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AngelGuided:
Thanks Libra! Problem is that I do not have a lawyer to handle these things for me, can't really afford one right now. I do feel like I get through to him at times, as if he may be understanding what he's doing is wrong. He's actually asking me for my perspective and he wouldn't be doing that if he felt completely justified in what he's doing. I hold him accountable for his actions and I don't excuse him for it. I'm definitely taking him back to court to get what I need and what should've been mine anyway. I hope this outcome is better than our last visit. Even though the last court hearing wasn't fair to me at all, it definitely made a financial impact on him because he hadn't saved any $$. Now he's got to come up with money for his taxes and I'm sure he's pretty scared about this next appeal and how much more he will owe. Can he make it all work? She's scared to death of his emotional connection with me which is why she behaves so badly when he and I talk. Not to mention their financial situation because of his family obligations to us, this has made her bitter and resentful. I have been told by quite a few psychics that we can rebuild our marriage and it will be stronger and better than what it was before, that remains to be seen presently. I'm being objective about that at this time, we've been separated for a little more than 5 months now. The ball is in his court to see whether he makes an effort or not?
Positivethoughts, I think you've really made a breakthrough and some wonderful insight into your own life! You deserve to be loved and you deserve to be with a man who is available and committed to you in every way, emotionally, physically, and spiritually, whether that is your sm or another relationship. It does sound like you still have a connection with him. If Jacqueline has been able to help you find your strength and voice to assist you in teaching you the lessons you need to learn, your money has not been wasted. This personal revelation of self discovery is just what you needed.
positivethoughts:
Thanks Angel. I feel like my money has been well spent - once I found who I connected with etc. CP has been a great tool for me. I've decided when he calls me that I'm telling him I just want to be friends for now. I am so very scared to do it but I'm ready to let go. We have a very strong spiritual connection that actually scared me at times - he can read me like a book and knows when I'm sick, when I'm sad, when I'm thinking about making a big move or purchase - even when we haven't talked for weeks. I could write paragraphs about all of the weird stuff that has happened. I know it scares and confuses him as well and I've tried to have unconditional love and patience while he works through his issues but it is impacting me emotionally - for 6 month's - and I have 3 young kids, a career, and a big fun life to live. I'm sick of being sad and lonely. He "feels" me stronger then I "feel" him. I have no idea what he is up to but I can tell when he is going to call. I literally feel the energy coming starting the day before. There is no one else but this group I could share this with - LOL.
They say our souls were ready to meet but physically was too early for him. Maybe it was for me too. I guess I feel lucky that I got to experience this type of connection. I hope I have the opportunity for it continue but it is out of my hands.
I am so ready for the next phase of my life - bring it on finally!!
positivethoughts:
also - about CP - like everyone I've had some BAD BAD BAD readings. It took me awhile to find who and what worked for me. It amazes me that some of them actually have a job on CP but maybe they are accurate for someone out there.
fm:
Hi all,
I have been reading this forum since I joined the complain board. I have been hesitating to write this post for quite a while but I guess I am probably one of the "Negative Energies" in this forum. I too have my fair share of calling CP and spending 1.5K over 2 months speaking to psychics whose timelines have passed one by one and yet I have not heard from my ex or whatsover.
I still love him so much. And I wonder how will I ever move on or be emotionally stronger. I too after trying CP who told me so many things that yes he would come back, we are meant to be together, etc. But seeing nothing happened till that, I have asked the tarot lady and Maggie White whom said he is gone forever, I am so confused on who to ask or what will happen.
Of course, I understand the pain that everyone is going through, but in anycase, I have registered 2 accounts with CP unfortunately or fortunately they have merged and both accounts are locked and I cannot log into the page to add money or whatever. Hence I cannot call any psychics! I am proventing myself from calling the Customer Services to sort that out and spend more money.
At the end of the day, like kirakira, I think we all need someone to listen to, someone to offer emotional support and a listening ear to tide us through this. At the end of the day, if we could move on and let go, we would be much happier. A suggestion to thehealer, you may want to create a seperate column for support to each other. I too is looking for epople to talk to and to offer help to anyone who needs it.
fm:
Hi thehealer
Thanks for creating the Lets be Friends board :P. You mentioned that you are free at afternoon or nights at California. Is it 12:10 am over your place? Its now 4:10pm where I am at. Haha. Yes I am in my office surfing the net :P
I know it is of course best to have hopes, but I know that loving someone but not receiprocated is very painful. I seriously have no ideas how you people hang on everyday for months and years. It has been 3 months and I already find it a chore! I wish I could be detached of switch my feelings off. How long can one person be miserable for? Is it worth to wait for years and years and for someone to treat you this way, what makes I think that he wont do it again? Sigh I am so depressed.
My heart tells me that during the time we were together there was a connection and we truely loved each other and now its over. Period. I dun hear anything from him, and I wonder if he feels the same, or if there are any future for between us. I wanted to let go but I still loved him too much. After he wants no strings attached fun. I do not know.
I wish I could know other guys and hopefully find someone who is worth my time, effort and money.
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