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My Story - How No Contact Advice Got Me Into Depression

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helloworld:

--- Quote from: Kate on September 03, 2017, 01:47:33 AM ---So sorry to hear of your story - I honestly think the best thing for all of us is to strictly limit how many psychics we call and start a healing process - no matter how hard, or how strong the connection. 

Did any of the psychics you called pick up on another woman?

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It's been awhile and I tossed most of my notes but the 2 readers who were relatively more accurate than others are:

Ness21: Said he won't come back from day one but I am not sure if she saw the other woman. I distinctly remember her because I never called her again (until I realized she was accurate) because I was hoping he would be back.

Queen of Cups18: Saw the other woman but thought it would fizzle out but she did tell me though that relationship may lose momentum we may not get back. I read with her 2 months post the break up so I don't know if he was dating someone before he started dating his fiancee but she was correct about us not getting back together.

I don't know which reader told me that a possible reason for readers to not see the other woman is because they read energy. So if the guy is not emotionally into the other woman it could be hard for a reader to pick on the other energy in his life. I find this interesting because once during a reading QoC asked me if the man in question was living with his mother or some female since a female energy showed up in his living space. She couldn't tell exactly what the relationship was (other woman or mother) because the energy was female and controlling). Sure enough later I got to know he was living in with the new girlfriend and she is controlling.

HornetKick:

--- Quote from: helloworld on September 05, 2017, 03:32:57 AM ---I don't know which reader told me that a possible reason for readers to not see the other woman is because they read energy. So if the guy is not emotionally into the other woman it could be hard for a reader to pick on the other energy in his life. I find this interesting because once during a reading QoC asked me if the man in question was living with his mother or some female since a female energy showed up in his living space. She couldn't tell exactly what the relationship was (other woman or mother) because the energy was female and controlling). Sure enough later I got to know he was living in with the new girlfriend and she is controlling.

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I don't think I necessarily believe this. Some readers are just better at certain things than others. If a reader can pick up the color of the car you drive, then they have skills and this has nothing to do with energy, but it doesn't help with the information they give either, because you already know what color car you drive. These little tricks are to let you know they are connecting, but the energy explanation seems off for some reason.

Seeker:
I guess the "wait, don't act" advice is common. I was never told not to contact my POI, but Paulina told me that "she needs time" and "focus on yourself right now".

Sedra told me my POI will come forward and open up in a few months which will lead to a long-term relationship beginning toward the end of this year.

I hate that I'm even thinking about this. I don't know everyone else's situation, but I know lack of options is the problem where I live. Otherwise, as good of a catch as my POI is, there is no way I'd waste much mental/spiritual energy thinking about if I'll ever hear from her if there were more viable options around. She accepted my social media connection back in June after letting it sit for 20 days which was strange in and of itself, and I can see she reads everything I post since she connected with me, lol, but yet no reply to the elephant in the room: me opening up to her.

I sometimes feel like just deleting her and blocking her and forgetting it all, lol. But she was just so sweet and supportive and affectionate toward me during one of the absolute greatest struggles of my life. She was like an angel. SIGH.

One thing I know now though, is that I DESERVE someone like that... you know, without the months of silence of course.

rosa0726:
I went through the same. I was told by the psychics on CP not to contact me ex. He was scared, blah, blah, blah.

Fast--forward 8 months later and he was engaged. Six months after that, he was married. I so regret that part of my life with all the wasted money. I am ashamed to admit that I could have put a down=payment on a house with the money I spent on CP. The worst part was none of their predictions came true. He never came back to me, he isn't my soul-mate and he wasn't my destiny. He has been married now for about 6 years and has 3 kids. It took a long time to heal but I am happily married now and never think about my ex anymore. But it took me years to get to this point.

Like you, I couldn't move on. After the break-up, I stayed in bed for days at a time and only went to work because I had to. When I found out he had gotten married, I was on the floor devastated. I didn't think I would ever get better. But here I am, alive and well.  I haven't called psychics in years and decided I needed to take control of my future,

Can you believe that after he got married, some of them were telling me to wait it out because his marriage wouldn't last? If I had listened, I wouldn't have met my  husband. They actually told me not to bother looking for anyone else because my ex was my destiny.

So I understand your pain. I have been there.

Jess614:
I can relate that you’re story. I am going thru the same situation at the moment. Now I do believe space important because it allows yourself and your ex to evaluate your feelings and situation. I’ve done this strategy twice. The first time I waited two months and finally decided to try dating again and that’s where my current boyfriend. We had been together for 4 months how very on a break because I wanted more of a commitment which he is unsure of. I kid you not 10 minutes after he tells me this the guy before him I gave up on texts me lol! So of course I’m confused and I’ve had good days and bad days. I truly believe if someone really wants to be with you they will reach out. I don’t need s psychic to tell me that. It’s just common sense.

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