I had a reading earlier with Effie today and I'm not sure what to make of it. I felt I had to give a lot of detail surrounding my situation and I did not feel connected with her. She indicated that my POI feels I have lost interest in him and that he has sabotaged the relationship. I feel that is not the case and the complete opposite - I feel that he has lost interest in me as I have not heard from in over 3 weeks. She encouraged me to reach out to him which I will do tonight. She also said that I would see him in February but I actually plan to travel to the UK to see my family around that time. Her timeline is not in line with Tara, or Nathan's. I guess we will see. I will keep you all updated!