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Littl30ne:
Morland1 thank you so much hun, tonight I'm going to cry and let out all the emotions lol have a serious meditation and journaling night.

Mystery123 Aww so happy to hear! I love the positive energy on this thread you all are amazing !!

Tomorrow I'll be a brand new person ready to take on the world I'll update everyone with my progress and I hope you will all keep me updated too. I'm only going to read with one person from now on and I'll make my own list of pros and cons to avoid the rabbit hole. I wish there was a guide for psychic readings for beginners, I had to learn the hard/expensive way that a lot of readers either aren't real or just don't vibe with you and that can affect your thoughts. CP really messed it up for me omg! How can they advertise their readers are tested for accuracy when nothing anyone said came true? Lol!! 

mystery123:
Just had another thought and wanted to share.. another reason that made me think not to get specific readings but general readings maybe every 5-6 months is because if a psychic were to read me, then my intentions and actions would be totally different. I really want to and intend to lose weight, start exercising, finish some of my pending projects at work and I am thinking about all of it all the time. But I am seriously lacking action! So there you go! Same thing with POI..he can have all the thoughts, but action mean everything! LOL

HornetKick:

--- Quote from: Still tired on August 18, 2017, 05:39:50 AM ---I really regretted losing my ex, based on who he was at the time we broke up, BUT seeing what he has become since then I am so glad it ended. He has regressed to the point where he seems almost mentally retarded. We don't know what a person will become or how they will change later on. They might have been right for you just for a particular time and that's it. Then you have to part ways because you are literally on a different path than they are. I was the one who broke it off, almost on impulse, then immediately after regretted it and drove myself crazy trying to fix it. My gut instinct was right all along. I still love him and always will but we are not compatible. I thought we could have stayed friends but that wouldn't work either. We still have a strong heart connection but mentally we are not on the same wavelength at all. If I had stayed with him, I would have had to dumb myself way down just to get along with him. It would have been suffocating.

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OMG. I had to laugh at some of this just because I've seen examples of this in other people's lives. They stay with someone and they either have to be strong enough to bring the other person up to their level or the downside is that, that person is going to drag them down to where they are. It seems harsh, but I've seen it so many times.

morland1:
I completely agree here with everything you all have said. I think in the moment we think its the worst thing that could happen to us but down the road we see people morph into who they truly are and sometimes that  just isn't who we want any more. My ex was my BEST FRIEND. I mean we could look at each other randomly and know what each other was thinking. He was truly a "soul-mate" for me. I was devastated when we broke up and struggled with him wanting to be in and out of my life for 6 years. I look back on that now and I'm so thankful things didn't work out the way I wanted them to. I would have missed out on so many opportunities and experiences I have had if we would've worked out. Who he is today isn't who I would want to be with anyway. I tell myself sometimes that there is no way I would want that life. I don't know him anymore.

I struggled with my POI because I want to be in that space with him as I am with my ex. I know one day I will get there but I am still in the "this is the worst thing that could happen" stage. But I know I will be thanking my lucky stars one day because thats how it always is.

HornetKick:
Yep, it's just really difficult when you're in it, but do know that there is a light at the end of the tunnel. It's coming.

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