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MidwesternSun:
Thanks for clarifying njlady.
I actually called Rika again earlier today, and I am somewhat torn...
At first, it didn't seem like she fully remembered me from a few days ago but started on the reading anyways... she did seem to remember our previous reading after a few minutes. During this call, she firmly indicated that my ex would return and by September we would be engaged. Three days ago, she confidently (and I mean, with a ton of confidence) said, "She is coming back in April (next month). Just be patient. Don't count the days... just work on yourself and know that she loves you, misses you, and she is realizing that she made a mistake. Part of what is taking her so long to reach out to you is that she is afraid you will reject her return. If you can prove that you learned how to be brave (I was somewhat anxious in my desire to get married... I wanted, and want, to marry her) and that you are willing to listen more intently to her fears/worries regarding the pressures of getting married, she will take the relationship back with open arms and with tears in her eyes. Wait for her to contact you."
This phone call, I mean, Rika was almost screaming in the phone - "Stop worrying! Buck up, be confident knowing that she will return and by September she will want to be engaged!" She was cursing with excitement - the swearing didn't bother me, I only mention to illustrate her conviction. She, still very excited, kept saying, "By November you two will be married." Now, my ex had previously indicated (I didn't tell Rika) that she had always dreamed of being married in the fall - specifically October/November time frame. Also, Rika indicated that something major would be happening in June... she asked me if there was a holiday or celebration either of our families celebrated in mid/mid-late June, to which I replied, "My ex's birthday."
What threw me for a loop, however (besides the sudden getting back together and very near engagement), is that... if I remember correctly... she indicated that we would celebrate the marriage/engagement on a boat. I don't know anyone in either family that owns a massive boat for a celebration - I suppose it is possible to go on a cruise? None of us live anywhere near a lake or ocean. Rika almost mentioned a few things about my ex's dad and said, "He thought of you as a 'Forever Man' for his daughter... he already regarded you as a son-in-law. He prays every day that [my ex] goes back to you because he doubts she will find anyone like you." I can't confirm that that is exactly how he felt about me, but we did have a pleasant relationship of mutual trust and respect.
I wish I had recorded the phone call... I don't want this to be a false "fairy tale" reading. But it almost sounds too good to be true.
njlady:
--- Quote from: MidwesternSun on March 29, 2019, 02:38:28 AM ---Thanks for clarifying njlady.
I actually called Rika again earlier today, and I am somewhat torn...
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I wouldn't call repeatedly or start reader hopping. It will heighten your anxiety and screw with your head. Major development and you want to check in, ok, but don't step on the hamster wheel.
It sounds counterintuitive that when you are losing something that you desperately want that you should walk away, put it out of your mind and give it space to do whatever it needs to do, but like Rika said - put it out of your mind and don't count the days. Don't hang on to April with a death grip. Work on yourself while you are by yourself. You don't want that phone to ring and instead of working on yourself and being ready all you did was spend $14,000 to call 186 psychics.
If you really feel in your heart, without desperation or excuses, that this woman loves you and the only thing holding her back is something that you have the power to change, then do it with conviction. Do you feel your relationship working out is a fairy tale? Everyone knows, deep down inside, if they are in love or in obsession even if they don't want to admit it.
You can start saying "God is blessing the loving direct verbal communication between ______ and me" and sending her your love once every night before you go to sleep, then twice, then three times etc. as time goes on. Don't embelish it, act desperate or start puking up your emotional guts to her; just that one sentence, send your love, redirect your thoughts and go to sleep. People you have or have had a loving connection with can feel that on some level. There is nothing that will stop someone who truly loves you and wants to be with you from contacting you. Fear can make them hesitate but fear of losing you will always overcome that.
There isn't any reader who can guarantee anything 100%. Readers can guide you. She gave you the past, the now, what the problem is, what needs to be fixed and potential/probable outcome if you do. Do what you need to do and don't stare at the calendar. Don't let fear mount and negativity get you as days go by. You don't have a dysfunctional situation that is doomed to begin with, just a problem that can be dealt with.
Don't let your left brain take you off track with things like the boat and picking apart details that don't make sense right now. Maybe someone in the family is retiring and has always dreamed of owning a boat and is going to buy one. Maybe a new fake boat club is opening up in your town. There is a bar here where you pay the fee, they put you in a Soviet uniform, stick you in a sub zero freezer, lock the door behind you and you down vodka shots. Doesn't mean I'm in Kiev. Or maybe the boat won't figure in at all. Don't get all hung up on it.
flora0250:
Had she come across as a fairy tale reader to anyone? She told me me and my POI would get married and told me a bunch of very positive things I have had a hard time believing but she was really adamant about it and there were some things she hit very accurately it seems, and she has a lot of great feedback. I’m not sure if I believe her or not! But I would like to!
happyk:
--- Quote from: flora0250 on April 12, 2019, 03:53:42 PM ---Had she come across as a fairy tale reader to anyone? She told me me and my POI would get married and told me a bunch of very positive things I have had a hard time believing but she was really adamant about it and there were some things she hit very accurately it seems, and she has a lot of great feedback. I’m not sure if I believe her or not! But I would like to!
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Not a fairy tale reader at all. I'm fact she told me my POI is not the right fit and things wouldn't work with him unless I let him lead fully.
pisceandream:
How is Rika when it comes to the timings of predictions?
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