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Heartbroken and exhausted...guidance appreciated PLEASE!!!

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Seeker:
Most men will not hang around a woman for that long without trying to make a move unless he's gay or so deeply traumatized that he's sworn off women but if he's hanging around a woman that much for that long he hasn't sworn them off.

If you're a really attractive woman (and I know most women would say they're attractive, but the ones that know they're REALLY attractive know it), then he may be afraid of the same thing you are, rejection. Sometimes, a really attractive woman can intimidate some men in the sense that they feel because of your attractiveness they have no shot.

The year is almost up. Allow their timetables to pass, and if he still hasn't said anything, then it's time to be straight up with him. If he runs so be it, because then you'll know what type of man you're dealing with, and at that point would you even want him?

Jess614:
Wow I’ve never thought of that perspective. Thank you so much for your ifvice! It does make sense because I’ve felt that way myself.

maroonlight:
Hi Jess. (My real name is Jessica by the way as well)

I first off want to say I completely understand what you are going through and I feel your pain and suffering. I started using the psychics back in October of 2016, and that was when I was using California Psychics. Later on, I switched to Keen.

I binge called dozens of psychics and spent a few thousand for basically nothing. Practically all of them said that both guys I called about would come around. The first one was an amazing guy who was my ex and he left me because he moved out of state to pursue his dream career that he worked very hard for, but could not pursue it here. At the time I had just moved here so I was starting a new life in my own way, so there was no question of me going with him. Long story short he was the most amazing man I had ever met and truly did feel like he was my soulmate. I called dozens of psychics who all said that he would come back. I tried reaching out to him in March and he never responded. I haven't had any contact with him since and just from looking at his social media, he actually has a girlfriend now. It doesn't hurt so much now. A part of him is still in my heart of course but I don't think about him as much now because I've dated others since. It felt impossible at the time and like I would die without him, but as I've learned the difficult way, life does go on.

This year there was another guy that I really got into who basically used me for casual purposes. I called many psychics over him too and they all told me he would come around, and of course there was nothing.

Now, I have a 3rd POI who I've only spoken to a few psychics about. This one was very recent and we dated for several weeks before things got rough. (You actually posted on my thread about this) I've been back in contact with him since I posted the thread and we've talk alot now but he hasn't asked me out again so it's really confusing and annoying because I can't figure out what his intentions are nor if he wants to see me again.

Anyway, I've been holding off from calling the psychics as much as I can because I've been through the binges twice already and not one thing has come out of them. The best advice that I can give to you is that time and communication are the only way to find out. I tried the whole "no contact" thing thinking that it would make the last 2 guys miss me dearly but it turned out that I was waiting around for nothing. My advice to you is DON'T wait around for months for this guy to come around. I did that both times with the psychic binges and the psychics just kept stringing me along. You should have a talk with him and find out where he's at. The worst thing that can happen is that he rejects you and you are given the ticket to move forward and find someone who truly is ready to date you.

Love-33:
Maroonlight have you ever read with the tarot readers miss ann or lily oak on bitwine? Or Sophea? (Just to see if you included them in your 'the wrong ones list)

maroonlight:

--- Quote from: Love-33 on November 26, 2017, 03:35:13 PM ---Maroonlight have you ever read with the tarot readers miss ann or lily oak on bitwine? Or Sophea? (Just to see if you included them in your 'the wrong ones list)

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I haven’t used bitwine, but every big reader on keen like Lady P, Lotus of Light, Kisha, Queen of Cups, etc has been completely wrong for me and supposedly they’ve been right for so many people.

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