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Picking up on third parties
njlady:
--- Quote from: evaluna1 on January 25, 2018, 07:26:31 PM ---OMG that was so disheartening to read. I wish there was a way to help this person. :(
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There isn't.
There is an obsessed person on this website who calls non-stop and is urged to get help by a few members, while others continue to encourage his obsession and select others think people are being mean to him. It's just crazy.
sawthelight:
--- Quote from: njlady on February 22, 2018, 08:34:25 PM ---
--- Quote from: evaluna1 on January 25, 2018, 07:26:31 PM ---OMG that was so disheartening to read. I wish there was a way to help this person. :(
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There isn't.
There is an obsessed person on this website who calls non-stop and is urged to get help by a few members, while others continue to encourage his obsession and select others think people are being mean to him. It's just crazy.
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I hear what you are saying but why does that girl keep contacting him? She's "encouraging" him in her own way.
FaithandTruth:
OMG I just read this thread sooo sad, heartbreaking...sending her positive vibes of having her own wake up call unfortunately it will probably be the hard way.
njlady:
--- Quote from: sawthelight on February 22, 2018, 08:47:38 PM ---
--- Quote from: njlady on February 22, 2018, 08:34:25 PM ---
--- Quote from: evaluna1 on January 25, 2018, 07:26:31 PM ---OMG that was so disheartening to read. I wish there was a way to help this person. :(
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There isn't.
There is an obsessed person on this website who calls non-stop and is urged to get help by a few members, while others continue to encourage his obsession and select others think people are being mean to him. It's just crazy.
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I hear what you are saying but why does that girl keep contacting him? She's "encouraging" him in her own way.
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I doubt she has any idea of what is really going on with with him. Is there a guy you talked to a couple of times then stopped talking to and blocked? Maybe agreed to talk to or text occasionally at a later point? How horrified would you be if you found out it was THIS guy calling psychics five times a day about you? He has NEVER been on a date with this woman. He has had very little actual contact with her from his posts. Everything is what the psychics tell him she is feeling and thinking. His actual interactions are how she blocks him, tells him to leave her alone, avoids him, looks away, tells him she got back with her husband, doesn't respond for more than a day to his texts. You are confusing his posting frequency with her actions. If I talked about you non-stop every day, my friends would think we were going back and forth all the time. I've been here almost a year and I think she contacted him twice where it wasn't to tell him to get lost.
marciamia:
--- Quote from: Tthompsj on February 22, 2018, 11:20:48 PM ---I actually cringe every time I read his posts or see his topics. It's quite tragic. I agree 100% with you njlady.
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Ugh, yesss!!!
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