly, maybe ONCE a year. Calling psychics regularly is NOT normal. Now that I'm away from calling and have broken the addiction, I see that now. I hope everyone else will eventually see that as well. I'm not judging anyone either, so don't go there. I know this because of 4 long and very expensive years of calling and being completely obsessed, not able to do focus on anything else. @Lostsoul, I hope you stop calling and stop coming on here. You are better than this and don't deserve the treatment you get here. :)
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So true and well said.
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