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Picking up on third parties

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Angelina11:

--- Quote from: Bostongirl on January 24, 2018, 06:36:06 PM ---Save all your money on psychics. Either ask or pay for a private detective. In the long run you'll save a lot of dosh. 1/2 of them will see someone and the other 1/2 won't and you still won't be the wiser.

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I've read this and out of curiosity googled how much a private detective would charge in my area; nowhere close to how much I've spent on 2 guys Ive asked about in a course of 4 years, lol. Still, an idea of hiring a private detective feels so creepy to me😱. Also, I think, well who in a world actually gave me right to energetically spy on those guys through psychics? is it less creepy than having a detective spy on them? #FeelingWeird #wondering

Oh, just remembered. A few years before I even found a psychic line, there was one guy friend in my life. We were friends for a long time, but at some point he expressed his desire to take it to another level between us. I had no interest in him at all and our friendship has ended. But when we were friends, he told me that he was seeing his psychic and astrologist regularly and at some point he asked about me. His psychic made a prediction about my career and private life, and the age when things will take place. Regarding my career, he said that I'll have my own business by certain age and told him what area I would work in. At that time, I just laughed,I was relentlessly seeking for an opportunity to get hired, having my own business was not even in my mind. Lo and behold, I've started doing something as a hobby and it picked up to a rather successful business. So his psychic was right on that. He was very wrong about my love life though. Listening to my friend then did not make me feel violated, mostly because I didn't take it seriously, so I didn't mind him doing that. Now I'm thinking, how would I feel knowing that someone checking my thoughts, feelings through psychics...

Bostongirl:
I think asking a psychic about someone and actually going through their personal private stuff is different. You can even pay one of those on lines sites for people's private records. Court, divorces, driving and credit. I find that really crossing the line.
There have been a few people on here that were told their POI was coming back to find out they were married or in a relationship already. I wouldn't  rely on a psychic for a 3rd party.
Even if there is, you will be told they mean nothing and they are still coming back.

Kate:
I agree with most of what has been written on this thread, but I would say the one psychic I would trust on this to have a good chance of both "seeing" a third party (if there is one) and giving you a very non sugar coated answer re their involvement would be Cookie.

sawthelight:
yep never trust psychics for true third party info.  So many on here were led to believe that the relationship was ending and it couldn't be farther from the truth.  that can keep you hanging on for years.

I mean look at these feedbacks fro this poor woman on Keen:

Nancy, I was so excited to get my reading from you this evening! I felt So Good About Life! I saw my future hubby, he was Magnificent and I Expressed to Him He's The Handsomest Man in The World! Nancy, it's so important to Me To Make him feel Good About Himself! I need for him to never want to be around C again! You see he's right there and that their place will sale right away! I'm tired of going to bed alone every night! I'm glad you see He's Never Wanting To Leave Me and You See He's Been Thinking of Our Wedding Too! I am praying to the Universe All The TIme! I'm So In Love with this Man I'd Give My Life To Save His! Amazing I never thought I'd ever feel these feelings for Anyone!

Thank you so much Nancy! I got to apologize again for my emotions before! Thank you for seeing I was picking up on S' emotions! I thought he was trying to distance himself from me! That game! I need to be more thick skinned when it comes to him being a child! I know I'm the Only One He Loves! Next Step S Must Learn to Treat Me Better! You're Right, he acts like he's an Only Child! Very self-centered, Very Spoiled! You see He's Never Treated Anyone Nice until I came along! I'm In Love For the 1st & Last Time In My Life! Nancy You See I'm On His Mind 24/7! 1st thought in the a.m. and Last thought before he tries to sleep! You see he wakes up and can't sleep because He Misses Me!

Nancy thank you so much for all your patience and love! You're always so gracious and can understand me even when I'm all talking really, Really, Fast! I know the universe is going to come through for Me/Us! I Keep envisioning our wedding! Well Him looking Breathtakingly Handsome in his Tux and I Picture the alter at the Chapel by the Ocean! I'm picturing the engagement Ring you saw, Nancy! Princess Cut Diamonds! 3 of them The Larger Stone in the Center and 2 Smaller Stones On Each Side! Yes I'm feeling ignored right now but I must realize S is working to make time for us and to put away and prepare for changes! I can't wait! xoxoxoxo

Nancy I apologize for my emotional upset! I feel very used and taken for granted! Thank you for being calm I hope I didn't hurt your peacefulness! At times like this I wonder why am I sticking around? 9 years is a long time and I wish there was better communication! Thank you for taking my call even though I know you knew I was upset! I wish I never felt this pain! I'm glad you see he's not gong to do this again! Thank you for stopping me from uninstalling that game! It's nights like this I think it's damaging! He plays then he stops suddenly so of course my imagination takes over! I will make myself calm! I wish S showed me progress and talked about it with me too!

I mean, my GOD.  that poor woman...someone help her!!!!  :'( :'( :'(

sawthelight:

--- Quote from: Still tired on January 25, 2018, 04:45:32 PM ---OMG...who is that reader?! Nancy who? Sounds like a total scammer!

The most heartbreaking stories to me are the ones where no reader ever picked up on a third party and the person had long since moved on or gotten married.

On the other hand I have seen feedback from people who said the psychic told them someone was cheating and it turned out to be wrong but meanwhile caused a fight or even a breakup.

All in all this seems to be the worst thing to rely on them for. Can't really rely on them for anything when you get down to it but especially not third party.

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FaeryLady on Keen!  that woman should go to hell for leading that poor woman on like that.  SMH!


I agree about the third party stories that have others hanging on where the person moved on long ago.  that's why maybe a detective isn't a bad idea lol. Lots of these people probably spend thousands on readings anyway, just pay the detective and move on with it...on the other hand, is any stupid guy (or girl) really worth it?  LOL..that's my new theory.  If you need to go thru all that, it means you are very unsure and it probably isn't the right person for you.

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