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10 year addiction / trying to move forward
FaithandTruth:
Thank you for sharing your story. I’m sorry you had to go through it, I know the feeling of disappointment of the wrong outcome of a read and how hurtful it is to find out the truth of the situation at hand.
I do the same as you...when ever I stop bingeing and go through a period of not calling- I buy things for myself as a reminder of all the things that I could be doing with my money.
We surely don’t need these reads.
--- Quote from: suzieQ on February 20, 2018, 01:51:20 AM ---This is exactly the situation I found myself in. I had a friend who was psychic, really nice guy, I would recommend him to anyone until recently. He was so right on so many different occasions but from 2.5 years ago started to be totally off base. now I think he was telling me what I wanted to hear and not what I needed to hear.
Fast forward 2.5 years since I heard from my POI at the time, granted he was an arse, I was always told he was lonely, the 3 years we knew each other every psychic including the guy I thought was my friend said he had major feelings for me, was confused, has sexual issues, was isolated almost autistic blah blah blah. If he couldn't make it work with me he wouldn't with anyone, couldn't and would never have a proper relationship. When I walked away my good friend continued to tell me he was angry with me for leaving, was alone, nobody with him, no friends had isolated himself (to be honest that is how he was the 3 years I knew him so I didn't think much had changed).
Just found out my POI who I thought was the one. The guy who was damaged, lonely, friendless and isolated is now living with a woman and they seem very happy.
I cannot even say anything negative about her, she seems lovely and kind and generous and to be honest it is exactly what he needs. However, I am so sad it wasn't me that could help him change and I wasn't enough to make him want to change. It was someone else event after all the sh*t he put me through.
Lost my total faith in psychics after this. My go to person was so wrong about everything. However, I did read with Yona last week, didn't ask a thing or say a thing and was nothing to do with this past POI so will be interesting to see if she is any good. That is it though, found all this out yesterday and realise not one was right in my past or what was going to happen re this POI so I have to stop having or trusting readings. My money is going to be spend on my from now on. I am already deciding on the shoes I am going to buy instead of having readings.
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Thank you Stilltired...
That was my worst as well...binge calling with my “psychic friend”. Mine was pretty good most of the time, always off with timing by like years...what she is good at are feelings of what one is thinking or feeling, but usually it’s the feeling of the end result or not in the moment but what is to come so it’s so unreliable. What upsets me the most is when she has been wrong about the outcomes that I really needed to go a certain way, but then again she was right on other things that I would have never guessed in a million years. So my addiction is “relying” on her predictions. Or relying on what her response to my question. I was living and still do at times, on what she “sees”. Bad. Bad. Bad. It’s like I let go of my own intuitions.
I think we need faith in that God talks to us with our own intuitions. Or at least that’s what I’m working on.
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YES exactly...that's what I meant...relying on your own intuition and what is revealed to you within your own faith. That's what I am working on too. I did the same thing, relying on what that reader could "see" for me even when it went against what I was seeing and feeling for myself. But also with readers I don't have any friendship or emotional attachment to, what they say can get me to doubt myself and my own intuition. It can be so dangerous and I don't want to let it interfere with the decisions I make.
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Yes I totally understand what you are saying...so much so! It’s really dangerous for us. Faith is so so important to have in ourselves and what we do in the life to get us where and what we want. I think we are learning the hard way. Lately, i’ve Been upset because she didn’t see the POI coming into my life. I mean years ago she kinda did vision something but it’s just weird. This whole thing can really mess us up emotionally. And of course I too called others. Not just my go to..and I would compare to my go to and want to find more info. Thousands upon thousands of dollars...in the toilet. All that and all I got where a few details that only made sense to me after things would happened.
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FaithandTruth:
I caved...called last night. Back to square one.
marciamia:
--- Quote from: FaithandTruth on February 22, 2018, 01:00:40 PM ---I caved...called last night. Back to square one.
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It’s been a few weeks for me and I’m trying sooooo hard not to cave :-[
FaithandTruth:
Stay strong...sending you positive vibes...how long have you been reading for?
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--- Quote from: FaithandTruth on February 22, 2018, 01:00:40 PM ---I caved...called last night. Back to square one.
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It’s been a few weeks for me and I’m trying sooooo hard not to cave :-[
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marciamia:
--- Quote from: FaithandTruth on February 22, 2018, 02:19:14 PM ---
Stay strong...sending you positive vibes...how long have you been reading for?
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--- Quote from: FaithandTruth on February 22, 2018, 01:00:40 PM ---I caved...called last night. Back to square one.
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It’s been a few weeks for me and I’m trying sooooo hard not to cave :-[
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Way too long.... started in 2003... then on and off of course throughout the years
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