Author Topic: Feeling your POI?  (Read 2312 times)

Offline Littl30ne

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Re: Feeling your POI?
« Reply #15 on: September 26, 2017, 08:29:02 PM »
Yes, I have felt my POI, on so many occasions.  that is part of what led me to readings in the first place.  the connection was so intense.  I still feel him, and when we have had falling outs, I have felt his desperation.  It's crazy, tbh.  I know there is a reason for all of this, just not sure what it is yet.

I've had readers tell me I'm in my POI's energy and I would know I am because I'm feeling the things he's feeling. The thing is, how would you know it's what the other person is thinking or feeling instead of it just being you? Just curious :) I have days where I have really strong emotions but I feel like it's either me feeling sorry for myself or PMSing or maybe it's just a bad day.. sometimes they feel out of the ordinary but you never know right?

Offline sawthelight

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Re: Feeling your POI?
« Reply #16 on: September 27, 2017, 01:06:32 PM »
Yes, I have felt my POI, on so many occasions.  that is part of what led me to readings in the first place.  the connection was so intense.  I still feel him, and when we have had falling outs, I have felt his desperation.  It's crazy, tbh.  I know there is a reason for all of this, just not sure what it is yet.

I've had readers tell me I'm in my POI's energy and I would know I am because I'm feeling the things he's feeling. The thing is, how would you know it's what the other person is thinking or feeling instead of it just being you? Just curious :) I have days where I have really strong emotions but I feel like it's either me feeling sorry for myself or PMSing or maybe it's just a bad day.. sometimes they feel out of the ordinary but you never know right?

Good question, for me, at least, it would seem to come out of nowhere.

Offline Nala208111

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Re: Feeling your POI?
« Reply #17 on: February 14, 2018, 07:09:37 PM »
this is a great post....I'm new here and have been going through some old posts... any more info would be much appreciated.
i often feel my ex.... I even smell cigarette smoke time to time when i shouldn't (he is a smoker) have dreams about him, or vivid dreams of his family members talking to me.
i was reading above about the knots in the stomach... i never made the connection.

i often will go weeks without feeling my ex.. then i feel his energy strongly for several days, get a smell, have a dream.. then often the week after i get extreme anxiety and knots in my stomach... this is very uncharacteristic of me as i usually am more relaxed go with the flow person..
however i chalk it up to having a hard time with the break up or just my own anxiety over the split...

i have been told alot i have some empathetic traits... and i am picking up his anxiety... I'd love to believe this but believe in keeping grounded thoughts in not holding my breath that we still are soo connected and he is coming back.

How do you decipher what your feeling and what they are feeling?  Also i have a hard time when readers say he's coming back or my own tuition is telling me that - how do you not allow yourself to become too attached to that hope as to not to set yourself up for more hurt if it doesn't come through? 

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Re: Feeling your POI?
« Reply #18 on: February 15, 2018, 05:38:57 AM »
It helps to spend enough time alone so you know what your own energy feels like beyond the influence of others...first off to notice how you usually feel first thing when you wake up in the morning, before you start thinking about anyone else in particular (excluding times when you may wake up already thinking about someone right away which means you probably connected in dreamtime.) Take enough time to focus on yourself so you know how you feel..then later if you think about someone else, or they happen to pop i to your mind, notice what kinds of thoughts, feelings, sensations, or images start coming in, and how does it feel different from the way you were feeling before you started thinking about them. It can take some practice to know the difference, especially the more strongly empathic you are. We all have an empathic sense and some telepathic ability (the basis of all human communication is fundamentally telepathic), you may pick up words or images, and then some people will also pick up tactile sensations, physical symptoms, scents, sounds, flashing lights or colors associated with that person's energy. These things are all more common than most people realize, but people may block it out or ignore it or think that they are making it up. It is very real, and when a person is strongly thinking about you it can intrude on your awareness. Some people are more naturally empathic than others, or have some other sense that is especially strong and it can make it difficult to know where the boundary is between your energy and another person's...until you learn to recognize it but even then, when you have a strong connection with someone it can still be overwhelming. Typically the more empathic you are, the more important it is to spend time alone, do retreats, ground your energy, whatever helps you to clear the space around you so you can know what YOU feel like. This is probably why a lot of us end up calling psychics, because having a strong connection with someone can be so overwhelming and it is hard to find your way back to just feeling your own energy.

Offline Nala208111

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Re: Feeling your POI?
« Reply #19 on: February 16, 2018, 03:57:52 AM »
Thank u for the response!  I agree with probably reason we are more drawn to readings
I’m definitely going to try your suggestions especially being more aware  of how I’m feeling in the morning. I never really pay attention to how I’m feeling until I feel someone’s energy, have a dream with visions or weird sense and by then it’s already to late to make the sustaination of what I’m feeling vs what I’m picking up.  I naturally make time for myself, i can’t sleep well if I don’t and I used to meditate at night think I may start that again as well

Thank u again!