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lostsoul209:
I really now try to move on from my poi. But I can’t stop thinking about her no matter how hard I try I think about her 95 percent of the time and it very painful too. When I read with Diane731 a long time ago  she said when she first connect with my poi she pick up my engery right aways she not sure why but did I just talked to her? I said no I haven’t talk to her in 6 weeks.  Is it because I think about her too much or she always think about me for that to happen?

bstalling:
Consider counseling and therapy. Maybe even get mad and confront her about what she did. It will help you emotionally. The cord cutting stuff is nonsense.

lostsoul209:

--- Quote from: bstalling on February 07, 2018, 06:01:07 PM ---Consider counseling and therapy. Maybe even get mad and confront her about what she did. It will help you emotionally. The cord cutting stuff is nonsense.

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I did she said she never done anyone of those stuff and never said any of those words if she was able to lied like that what more could she be hiding. It might be her engery too maybe she can’t let me go too.

Beesa:
Cord cutting doesn't work, it's a temporary bandaid. You can't skip grief over losing someone or letting them go, there aren't any shortcuts. And it doesn't matter if she won't 'let you go', that means you're still enmeshed with her and feeling out her energy and looking for it. It's nonsense that people think we can't move on because another person who isn't even in the same room is 'holding on'. The energy might be there but it's up to you what to do with it.
You go full no contact and erase her presence from your life and you give yourself time to grieve it and process it, otherwise you'll go through the whole thing all over again with someone new and just keep repeating the pattern.

sawthelight:

--- Quote from: Beesa on February 07, 2018, 09:26:25 PM ---Cord cutting doesn't work, it's a temporary bandaid. You can't skip grief over losing someone or letting them go, there aren't any shortcuts. And it doesn't matter if she won't 'let you go', that means you're still enmeshed with her and feeling out her energy and looking for it. It's nonsense that people think we can't move on because another person who isn't even in the same room is 'holding on'. The energy might be there but it's up to you what to do with it.
You go full no contact and erase her presence from your life and you give yourself time to grieve it and process it, otherwise you'll go through the whole thing all over again with someone new and just keep repeating the pattern.

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THIS!  Excellent advice

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