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sunshineluv7:

Hi Susie, sounds like you are having a "hindsight is 20/20" moment. I can totally understanding hoping for the best/believing for the best and seeing the good parts in someone and not wanting to give up. That was me for those 2.5 years. And yes, it always starts out amazing, or else we wouldn't get into it at all, would we? :)

It sounds like he has some major issues he has to work on before he'd be a good partner to anyone at all. I know it's hard though, but I really do think that the pain of letting go/rejection/moving on is what drives us to talk to psychics.

We don't want to let go or move on or accept what is really happening, we want it to be different. And the aloneness where they used to be in our lives, stinks. But if your force yourself to go through those spaces, eventually they don't feel so uncomfortable.

It's okay to feel uncomfortable and "not good" - but our society makes us think that's not okay, hence why people turn to self-medicating with drugs or alcohol or in our case psychic readings. It's a pacifier at the end of the day.

Don't beat yourself up though for staying with it and wanting it to be better. Most women want that happily ever after, or even just content domestic harmony with a man they love. And when we thought we had that and it slips away, we get upset.

But sometimes you have to let go before life can give you what it really had in mind/something better.

Hugs.

bluebelle:

--- Quote from: sunshineluv7 on May 09, 2017, 04:48:40 PM ---
Hi Susie, sounds like you are having a "hindsight is 20/20" moment. I can totally understanding hoping for the best/believing for the best and seeing the good parts in someone and not wanting to give up. That was me for those 2.5 years. And yes, it always starts out amazing, or else we wouldn't get into it at all, would we? :)

It sounds like he has some major issues he has to work on before he'd be a good partner to anyone at all. I know it's hard though, but I really do think that the pain of letting go/rejection/moving on is what drives us to talk to psychics.

We don't want to let go or move on or accept what is really happening, we want it to be different. And the aloneness where they used to be in our lives, stinks. But if your force yourself to go through those spaces, eventually they don't feel so uncomfortable.

It's okay to feel uncomfortable and "not good" - but our society makes us think that's not okay, hence why people turn to self-medicating with drugs or alcohol or in our case psychic readings. It's a pacifier at the end of the day.

Don't beat yourself up though for staying with it and wanting it to be better. Most women want that happily ever after, or even just content domestic harmony with a man they love. And when we thought we had that and it slips away, we get upset.

But sometimes you have to let go before life can give you what it really had in mind/something better.

Hugs.

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great post :)))

Susie1976:
Thank you everyone, I really appreciate your encouragement. I def need it. I need to get to that point of letting go. I'm not there yet but I feel myself letting go more and more.  I never was a "rip the band aid off fast" person.  I'm very happy and thankful I found this forum. I do believe it calling Pyschics is like an addiction.  I need to start my road to recovery. Thank you again xoxo

FaithnTrust:
He sounds like my ex - a very broken, very depressed person. Know that you can't help him. Save yourself and don't try and save him. Only he can do that.

maroonlight:
I agree, that you should talk to him and ask him when he plans on and if he thinks at all that he will be able to get over his issues and have a stable relationship with you. I can imagine how frustrating this situation is for you..

I wish I could give CP a better rap, but they told me the exact opposite of what was going to happen with the person who I thought was the love of my life. I had never felt a stronger connection with anyone more than my ex, and I truly believed we were meant for each other. CP told me he would come back and we would be together, but that never happened, and I tried reaching out to him. They deceived me horribly.

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