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cj:
The only thing I can tell you is to not think that because 10 psychics tell you the same thing, that it will happen. I know it sucks. We want to hear that the person we love will be with us and marry us and live happily ever after...but in reality not all stories end perfectly. Keep you mind open to all possible outcomes. If your instincts is telling you he might not leave that than is reason enough for you to keep your distance and move on. sometimes our guides want us to move on to kind of push the person back into our lives.


Quick true inspirational story you'll love:

My friend was with this guy for four years. He met some other woman and had a baby by her. My friend was distraught (like me) :'( but she loved him, and she took him back. he then got the same girl pregnant again! (can you believe it!) so she took him back again and finally after I knocked some sense into her she left him. She and I graduated college and she moved to Florida. Ther guy ended up with the mother of his kids of course. He moved in with her and everything.

Meanwhile my friend had her life moving in all positive directions. She brought a house, and she had a new bf she moved in with for two years. So one day her new bf told her he didnt love her  :o and he was moving out. ( :-X )

Her and her ex that had two daughters by now was living on his own. He and the mother of his kids  broke up and he was living by himself. When my friend became available he committed to her, married her and now they have a newborn baby.

They were broken up for 4 1/2 years. I witnessed the whole story unfold like a Nicholas Sparks movie.   

Who wouldve thought they would be back together. But he said after being without her for so long he realized that she is all that he wants and sometimes that takes years for them to realize that. You just have to have faith girl. Maybe it won't happen now. Maybe it won't happen with him but it will happen. Soul mates will always come back. No matter what. Have confidence and believe that love in its truest and rarest form does conquer all...even if it doesn't end the way you want it to.

moneta:
cjean---wow life is full of so my twists and turns.....

cj:
you have no idea! lol. I think if we knew everything now we wouldn't know the lessons. After all our souls are here to learn things and grow. Just how we are meant to learn and grow so is our partners. We won't always be in syc together as far as growth which is why sometimes things seem like they may never happen. But its not always when but if it will happen at all. If the person that you are meant to be is not responding than it becomes harder and you're always given a choice on whether it is best to move on or stay unfulfilled.

cj:
its a story of inspiration healer. I love the name you chose for yourself. Its time for you t heal yourself. Find it in your heart to forgive those who hurt you and move on. You c an still love someone and move on. Its just your way of releasing to the universe the plan that they have paved for you...which may or may not involve you both. Forgiveness however accepts those changes being made. As you can see..my friend moved on and accepted those changes. And ultimately she received what she always wanted dearly in her heart..and thats for him to love and appreciate her. "The TRUTH": It may not lead you to where you thought you were going, but it will always lead you somewhere better. When ignored, it will eventually show itself.

I remember Abrielle told me my lesson was to show my sm the truth about love. Real love. That is the one thing we cannot ignore. No matter how many times we try to bend it, twist it, transform it..but we can never hide from the truth.


Stay +  :-*

cj:
will this pain ever go away? and when?

I told my ex that we can be friends and that Im seeing someone else (of course Im not) its only been 3 weeks. I just don't think Im ready. I wake  up in this depressed state every morning. I don't want to be his friend. What's the point? I feel like I'll just get hurt again.

My heart is so broken and I just don't know what to do. It seems like its a never ending pain. I hate this. :(

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