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turning off my keen account
sawthelight:
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--- Quote from: Cooper28 on December 31, 2017, 08:49:18 AM ---Imagine if your situation is still the same this time next year, if you’re still calling and you have not changed. How would you feel about yourself?
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This is huge. Yes, when I think about that I am REVOLTED. Absolutely revolted.
Thanks, Cooper28. Thanks Angelina, thanks Baypark, everyone.
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Exactly. That was a huge wake up call for me.
peppie:
--- Quote from: sawthelight on December 31, 2017, 03:11:49 PM ---
--- Quote from: peppie on December 31, 2017, 02:45:01 PM ---
--- Quote from: Cooper28 on December 31, 2017, 08:49:18 AM ---Imagine if your situation is still the same this time next year, if you’re still calling and you have not changed. How would you feel about yourself?
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This is huge. Yes, when I think about that I am REVOLTED. Absolutely revolted.
Thanks, Cooper28. Thanks Angelina, thanks Baypark, everyone.
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Exactly. That was a huge wake up call for me.
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oh i'm so glad you quit calling psychics, too, sawthelight! congrats!
journalmuse:
--- Quote from: Cooper28 on December 31, 2017, 08:49:18 AM ---
We’re at the end of one year and the start of another. Imagine if your situation is still the same this time next year, if you’re still calling and you have not changed. How would you feel about yourself? This is was what did it for me. I have decided to take matters into my own hands and I already feel better for it.
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I've had this thought before and it stops me up short, too. But it's always the dream of, two more months to hold on and things will change, then another two, then another two, etc. It's such a cycle.
peppie:
--- Quote from: journalmuse on December 31, 2017, 04:25:56 PM ---
--- Quote from: Cooper28 on December 31, 2017, 08:49:18 AM ---
We’re at the end of one year and the start of another. Imagine if your situation is still the same this time next year, if you’re still calling and you have not changed. How would you feel about yourself? This is was what did it for me. I have decided to take matters into my own hands and I already feel better for it.
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I've had this thought before and it stops me up short, too. But it's always the dream of, two more months to hold on and things will change, then another two, then another two, etc. It's such a cycle.
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what happens when you think the cycle never ends. in a year, i'm here and nothing's changed. i wasted $X and i'm still in the same place.
that thought alone is bad enough that I am like I can't do it. I can't call again.
journalmuse:
--- Quote from: peppie on December 31, 2017, 04:31:11 PM ---
--- Quote from: journalmuse on December 31, 2017, 04:25:56 PM ---
--- Quote from: Cooper28 on December 31, 2017, 08:49:18 AM ---
We’re at the end of one year and the start of another. Imagine if your situation is still the same this time next year, if you’re still calling and you have not changed. How would you feel about yourself? This is was what did it for me. I have decided to take matters into my own hands and I already feel better for it.
--- End quote ---
I've had this thought before and it stops me up short, too. But it's always the dream of, two more months to hold on and things will change, then another two, then another two, etc. It's such a cycle.
--- End quote ---
what happens when you think the cycle never ends. in a year, i'm here and nothing's changed. i wasted $X and i'm still in the same place.
that thought alone is bad enough that I am like I can't do it. I can't call again.
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Yeah. I'm approaching that point. I've already drastically cut back to a couple readings a month, instead of a couple a week. It's much healthier that way. But I still get into anxious periods where I do a bunch in a row and that's where I trip myself up. I'm still trying to figure out what it is that trips me to go to that place, because if I can figure that out I can deal with it in a better way.
I've begun thinking about every time I want to pay for a reading, instead put it into a savings account that I'll use for a trip next year. I do better when I can be goal-focused like that. Because I can afford the readings I get, it's not bankrupting me or putting me in debt. It's just that it's a waste of money, ultimately, and that's frustrating and demoralizing.
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