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advice/tips for someone who wants to stop calling!
peppie:
--- Quote from: Baypark1 on October 21, 2017, 06:07:14 PM ---Not.ONE person in my life knows I've called psychics so I understand.
Since I don't know your whole.situation, I don't really know what to suggest. If you're in a bad situation, there must be something you can do to get out. If not physically then emotionall meaning accept what it is and try and move on. No situation is forever. We control how we react and our decisions. Regardless of what the situation is, you need to put YOU first. Your emotional and spiritual wellbeing. YOU need to be the most important person in your life, so you have to figure out how you can change it, even if its a simple thing like changing a reaction. It sounds like you have " hit bottom" so now the only way is up and that is a good thing because it forces you to make changes for the better. You just have to figure out what those changes are :)
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thanks, Baypark :) . It's good to have a place where other people understand. hitting rock bottom is not always so bad.
joq122:
I know how you feel Peppie. I’m here waiting for things to pan out with the psychics predictions. I’ve been contacting these psychics for 2 years now. But I’ve finally come to an understanding that I just have to accept that maybe this girl & I are just not meant to be. It’s apt easier said than done. I wish her nothing but the best though. Just keep moving. Pick up a hobby. Lately I’ve been painting just to keep myself busy. I hope you get through your situation & always have hope. Hope in yourself to get through this not in the predictions. Live for today because tomorrow is never promised.
doubleoh8:
--- Quote from: peppie on October 21, 2017, 05:58:16 PM ---
--- Quote from: Baypark1 on October 21, 2017, 05:49:01 PM ---... I couldn't stop obsessing and calling. It took a very long time to get to this point. Basically, nothing ever came true from the readings and I was so miserable, I desperately wanted to change.
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I'm at this point now. The worst part is I feel I can't tell anyone. Like I stated I told someone "more professional", but that was a more ostricizing and hurtful experience more than anything else and I won't do it again.
I think the reason I do it is because I am in such a bad situation and I have no option to leave so I live in persistent fear of what's going to happen. I know I should just "let go and let God", but there's that notion that if I know what someone is going to do I can stay a step ahead and protect myself.
If you have any more advice about what worked for you, Baypark, please keep 'em coming.
Oh and thanks :)
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Peppie,
I don't want to read in between the lines, but if you are in any kind of abusive situation you should really get out. And regardless of the nature of the difficult situation, there are people on this forum who are really here for you. Great for you for reaching out this way and don't hesitate to ask people here -- either in the group format or individually -- for help if you need it.
For me, I have slowed down calling dramatically after hitting my own rock bottom of sorts. Basically I ran out of money -- for real. And I went through a LOT. More than I am comfortable admitting and it really shocked and scared me when I got to a place where I was in real economic distress. The good thing, though, was that stopping calling for long enough really helped me in a lot of ways. I got some of my power back, started to trust my own intuition again, started living in reality and not a fantasy, got a handle on my anxiety (that was building as a result of too many readings, and had to reflect on why I had become so dependent on calling. All that to say, however you can do it -- stop calling for as long as you can! If you have lost control of it, it has become a habit and you need to break it, and once you do you will feel so much better.
I agree 100% with Baypark, that it's an opportunity to look at the reasons underlying why we call psychics for advice. For me, sometimes calling was actually a way to avoid looking at those underlying issues. A lot has to do with control -- feeling like I don't have any. I can't remember who said it, but accepting that and letting go of control was also helpful.
Good luck peppie and keep reaching out when you need to.
Baypark1:
One thing I did when I finally was ready to stop was not only work on cleaning the crap within but cleaning out my house. For 3 years I was focused on my ex who screwed my life royally and this POI I had been calling about for a YEAR! I called as well with the ex. Pretty much thats all I thought about. So I started with my bathroom drawers and then ended up painting. It felt good to focus on me and what would make ME feel good. Every part of my house was a mess (hidden behind the doors :)) I am one that loves organization and things neat and tidy. As I cleaned out my cabinets, drawers and closets, I started to feel stronger and more in control of my life and I felt good. I read somewhere that cleaning out is very good for putting the past behind you and it worked for me.
Maybe you can try it!. Im sure your sock drawer or closet can use an overhaul :) If you're.OCD and your house is perfect then paint a room :)
Baypark1:
I just read this thread. Its an older thread but damn, if this doesn't make you want to stop calling, get control of your life and heal yourself, I don't know what will.
I am available for anyone that needs to talk and wants to stop this addiction
http://www.thepsychicreviews.com/forum/index.php/topic,1499.0.html
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