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Libra:
To be honest only one psychics at CP held me on the phone just to keep the minutes going and it was Anya Dawn. Unfortunately her readings weren't consistent. And when she ran out of predictions she started flattering me saying "wow, you are doing so well, you are great person, and so on, and so on...." seemed she could go, and go for hours if I stayed on the phone. So that was the only one bad experience, I had. Other psychics I read with, just answered my question and let me hang up. Which is very fair, I think.
aef2929 P:
Hi!
I just want to start by saying that since I am the one who spoke about that we are all here not judging each other I just want to make sure that I clarify that was meant as a good thing and not directed at you Kira. I truly meant that we are here helping each other, encouraging each other, and this started out with all of us reaching out in desperation to see "what are other's experiences?" and "is this all a scam?" and then it quickly turned into support, encouraging, views, and then The VENT -- Psychic Break made by CSK on the other board. So maybe we can not call so much and try to help each other in between in the forum. So this has been a great place for everyone. So I apologize if you felt it was directed at you it was not it was directed at everyone to recognize the good that everyone is doing for each other with speaking openly of their experiences. We are all learning from each other.
Angel -- Wow I feel you are incredibly strong to be dealing with all of this with your husband. But it does sound like he's struggling with some emotions here.
I agree with Libra yes this experience in here and that we are all having with these soulmates is making all of us take a look at ourselves and go within. That's usually why we are supposed to have these experiences -- and some say we've asked for this experience before we came into this life. We wanted to experience this and learn from it. Maybe we're afraid to be alone....maybe we have to learn to love ourselves first. I will say that always the best thing to do when you are experiencing sadness or grief of any kind is to focus on yourself -- work on you! Pamper yourself, treat yourself, take a class, etc.... I mean look at Jennifer Aniston after the breakup with Brad Pitt!!!! She never looked better....there was plenty written about her emotions, and such but she focused on herself and kept moving in life. Also, often in these situations we are all not really ready and that's why the separation occurs....some of us are attached to others...some are not ready financially, etc... We usually talk about the runner not being ready. But usually we ourselves are not totally ready and we don't realize it. So we all have work to do.
And yes I agree that relationships are about adding to each other's lives. We're not supposed to lose ourselves in the other person.
But I think we all totally get it in here...we know how we feel, we know we have up times, down times, we go through times we're obsessed and times we're ok.
And I still feel a psychic reading is helpful, can give clarity, but it's not supposed to run our lives....and we're supposed to use it with our own gut feeling. And we're supposed to believe, and trust, and have faith, in ourselves and the situation.
And yes CP is so big I'm sure it owns several smaller sites. And when you google for psychic readings and it comes up first on the internet....that costs plenty. And I hear them advertise on the radio all the time...when I first started reading on CP they did not advertise on the radio. So the rising prices go to advertising. And the owner's are filmakers. Outlook Amusements are 2 men I googled one time and saw it. They use CP to fund their movie business I'm sure.
Hopefully though, they have some on there at least that have enough of a conscience to do the right thing by the callers. I've had 3 psychics keep me on the phone in all the time I've read on there...one was Winter, one was Linda (she was the worst we were done and she said how about your career? etc...), and one was Anasela.
Libra:
At CP they should start caring more about customer service, cause if too many people complain, the word will spread around and the company will suffer. Good thing is that I had customer service advise me to hang up immediately if I don't feel the connection with a psychic immediately. They also refunded me money for a reading that completely didn't make sense to me.
But hopefully websites like this and complaints will be heard by the owners and people who work there, so something will be done.
Libra:
Wow AngelGuided! I read your story. It's so much drama. I am sorry that your children are exposed to this. Do you really want to get back with him? After all this? He is exposing children to this, and dragging them into this whole sick situation. Seriously do what you want, but I would just resolve everything in court and make sure that you get all you need. I wouldn't even communicate with him, I would have a lawyer handle everything.
positivethoughts:
I've been feeling kinda down lately and doing a lot of thinking.
I read an article yesterday on CP about heaven. For some reason it stuck with me. About how it is pure love and happiness. That you help something with your energy and they in turn help you, etc. The example was flowers but I related it to real life. I also went to church last night and was really trying to piece all of this together and figure out why I am still in this rut. But this AM I figured it out. I haven't felt like I deserved more then I was getting - in my 14 year marriage, in my relationships since the end of the marriage, with relationships before my marriage, etc. I have never felt worthy of having someone fully committed to me so I've excepted less.
Jacqueline, for awhile, has been trying to get me to be strong, stick up for myself with SM, be aloof, be unavailable etc. I kept thinking, that is so mean, I really try to keep positive karma and treat others how I would want to be treated. He has "problems" with commitment and intimacy due to significant issues from his past - but she is right. Doing this will help him evolve.
It is a fine line - do onto others as you would have done onto yourself - while not being a doormat. Fight for what you deserve - whatever that might be.
So to my friends who are waiting, fighting for their marriage, trying to find themselves, as long as we are being honest with ourselves, on the path to self respect and to our highest "good", we will find happiness. I've used CP's to help validate I'm on the right path and have had some really cool stuff happen. I'm very aware that they have been and can be wrong - but their validation is helping me on my journey - my long and very bumpy road. I don't know if I will really end up with SM, but if I was in a "real" relationship right now I wouldn't have stopped the cycle. I would keep making the same mistakes over and over and over again.
OK - That is my Sunday morning revelation. :) Enjoy the day everyone.
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