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Love-33:
Hello all :)

Sorry I know this is probably not the right place to ask this, but as this section is the most read then I thought I'd post it here. I'm starting to have doubts on my boyfriend.
He used to be dating a girl when he was in Australia for a few weeks while he was on long holiday there ( before we started being in a relationship which is pretty recent). Bummer, she was only an expat there and is now back in the U.K. Apparently, they catched up!
I saw this conversation on his phone while he was in the shower:

Her: sorry I may have forgotten to say thank you for the drinks and dinner so...thank you very much.
Him: you're welcome! It was fun catching up. When you get a job you can buy me a drink ( :P). Let's do it again sometime. Goodnight x


Be honest... does it look only friendly to you or does it look like he is interested in reconnection romantically with her

Sooshi:
Doesn't sound like anything happened. Sounds like he's keeping her in the wings just in case. Are you guys having any problems?

Baypark1:
I agree.  It sounds like it was just a friendly meeting.  However, he should have told you about it BUT you shouldn't be snooping on his phone either.  You need to trust him!

Love-33:

--- Quote from: Sooshi on May 19, 2017, 08:07:09 PM ---Doesn't sound like anything happened. Sounds like he's keeping her in the wings just in case. Are you guys having any problems?

--- End quote ---

Well, he apparently paid for her drinks and dinner. If he didn't like her he wouldn't have offered that. Nor would he have suggested seeing her again after this catch up.
This is enough to hurt me.

cosmogirl76:
If I were you I'd be open about it. Just confess you snooped on his phone, that it was totally inapropriate, but that you are having some weird feelings regarding him seeing that girl. Try and speak from your own emotions, not like you should have this or you that....just say I feel like, or it makes me feel insecure or ..... well you get the idea. If you dont discuss this, this will stand between you and will probably go down hill. If there's no trust there's basically no foundation

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