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My Ex Came Back, After I Let Go.
diamondcanadian:
Wasn’t sure where to post this ... but here we go .
I finally let go and focused on my life.
And guess what. He came back .
He wants to try again and see where things go.
Sceptical for sure at this point!
star1:
--- Quote from: Kristinajt on November 09, 2018, 11:12:29 PM ---Wasn’t sure where to post this ... but here we go .
I finally let go and focused on my life.
And guess what. He came back .
He wants to try again and see where things go.
Sceptical for sure at this point!
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I'm happy for you that your ex came back, but I still think it's pot luck, and not about this "letting go" malarkey. He obviously had deep feelings for you all along, and it took him a while to realise that he really did want you in his life.
11jlady:
Either he started missing you and your relationship and came to some realizations, learned some lessons OR nothing else worked out for him and he can't be alone and that's the reason he came back. It really just depends. This whole letting go and then they come back thing isn't guaranteed. However, there IS some legit truths about it because it's one of the universal laws of attraction. I do believe in predestination though as well. I believe both predestination and free will coexist at the same time. So for example..........if it was predestined for you and so and so to be together, then regardless of any free will choices made in the interim, it's going to happen. If not, they ain't comin back because you were meant for someone else. I believe certain events are predestined and other things are left up to free will. From what I've observed throughout my life, that's how it appears to be.
LAW1974:
--- Quote from: 11jlady on November 10, 2018, 04:32:08 AM ---Either he started missing you and your relationship and came to some realizations, learned some lessons OR nothing else worked out for him and he can't be alone and that's the reason he came back. It really just depends. This whole letting go and then they come back thing isn't guaranteed. However, there IS some legit truths about it because it's one of the universal laws of attraction. I do believe in predestination though as well. I believe both predestination and free will coexist at the same time. So for example..........if it was predestined for you and so and so to be together, then regardless of any free will choices made in the interim, it's going to happen. If not, they ain't comin back because you were meant for someone else. I believe certain events are predestined and other things are left up to free will. From what I've observed throughout my life, that's how it appears to be.
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I tend to agree with this.... There might be some truth to letting go of the energy and them coming back but I also think there's truth in the NC rule and many other rules out there of breakups that work for different people and ultimately what matters is whether it lasts and is healthy long-term!
star1:
But have these people "let their exes go?". Letting them go means moving on, not having readings, not on this forum asking about things that people that haven't moved on have asked. If you've moved on from your ex, it means you've let them go and aren't interested in a reconnect anymore in my eyes. These people have taken their ex back or contemplating it.. That's not letting them go. Also, I'm not knocking Kristina but she hasn't really "moved on". She's still been posting and asking about Yona and the situation with her ex boyfriend at the time (which I want to make clear I am not knocking, it's upto her and she is a nice user who I don't mean this to come out the wrong way). Some people kid themselves that they've moved on, but it's like a dog with a bone getting bored. You keep waving the bone in it's face and pulling it away from the dog, it'll give up. When you throw the bone and leave the dog to it, the dog will go after the bone.
Sometimes someone will have moved on from an ex, and the ex comes back and they think, "actually. Why not? Let's see where it goes this time, if it has anything better to offer than before", but I think that that's different to some of these people who haven't moved on deep down. Sometimes we think we have let somebody go, but deep down subconsciously - we haven't.
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