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Went on a Keen bender last night

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Littl30ne:
Oh yes I binged and no matter what anyone told me, reconnection or no reconnection my heart wouldn't  stop believing in the reconnection. It was pointless if I knew what I wanted and could care less about what anyone said, Mr. New Guy was supposed to arrive in July (its almost October... what?!) I hated that I wasted so much money (I don't even think these readers were even accurate!)

I go on a calling spree when I'm super sad or feeling anxious, it's almost a welcome relief to be able to openly talk about what's bothering us to strangers who can't really judge us or whose opinions don't really matter. The problem is they are charging us by the MINUTE at pretty pricy rates and the odds of them being accurate are pretty small.

I've had days when I was on the phone w different psychics on CP for 4-6 hours straight calling one after another! I've had mornings when I was off, I was binge chatting with readers online for HOURS.. it was super disgusting how much money I wasted. I literally could've gone on vacation w the amount of money I wasted :( my worst was back in January through June immediately after I got dumped.

Lately I've been taking myself to the nearest Ulta and buying myself face masques, bathbombs, body scrubs, etc.. a nice bottle of wine from the liquor store and then I go home and take a nice long hot bath with some sea salt+ kelp scented candles burning while sipping some moscato... it's so much more relieving than talking to strangers out to get my $$ who have no solid proof of what will happen tomorrow. I'm happier spending money to beautify myself because it makes me feel better and it's an investment going towards me :)

Just go to the gym or pamper yourself when you're feeling like this. You need to go within and love yourself because you need it the most around this time. But don't worry we have been there too!

I'm definitely limiting my readings now because it doesn't matter anymore... in my heart I know what I want and that's it. I'm still open to other options but I'll find out on my own thanks. Don't be hard on yourself 😘 Next time you feel like binging post here too ;)

sunshineluv7:
Yeah, I totally agree with this: "I go on a calling spree when I'm super sad or feeling anxious, it's almost a welcome relief to be able to openly talk about what's bothering us to strangers who can't really judge us or whose opinions don't really matter."

You don't have to face them the next day with bawling your eyes out on the phone, or see the pity looks, or have them ask you "any word from so and so" and all that.

I like the shopping spree idea... but I turned that way and I'm not sure it's any better. Because now I have some great stuff, and I do feel better about myself because I invested in myself, but I still did end up going back to psychics when the next guy did hurt me again. But now, I'm over it. Mostly.

Shrug. :)

Littl30ne:
Still tired and Sunshineluv7 it's so true binge purchasing can become the next addiction!! Lol!! Not gonna lie, I was hesitant to mention the wine in my previous post because there's even a possibility of becoming an alcoholic if one isn't careful. I forgot to mention I bought a lot of make up but hey now at least I have an excuse to doll up lol.. btw Do you want to sell me your jewelry Still Tired? 😜😜😜 As long as we learn our lessons I think that's what matters :) Good for you for getting over it mostly Sunshineluv7, take your time 💖 Sometimes Im over him other days I go back to wondering what if.. one day at a time I suppose.

It's true material items can't replace the ones we miss, but I'm not sure if I feel better giving away money to readers either. I feel even worse when I see the reading didn't pass yet I spent $80 like it was nothing -_-... yet when I'm at the mall I'm hesitant to buy those shoes for $80 sometimes for example. Everyone copes differently I suppose :) but yes sometimes I am glad for those readings because even the negative readings made me reach out to my POI and apologize. They got me thinning about how I could change. The positive readings gave me some hope and I liked that too.

Heartbreak as an adult sucks, I'm really going to take my time next time the opportunity for love arrives!

peppie:
i've learned that calling begets calling. period. when you're in that mood and make the first call the others come rolling in after. i wanted to call a regular tonight but i stopped myself because i thought if i make this one call i'll want to make more and it's kind of pointless. no one has really been right anyway. and the more i call the more wrong they get...

mystery123:
You guys are awesome! Love this thread..

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