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turning off my keen account
bstalling:
--- Quote from: peppie on December 26, 2017, 10:12:13 PM ---Also, there's this weird phenomena where even though i knew everyone was wrong, I view my favorites with rose colored glasses. I can't see it. I honestly don't know what that is.
And one more thing. I'd like to remind everyone that as much as you would like to think your favorites care about you they are there to make money. They are profiting off of you and don't care less. If they did they wouldn't keep giving you wrong information. They would refund your money when they find out they are wrong. Other than a handful of readers (very few) most are milking you for your money.
I actually have one reader who is still trying to get me to send him money and he was WRONG about EVERYTHING. I actually think wow the nerve of that guy.
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Like wire him money? Who is this reader?
I personally don't get too attached to readers. Its a matter of liking the service they provide in exchange for the money I pay. If I feel its not worth it, I stop paying and going to them. Its slippery territory to think you are friends with someone you are paying money to talk to.
sawthelight:
--- Quote from: peppie on December 26, 2017, 10:11:04 PM ---
--- Quote from: whskers on December 26, 2017, 10:04:32 PM ---Do it peppie! I’m planning on closing mine too. But I’m #4 with friend sue :D. It’s been a month. After I read with her I will shut Keen down 8)
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haha! Can I tell you I'm less than 10 now with LadyPersephone ... I waited over 1.5 months. I am now in line as a joke as I'm not calling someone I don't know.
I feel safer when I have someone who can analyze waht's going on, even if it's not psychic. I'm super afraid I'll panic after I shut down my account. I did that a year ago. I shut it down and freaked. I'm in a better place now to do so because everyone was wrong and so I am a bit traumatized by that.
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Read with Lady P off her site, if you are going to. Don't keep Keen open for her, her site is much more reasonable and she can usually schedule you the same day.
peppie:
--- Quote from: sawthelight on December 27, 2017, 04:44:28 PM ---
--- Quote from: peppie on December 26, 2017, 10:11:04 PM ---
--- Quote from: whskers on December 26, 2017, 10:04:32 PM ---Do it peppie! I’m planning on closing mine too. But I’m #4 with friend sue :D. It’s been a month. After I read with her I will shut Keen down 8)
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haha! Can I tell you I'm less than 10 now with LadyPersephone ... I waited over 1.5 months. I am now in line as a joke as I'm not calling someone I don't know.
I feel safer when I have someone who can analyze waht's going on, even if it's not psychic. I'm super afraid I'll panic after I shut down my account. I did that a year ago. I shut it down and freaked. I'm in a better place now to do so because everyone was wrong and so I am a bit traumatized by that.
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Read with Lady P off her site, if you are going to. Don't keep Keen open for her, her site is much more reasonable and she can usually schedule you the same day.
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i'm not going to call her. i just keep my name in line just as a joke at this point. the last thing i need is a new reader!!!!!
sawthelight:
--- Quote from: peppie on December 27, 2017, 07:55:32 PM ---
--- Quote from: sawthelight on December 27, 2017, 04:44:28 PM ---
--- Quote from: peppie on December 26, 2017, 10:11:04 PM ---
--- Quote from: whskers on December 26, 2017, 10:04:32 PM ---Do it peppie! I’m planning on closing mine too. But I’m #4 with friend sue :D. It’s been a month. After I read with her I will shut Keen down 8)
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haha! Can I tell you I'm less than 10 now with LadyPersephone ... I waited over 1.5 months. I am now in line as a joke as I'm not calling someone I don't know.
I feel safer when I have someone who can analyze waht's going on, even if it's not psychic. I'm super afraid I'll panic after I shut down my account. I did that a year ago. I shut it down and freaked. I'm in a better place now to do so because everyone was wrong and so I am a bit traumatized by that.
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Read with Lady P off her site, if you are going to. Don't keep Keen open for her, her site is much more reasonable and she can usually schedule you the same day.
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i'm not going to call her. i just keep my name in line just as a joke at this point. the last thing i need is a new reader!!!!!
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oh ok
Baypark1:
@Fluttershy and Peppie
I have been exactly where you are at. I was focused ONLY my ex and psychics and couldn't function. My business was failing, I couldn't pay my bills, I drained my savings and I felt like there was something seriously wrong with me. I would get so anxious I would shake. It was horrible!
I don't remember exactly the day it happened, but I started to look back at all of my readings and it really sank in that nothing happened as they said it would. In my gut I knew he was never coming back and I had felt this for months. I felt it but it didn't stop me from getting readings. One of my last readings with Keisha she told me that this may not be the best for me (this guy) and that when he does come back he won't give me what I wanted and deserved. She actually PM'd me to tell me that even though something may happen, doesn't mean its the best thing for me. At the same time I was once again realizing that this guy wasn't good for me. From that point forward I started to cut back on the calls. I haven't had a reading in over a month. I didn't stop all at once. I went from 10 calls a day, to 5, to 3 to 1 then 3 a week, 1 a week etc. I got to the point that when I did call, I knew what they were telling me was bullshit. Why was I calling? I don't know. Habit? Addiction? Who knows. I can't tell you why. Even now, when I get the urge to call I don't because the urge passes when I remind myself that nothing is going to come of these readings. I'm wasting my money.
The bottom line for me is I KNEW there was something underlying for the reason I was calling and hanging on to this guy. I kept searching online for addiction, obsessing over an ex, how to let go etc. Finally I found Susan Anderson and it resonated with me. I also started working again from Louise Hays book "You can heal your life". Between the two, I finally go. I don't obsess anymore nor do I have that craving to call.
Ladies (and gents) this is an addiction. Bottom line. At one point I found some 12 step AA worksheets that I did and replaced the alcohol with readings. I'm also a recovering alcoholic FYI. I remember when I started getting bad drinking, I would think this isn't normal to drink so much. Its NOT. It's also not normal to call psychics as much as we do. There is a underlying reason you do and you have to figure out what that it. For me, it was lack of self worth and abandonment/rejection issues. You will have to find your reason but I guarantee there is a reason and it's not that you're just crazy. You're not. Remind yourself of these things and keep repeating them to yourself 1000 times a day if you have to.
1) I do not have to call at this minute - Just for today, I will not call (if you have to say "just for this minute, I do not have to call" then do it)
2) Nothing has come true from these readings (nothing substantial)
3) You've spent HOW much money? (count it up if you have to. I didn't do that, I was too scared to know)
4) He's not coming back PERIOD (If he was coming back, he'd be here already) This one is a hard one because it hurts like hell at first. You're finally admitting it's over
5) I am worthy of more
6) Ask God (or whoever your higher power is) for strength to not call but to believe in him (I didn't mention God in my healing but he did help. I finally broke down and admitted I wasn't trusting him but wanted to so bad and needed help)
This is what helped me. I was highly addicted to readings. One month I spent $4000. In ONE MONTH. Thats why I won'd add up what I've spent. I would probably kill myself if I did :)
You both know you have a problem and you both want to stop. That's your first step. Bravo!!!
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